I am 14 (almost 15) and have never had a boyfriend before and I have never been kissed either. I am just so inexperienced with boys. I am kinda shy and I live in a small town. All of my friends have not started dating yet either but they have had bf's. Sometimes I think that there is something seriously wrong with me because my little cousin who is 11 has had like 5 boyfriends already. What's wrong with me?? Is there anyone out there that didn't have a bf or gf until high school or college??
2007-07-15 11:39:01 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't worry, I was only first kissed when I was 18. There's nothing wrong with you. Everyone does things at different stages. Don't feel pressurised, do it when you have the right person and when it feels right.
2007-07-15 11:43:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are very young. Do not worry about it. Things like that are not important. You have your whole life ahead of you. Some girls put all of their energy into relationships and having boyfriends. There is no hurry. It is more important to be balanced. There is so much more to a young girl's life like school, sports, friends, academics etc., The boys will come around eventually. That is how it is for most people. Some girls try to boost their egos by relying on attention from boys. You don't need validation from anyone. You are fine the way you are. No 11 year old should have 5 boyfriends to talk about. They could be friends that are boys. I don't know what she and other girls are trying to prove. I did not have a BF in HS, college or later. Nothing progressed that far. I have dated here and there. That is about it. It is not unusual. It is not how I measure my self worth. For now, go with the flow and try not to place so much emphasis on boys. It is not healthy. Good luck and enjoy your life.
2007-07-15 18:49:44 · answer #2 · answered by LAgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you!!! YOU have plenty of time to get a boyfriend! Now is the best time to concentrate on you and the young woman you want to become. I know it is hard to tell a 15 year old girl not to worry about boys, because I think that is all you girls think about, but if you worry about you and developing skills and good qualities you will be very attractive to a good guy years down the road.
2007-07-15 18:44:47 · answer #3 · answered by firegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first boyfriend i was 6 years old and we did kiss.He is still a friend of mine. There were others after that but looking back i can honestly say i had more fun hanging out with my girlfriend then having a boyfriend. Having a boyfriend at that age wasn't fun for me because all they wanted to do was kiss and go to second base with you. Trust me you are better off not having a boyfriend at your age. You go to collage and sturdy hard and stay away from the boys as long as you can.You have years ahead of you for that. By the way i am 52 now and been married to the same man for 28 years now .
2007-07-15 18:58:41 · answer #4 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is absolutly nothing wrong with you, my brother is a handsome guy and has never had a gf and he's 21 yes thats odd but, he just hasnt found any girls he is intested in really... that or he's gay... lol
But seriously its actually better to wait till high school to date like sophmore, junior, senior year... Im sure you will find a guy your really into and he will be totally crazy about you! Just don't worry about it too much it will happen!
2007-07-15 18:44:41 · answer #5 · answered by TexAss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There seriously is no rush. When ever you get your first boyfriend, you get him. Think of it as you being selective. I know some girls don't date because their families doesn't approve, and other because they haven't found a guy they want to date. Make sure that you get some friends that are guys, and that you start getting more comfortable with them on a friendship level. Theres nothing wrong with you, all you need is time.
2007-07-15 18:44:10 · answer #6 · answered by Meera K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had "bf's" when I was 13, but we never spoke, so I don't count them. I had my first real bf, when I was 18, and almost out of high school. Don't worry, it'll happen when it's time. Don't force it just for the sake of being with someone,t hat won't last
2007-07-15 18:42:31 · answer #7 · answered by ocean's mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my first boyfriend was grade 10. To be honest its stupid to date when you are young....whats the point? Why not wait till you get to experience your first kiss, touch, sex, everything with someone that you really like and could have a future with. I wish I waited longer till someone I really liked rather then just the first guy that came around. All he wanted was sex, and I wasn't ready for it, so I'd wait till you're ready, things are better that way.
The thing is about boys, is that they come around when you least expect it. So as soon as you stop thinking about wanting a boyfriend...one will come around. Just give it time, it'll happen. Dont worry about it
2007-07-15 18:48:25 · answer #8 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all there is nothing wrong with you.having a boyfriend is not the most important thing in the world.having good friends like with girls and boys and enjoying your youth
is far more important.dating off course is important for
social skills [like knowing how to act around boys]you can
learn that from your friends or better your best friend.talk about it with your best friend or older sister.and most importantly tell yourself there is nothing wrong with me
good luck .c yah..
2007-07-15 18:53:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am 13 (almost 14) and i have had 3 or 4 bfs but none has kissed me.... and i know a lot of people that dont thnk that its a bad thing so dont worry
2007-07-15 18:43:57 · answer #10 · answered by Jenna W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋