I've been dating a girl for roughly a month (we were friends before then), and we are seeing eachother exclusively. We always make plans for our days off together. I have met her friends and have gone on double dates with her and her friends. We make out every chance we get (movies,beach,park...). We talk on the phone everyday 3 hours total (morning and late at night). But we have never talked about the boyfriend/girlfriend thing? Is it appropriate to bring it up now? Cause if I were to bring it up, I'm pretty sure nothing in the slightest would change other than us getting even closer. OR should I wait for her to bring it up?
2007-07-15 10:54:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I always thought girls bring up the relationship conversation...?
2007-07-15 10:58:08 · update #1
I've already told her I really cared for her and liked her a lot, she told me she felt the same way a few times.
2007-07-15 11:01:41 · update #2
Boyfriend/girlfriend thing? Why do you even have to discuss that. If you're seeing each other exclusively isn't that enough? It seems obvious to me that you are a couple. Words aren't always necessary. Enjoy the relationship.
2007-07-15 11:03:54 · answer #1 · answered by crazywoman88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Cause if I were to bring it up, I'm pretty sure nothing in the slightest would change"
that's exactly right.
anyway why would a person want to use so much energy on trying to get a "title" when they know they already have thier game straight.
2007-07-15 18:01:03 · answer #2 · answered by LemmeSeeYaCardzz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you kiss? Kissing is a sure sign of a relationship. If you declare it; there should be kissing. If you didn't and there's still kissing; nothing will change. It's just that one embrace and the adoration you have for each other that makes a difference. That's all.
2007-07-15 17:58:30 · answer #3 · answered by My Name Doesn't Fit Here 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you looked on this forum and seen how many questions there are called "does he like me?" She is not going to bring it up. Get her a promise ring or something.
2007-07-15 17:58:38 · answer #4 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that YOU as the guy should bring it up. Sometimes people just don't want to bring it up because they want to know that the other person's feelings are real. Let her know that your feelings are real and bring it up! It'll be cute.
2007-07-15 17:57:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
since u 2 go smooch every once in a while theres notin 2 talk about.
2007-07-15 18:00:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems as though you two are pretty close so I think that you should have no problem talking about it.
2007-07-15 18:00:28 · answer #7 · answered by ALia C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're the guy- if you feel it, then bring it up...!!! She might be waiting on you...
2007-07-15 17:57:32 · answer #8 · answered by PDX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should wait until you have had sex together if you have then you should ask her in case she feels used off you
2007-07-15 17:57:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋