Family & Relationships - 15 July 2007

2007-07-15 11:17:58 · 22 answers · asked by Sara007 5 in Singles & Dating

My good friend Karen's husband cheated on her while they were trying for a baby and he got the other woman pregnant instead.This is not the first time this has happened to her it also happened with an ex.bf.Anyway she has been depressed and angry since then.She keeps asking me what she did wrong?I do not want to tell her that she does not have great taste in men even though its true 90%percent of the men she dated were jerks,cheaters,abusive or all of the above in some way.When she had a nice man she used him as a door matt.She recently heard her ex.bf whom she dated when she was 18-19 ish for 1 yr and half is getting married.Worse her ex.bf is marrying the girl he cheated on her with and got pregnant.The ex.bf now has two children with this other women and a third on the way.My friend Karen now want to sleep with this guy again and is throwing herself at him(thus far he has turned her down).I worry but dont know how to help her out of this rut?

2007-07-15 11:17:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i fought my problem can u tell me

2007-07-15 11:16:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-15 11:14:04 · 19 answers · asked by beachgirl 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for over a year. Every month i get this feeling that my husband does not love me the way i love him. He does alot of things that are hurtful to me, but he doesn't see him doing it. for instance, he doesn't like kissing me anymore. When we were just dating, he loved kissing me, but once we got married, he pushes me away everytime i go to kiss him. he says it's because I wear out my welcome and kiss him to much. Recently i have had some guy friends tell me they see the way he treats me and they don't think he treats me good. He doesn't hit or anything, and when we argue he shuts up and stops talking so we don't get into terrible fights. I love him more than anything and we are even trying for a baby but i feel so unloved. I even get thoughts about what it would be like without him and i always wonder if i made a mistake marrying him and maybe there is someone out there that treats me better. I don't know what to do?! any advice please!!!

2007-07-15 11:13:35 · 36 answers · asked by brit24 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm writing an article on why people divorce. Is anyone willing to share why they split from their significant other? All I need is your answer, along with a first name and last initial. If you want to share your state, as well as how long you've been divorced and if you've remarried that would be great. Thanks.

2007-07-15 11:11:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

a boy asked him if he likes me he said no a few weeks later he asked him if he had a chance to go out with me would he do it he said yes i asked the boy that asks the buy stuuf afew weeks later does he want to go out with me he said maybe

2007-07-15 11:08:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I meet this guy last week and we meet up again today and i said to him in convo that you have just come round 2 get ur dick wet . He paused and then said yes that he was not looking for a relationsip and that he felt bad but really i cod tell that he didn't give a crap. I wanna say wot made him think that i was the type of person to be like that? Do u think that i should call or just leave it ?

2007-07-15 11:07:43 · 23 answers · asked by deb_star_82 3 in Singles & Dating

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AkiKJo4MW7o2emEVQ4erHNbsy6IX?qid=20070715144554AAoraMg

2007-07-15 11:05:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok im helping my friend plan her wedding and this is the dress shes gonna wear.....
http://davidsbridal.com/bridal_gowns_detail.jsp?stid=2827&prodgroup=10 (in pool color)

but she cant decide which bridesmaid dress... i know theres a lot but bear with me

http://davidsbridal.com/bridesmaids_bycolor_detail.jsp?stid=2333&sid=7985&cfid=34 (with a brown bow tied to the back around the waist)

http://davidsbridal.com/bridesmaids_bycolor_detail.jsp?stid=2651&sid=13018&cfid=34

http://davidsbridal.com/bridesmaids_bycolor_detail.jsp?stid=2772&sid=12852&cfid=34

http://davidsbridal.com/bridesmaids_bycolor_detail.jsp?stid=1353&sid=8346&cfid=34

http://davidsbridal.com/bridesmaids_bycolor_detail.jsp?stid=1552&sid=8351&cfid=34

http://davidsbridal.com/bridesmaids_bycolor_detail.jsp?stid=2042&sid=15553&cfid=34

http://davidsbridal.com/bridesmaids_bycolor_detail.jsp?stid=2811&sid=12916&cfid=34

http://davidsbridal.com/bridesmaids_bycolor_detail.jsp?stid=2817&sid=12904&cfid=34

2007-07-15 11:04:33 · 30 answers · asked by christinalovdogs 2 in Weddings

2007-07-15 11:03:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

sat under the stars with your partner and romantically picked one out as YOURS..?

2007-07-15 10:58:54 · 19 answers · asked by jenniesrainbow 3 in Singles & Dating

There's this guy in my piano class, and he always teases me. He made up a nick name for me, and he's ruthless. One time I laughed at something he did, and he stuck a middle finger right in my face and held it there. He's such a jerk.

So I saw him while I was at the mall yesterday with my guy friend. He said my nickname, which is turtle. No way do I look like a turtle. And he came over and we talked I guess, he was really nice, and he gave me a hug? What the heck? Does he just feel bad for everything he did to me in the past or what?

2007-07-15 10:56:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

please help!!!!!!!!!!! my husband and i are celebrating our 10 year anniversary and we have been thru so much that we want to renew our wedding vows and make it a nice affair the problem is whether we should invite my inlaws or leave them out as they don't like me or they dont communicate with my husband except to gossip. I want them there to rub it in their face but i dont want his mother to make it all about her i need some true advice please??????????????????

2007-07-15 10:55:10 · 9 answers · asked by THE UK WILDCAT FAMILY 10 6 in Weddings

I've been dating a girl for roughly a month (we were friends before then), and we are seeing eachother exclusively. We always make plans for our days off together. I have met her friends and have gone on double dates with her and her friends. We make out every chance we get (movies,beach,park...). We talk on the phone everyday 3 hours total (morning and late at night). But we have never talked about the boyfriend/girlfriend thing? Is it appropriate to bring it up now? Cause if I were to bring it up, I'm pretty sure nothing in the slightest would change other than us getting even closer. OR should I wait for her to bring it up?

2007-07-15 10:54:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

all of these grown men are openly staring at me. Why do men who are obviously much older than me (at least 10 years) staring at me? What do you think about when you stare at someone? Is it true that you're "undressing them with your eyes"? I mean, I got a bit older, and I ummmm, well I "developed" a bit more recently....but I am nothing stare worthy, so are these men retarted or something?

2007-07-15 10:54:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was talking 2 him he was all like sup looking at me top 2 bottom starring at me putting his hand on his chin

2007-07-15 10:53:45 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love my boyfriend, been with him for just over a year now. Some of my mates hate him now, and are saying he has changed. There is this party thing next saturday night, but I can't go, but my mates and my boyfriend are. They are all planning on "killing him" in other words they're gonna start on him and kcik him in. They are my best friends, and are begging me not to tell him, they want it to be a suprise. But i want to tell him, what should i do? im so confused!!! please help me out here!
x peace x

2007-07-15 10:49:22 · 1 answers · asked by harlequinromancex 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok i have been asking a lot of questions about my bf. but now i am p!ssed! ok yesterday his friends came over (as a matter of fact they are alwyas over) and they kept talking about girls and how many he has "done it with" and all the girls in my bf's phone and i was steamed! and this morning i told him before he left for work that me and him needa stop acting like children and talk when he got home. i even called him while he was a work and said it again and that his loser friends cant come over until we talk. but he got home 44 min ago and he guess who came. his loser friends! (I call them losers because they are they have no life all they wanna do is go out and see how many girls they can do it with!) and now i see why he has changed because of them. i try and try to talk to him but he wont listen. (yes i know what most of u are gonna say he dosent care about my feelings) but i cant leave here. i had stayed with my mom so many times now and she lives with her bf and he told me that..

2007-07-15 10:46:58 · 13 answers · asked by shelly 2 in Singles & Dating

I want to learn Japanese REALLY badly. Why? I don't know exactly. I guess it's because I'm really getting into it. I watch a little anime, and my favorite singer sings in Japanese/English. I guess, I just think it's beautiful and think that learning to speak it would be enjoyable.
I'm learning Latin right now, and my parents want me to know how to speak a speakable language. My school does not offer Japanese, but does offer Italian and Chinese. Most people don't like Chinese because the teacher is very mean. I might like Italian, and I might pick it up easily if I know Latin, but I don't have a passion for Italian.
I'm considering getting the Rosetta Stone series for my computer. My parents would like me to learn Chinese since they think I'm only young once and I should get to know something for my future since we have excess trade with the Chinese, but I really want to learn Japanese instead.
What I'm asking is: what do you think I should do? I don't plan to do Chinese business.

2007-07-15 10:45:47 · 5 answers · asked by My Name Doesn't Fit Here 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I like him but hes always staring at me like im madonna.

2007-07-15 10:44:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was wondering since he is in the military would it be easier to have a military wedding or a normal wedding, or maybe combine the two and make it different...i dunno i need advice

2007-07-15 10:42:04 · 8 answers · asked by lilruby052001 3 in Weddings

thank you !! heres my problem - the guy i like/love ( we were exes) He has definatly expressed some recipricol feelings for me, so i think he likes me at lesat some, i dont know how much though. i wrote him a long email ( bout 2 long paragraphs) asking him all about how he feels and tellin him that i need to know so i can either move on or we can work this thing out and i told him how im fallin back in love w/ him again... men, is this something that would scare you off , given the circumstances ( ie we are exes etc..) ? also, he knows ive been wanting him in a horny way last weekend and told me back he was horny too, but i had to knwo if there is love there (or just sex) thats y i wrote this email too.

2007-07-15 10:41:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Today I told my girlfriend I wouldn't be able to see her tomorrow (school) and she said it's cool because she was going to hang it with a new friend (a guy) she made in summer school so I said "cool" and said I would see her on Tuesday.

I'm not really worried or anything and I probably won't even bring anything up about this because she doesn't have many friends anyways. She's trying to make new friends because her old friends back stabbed her and I just kind of wish she would make friends of her own gender I guess...

Anyways, only question I have is if it is normal for a girl to go out with another guy. I think if I told her I was going out with another girl she would probably castrate me, she gets jealous easily.

Details:

Girlfriend = Almost 16
Other guy = 15
Me = Recently turned 18

Dating 8 months, serious relationship (40+ hours a week together), things are going great, rarely fight.

Is it normal for her to hang out with a guy alone?

2007-07-15 10:41:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I saw David Beckam getting welcomed to the LA Galaxies the other day and when the mayor stepped up he was treated like hitler. It was pretty rough. I know he was unfaithful to his wife but that cant be the only reason.

2007-07-15 10:41:10 · 7 answers · asked by liamo21 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok....I have a little sister and she just turned 6 yrs old a month ago,and she just wont listen to me worth nothing.Take for example,1 day we were in Wal-Mart,and my mom told us to stay with each other while she go and get something,and so my little sis wanted to go sooo bad,but my mom wouldnt let her and so 3 minutes later my little sis let go of my hand and she took of running,and so i was like Jaylen(my little sis)get back here before i call mom....And she still didnt come...So i went lookin for her,and i couldnt find her nooooo where!!!!! I was sooo scared,because my mom was gonna think that i wasnt looking after her,and i didnt want my mom to think such a thing,because i like looking after my little sis.So...i called my mom and told her what happened,and my mom said that my little sis was with her...I was sooo mad,because my mom wasnt even mad at my lil sis!!!!!But,N-E-Ways...this was not the 1st time shes ran off.And i really love my sis,and i dont want nothing to happen 2 her...

2007-07-15 10:37:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Do you like a talkative girl? so much smart, amusing, having many topics, fun and intellect or still you appreciate much more silent moments? lol

2007-07-15 10:37:30 · 17 answers · asked by Sara007 5 in Singles & Dating

so i asked a guy that i was once involved with if he had a girlfriend. he say why do you ask that im just with my friends. i said oh okay but do you have a girlfriend? he said oh yeah for like 5 months. i said aww i thats cute. then he called me and said i just called you cause my girl thinks were messing around. i texted him and said tif your girl thinks that then stop calling and texting. he said he would call me i said no. then he goes on to say hes not with her anymore and she is stupid!! but 20 minutes ago that was his girl! hw then texted this:

lying about what. stop messing with her.thats just like how it was wit you tell her im down and go bacj but i dont need to go back cause im really in love but i need to move on.

do you even think he really has a girlfriend

2007-07-15 10:36:20 · 6 answers · asked by UW2010 3 in Singles & Dating

I was an army brat, and was teased all through school. I never had any good friends who didn't tease me or use me for my money, (and guy friends had bad intentions too) status, clothes, etc. I paid to be in a sorority and thought I had good friends there, but when it was disbanded, all of those girls stopped talking to me. Any "friends" I make are temporary, based on what I can offer them at the time (literally, not kidding). Now I'm 23 and single and lonely. I am on myspace (nobody emails me back!), I've tried other networking sites, I've even tried dating guys who had lots of friends to sap friends from him! I'm a teacher who has better friends who are teenaged students than adults. No matter how much people tell me to "try harder" "talk to people" "be proactive" I've done all of the above and it goes unreciprocated. I'm not ugly. What's wrong with me????????????????
Do I have to get married and have kids to get over this?

2007-07-15 10:31:21 · 6 answers · asked by marisa_g1rl 3 in Friends

My fiance agreed to take care of four things: Mow the yard, clean the cat's litter box, vacuum, and keep the living room picked up.

But he's such a procrastinator that he doesn't get those things done until I start bugging him.

And he doesn't like to clean up after anyone but himself. He doesn't mind picking up his trash off the living room floor, but if I leave a mess on the computer desk, he won't touch it. He says I have to clean up my own mess.

But I get stuck cleaning up after him in every other part of the house. I put a laundry basket right next to his dressor, yet he still throws his clothes on the floor a foot away from the basket. And I don't just clean my dirty dishes, I clean his too.

I'm tired of being a nag, and I don't like that I clean up after him, but he won't ever clean up after me. What should I do differently?

2007-07-15 10:31:17 · 12 answers · asked by Zoey 1 in Other - Family & Relationships