i'm a 14 years old.i've completely normal i have friends and i hang out with people a lot.i like a normal healthy life, but until it comes to relationships.i am always being asked out by boys and i turn them down even if i like them it's like i'm afriad to get close to them.it's not like i think i'm fat or ugly i mean i'm thin and i'm no beauty i'm just your average pretty girl (is what i'm told) i don't think i'm ugly because a lot of boys like me.i mean i've been with a boy and they go to kiss me and i pull away and i won't make out with anyone. what wrong with me?
2007-07-15 14:35:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nothing is wrong with you. You're 14. Save the kissing and stuff for when you are older and actually ready for it.
2007-07-15 14:39:07 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you. One thing could be you are just still young and deep down you don't feel ready. Its totally understandable. Another thing could be that you've witnessed heartbreak growing up or maybe your parents fought a lot or are divorced and you see their relationship and you don't want to be hurt like they were. Just keep in mind you are only 14 and you got plenty of time to date and you don't need to rush anything. I'm 16 and i totally understand this. I've been single for quite some time now and every time I get close to a guy I find his flaws and don't go for it or dump him. Just last year I was dating this great guy and we were together for a month and EVERYTHING seemed perfect until every little flaw popped out. Sometimes I wonder if somethings wrong with me too. So don't worry just try to have fun with your friends and someday you might be surprised when the perfect guy sweeps you off your feet.
2007-07-15 14:44:18 · answer #2 · answered by futuresuperstar_91 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear
The answer of all that is so simple. You are just not ready yet. It's normal. So take your time and let the life goes on. Don't worry. Just know one thing: When you will fall in love for real. You will noticed by that. So now, enjoys your life simply, and don't stressed too much about that.
2007-07-15 14:41:40 · answer #3 · answered by chocolate_lady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweet heart you doing the right thing in not rushing your body before it's ready. You are a smart young lady, and I am proud of your instinct to follow your heart, you are very normal and there is nothing wrong with you.... OK.
2007-07-15 16:00:13 · answer #4 · answered by carmel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing is wrong with you sweetie. You are doing it right. Boys want 1 thing and you are smart to pull away from it. kissing is ok but any father is not and they will tell all there friends what you did. Treat them bad before they treat you bad.
2007-07-15 14:41:31 · answer #5 · answered by s f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just not ready to date..you are normal,14 y/o do not NEED to date.Just wait a while-you'll be glad you did in a few years,trust me!!
=)me=)
2007-07-15 14:41:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are just scared and inexperienced. Just LET LOOSE!!! You will keep feeling this way the rest of your life if you never go any further than you have. So just go with the flow and dont be so uptight.
2007-07-15 14:38:48 · answer #7 · answered by Lauren. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing--you are just not ready for a boyfriend. When you are older, things will change.
2007-07-15 14:41:26 · answer #8 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mybe you just dont feel ready or are uncomfortable to be with a guy like that
its normal just relax
2007-07-15 14:38:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're just not ready yet sweetie and it's a good thing. You're only 14. When you meet someone who you really like, you're gonna ask for it. Trust me
2007-07-15 14:38:54 · answer #10 · answered by x 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋