2007-07-15 14:05:08 · 13 answers · asked by ღ|l°Coltrane°l|ღ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No way!! The only reason I person should change is for themselves-to better themselves! When you get into a relationship with someone you already know their ways so if you won't happy with them in the beginning you shouldn't be with them period!!
2007-07-15 17:09:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! If it means you'd gonna change for good and not for worse. Ya know, there should be a "give and take" sort of action in a relationship in order to work things out. Changing one's character or personality ain't that easy but if your reason for trying to change your partner is for his/her good sake, i truly think that your partner as well will understand this. "CHANGE" doesn't mean you'll gonna manipulate your partner's life, MANIPULATION is far different from it. And please lemme rephrase it, " I believe that the couples should change for one another ". Get it? I can see no bad reason for trying to change for each other as long as the couples do it in a healthy way.
2007-07-16 02:03:58 · answer #2 · answered by earthangel_ria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends what the change is. Putting the toilet seat down, yes. Changing core values, no. A relationship should not be a full time job, for both parties.
2007-07-15 21:17:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to change that person? You knew what that person was like before you got with him or her (or if that person wants to change you), why did you let yourself get involved? No one ever changes UNLESS they want to. I hope that everything works out for the best!
2007-07-15 21:21:45 · answer #4 · answered by kellylee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. u should want to change for yourself! If u don't then the changes won't be permanent. U'll get into a cycle that's hard to break
2007-07-15 21:23:59 · answer #5 · answered by mrsprincess07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, because y should someone change for the other, when u fell in love with that person just the way they were. unless they want to change.
2007-07-15 21:29:18 · answer #6 · answered by Janha S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not change - but people should always try to be the best they can, learn and grow; not FOR each other, but just because.
2007-07-15 21:09:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing that needs to be changed in a relationships is underwear...and daily at that.
2007-07-15 21:09:05 · answer #8 · answered by katsride 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I believe you should be able to accept and love eachother just the way you are. No one is perfect.
2007-07-15 21:07:57 · answer #9 · answered by Kaylee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I think if you are meant to be together, you should be compatible without having to change each other.
2007-07-15 21:08:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋