I've been seeing a beautiful and kind woman for a few months now. She works as a cocktail waitress at a nightclub and doesn't live in the same city I'm at. She's into Asian men and I seem to fit her type of guy. I'm clean-shaven, soft-spoken, well-groomed and sexy when I smile to her. When we see each other, we talk for a short period, sometimes buy her a drink, and hug each other when saying goodbye or saying "Hi" and tells me "I miss you" when we meet.
Recently, she gave me her # because she made dinner plans for my B-Day. We spoke shortly a few weeks ago on my 1st call and said she's busy. When she called back, she left me a VM to call back. A week later, we saw each other and spoke briefly and she still decided to take me out for dinner on my B-Day.
After all we've been through, I'm not sure if she's serious about the dinner plans. She seems like a nice woman, but I don't know her very well yet.
The date still goes on as planned so what do I do before the date? I'm in doubt.
2007-07-15 11:30:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
We've seen each other for awhile, but haven't learned aboiut ourselves yet because we're always at the nightclub. After all that, I'll go out with her for the first time. I don't know if she's serious about our dinner plans. I've doubted that ever since she announced it to me.
2007-07-15 11:32:11 · update #1
I've told her a few times if she was serious and she said "Yes". Now, I'm doubting this situation
2007-07-15 11:36:18 · update #2
Sorry sounds more like a lady of the evening to me, not wanting to get attached. Just my opinion no offense meant
2007-07-15 11:47:33 · answer #1 · answered by Pengy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like her, I would give it a shot! It may turn out well. If not, you have not really lost anything. Be nice to her when you meet out for the first time, present her with a flower, or box of chocolate or something impersonal at first. That will get you off to a good start. Be a polite, be a gentleman, be yourself! If she does take you out for your birthday, let her know you appreciate it at the time, and also shortly after with a follow-up thank you note.
2007-07-15 18:51:25 · answer #2 · answered by sportguy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, she already left you an opening into her life, or atleast how to get to know her better at your birthday party. Don't look a gift hourse into the mouth and ask for more when you already got it all. Let everything play out first, then either start to worry, or start making love. Wait and see what happens.
2007-07-15 18:38:41 · answer #3 · answered by Jerome E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that you two are way different than each other, you both have ya'lls own ways of showing falling, like you misunderstand each other, I say next time she says something about any plans , you should let her know how you feel about it maybe she could be more serous about it, and you will be more calm:)
2007-07-15 18:38:06 · answer #4 · answered by chula 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she arranged the dinner didn't she. she is keeping her word. she is trying to tell you that you are special to her. and she wants to date you. and have a relationship outside her work area. continue to be nice to her and ask her for a date and take her to a nice place(save you money) and repay her for her thoughts. sounds like she has a little "thing going" for you. ... go for it.
2007-07-15 18:42:07 · answer #5 · answered by joyce s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just talk to her about it...if she's a genuine friend, then I think she will still take you out for dinner....why dont you offer to take her out?
2007-07-15 18:41:05 · answer #6 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she is serious and lets you know in time ,if it is at her house a bouquet of flowers from you may help set the table
2007-07-15 18:36:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're paranoid & over thinking probably cos you like her so much..it's too good to be true! Just go it's just one date!
2007-07-15 18:36:16 · answer #8 · answered by ✩☆✩HAPPINESS✩☆✩ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a chance. Go out with her. What do you have to lose?
2007-07-15 18:37:50 · answer #9 · answered by jamus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go on and you won't lose anything
2007-07-15 18:42:18 · answer #10 · answered by Shiny Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋