Ok....I have a little sister and she just turned 6 yrs old a month ago,and she just wont listen to me worth nothing.Take for example,1 day we were in Wal-Mart,and my mom told us to stay with each other while she go and get something,and so my little sis wanted to go sooo bad,but my mom wouldnt let her and so 3 minutes later my little sis let go of my hand and she took of running,and so i was like Jaylen(my little sis)get back here before i call mom....And she still didnt come...So i went lookin for her,and i couldnt find her nooooo where!!!!! I was sooo scared,because my mom was gonna think that i wasnt looking after her,and i didnt want my mom to think such a thing,because i like looking after my little sis.So...i called my mom and told her what happened,and my mom said that my little sis was with her...I was sooo mad,because my mom wasnt even mad at my lil sis!!!!!But,N-E-Ways...this was not the 1st time shes ran off.And i really love my sis,and i dont want nothing to happen 2 her...
2007-07-15 10:37:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sweetie, you can't MAKE anybody listen to you. What you CAN do though is to learn from your sisters behavior. You have already learned that sometimes you really need to listen to older family members which is the wisdom you want to impart to your younger sis. But she may not be ready or old enough to learn that lesson yet. In the meanwhile, you've learned that your little sis will try to get away and run from you. You may want to make sure to hold her a little tighter when walking near a busy street or across an intersection.
She will be ready to learn this, and other lessons. Maybe not right now but soon enough. You won't be able to force this knowledge into her but your guidance and guardianship will help her.
2007-07-15 11:03:28 · answer #1 · answered by cc smith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that if she doesnt listen to you when she's supposed to... you're not going to play with her & when she asks you for a favor,you're not going to help her...even though you are..but just to scare her or whatever
2007-07-15 10:44:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about what could happen to her, even if it scares her, it is better than living it, and if you have to leave a cart full of payed for goodies and a purse, so what? it is a life we are talking about you ,must RUN after her, take vitamins if you have to.
2007-07-15 10:43:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to show her you are in chage and your mom should help with this. it is hard to make them listen.
you should practice at home being in charge a little to help her adjust to it. you help her with her bath or getting dinner or ready for bed a few nights or soemthing
2007-07-15 10:42:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww!! this happens to me a lot of times..before..she is giving to you..tell her you have your own rules..and she will have to stay with you.. and then tell her if she does go away then you will go to the toy section where there are barbies (what ever toys she likes) and you will play with them and she will not cuz she ran away... ☺ i do it all the time..and she sticks with me and tell her mommy will be happy because she stayed..
2007-07-15 10:45:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like she is just very attatched 2 her mom. if u sound 2 authorative, she will just run away 2 ur mom again.
2007-07-15 10:40:49 · answer #6 · answered by babysitter ( : 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell your mom you can't be responsible for your sister because she doesn't mind you.
2007-07-15 10:42:04 · answer #7 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give her a little talking to.
2007-07-15 10:40:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Beat the f u c k i n g s h i t out her!!
2007-07-16 17:12:18 · answer #9 · answered by riu bambu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she doesnt have to listen to you....YOU R NOT THE MOMMA.
2007-07-15 10:43:28 · answer #10 · answered by ladysschwarm 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋