tell me if im crazy...If you really like a girl and want to treat her so well you will seem so neady and that is not attractive, on the other hand if you really dont care, this is more attractive and girls dig it. So to me it seems that girls love being treated bad, then they complain. Im not sexist just a bit confused?
2007-07-15 11:53:30 · 24 answers · asked by T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tisk tisk
let me actually answer the question for you.
No one LIKES....okay execpt people with true mental disorders, but that's not very common... to be treated badily. No woman makes her wish list of thing she wants in a man and it says "to be treated like dirt, to have a jerk of a boyfriend"
however, from a woman's perspective.. these are the options she more times than not has. 1) Go with a guy who is no challege to her whatsoever, who worships her, calls her 10 times a day, has no life execpt for her, and instead of being the best person he can be, spends all his time telling her how much he adores her
Or
2) a man who may be a bit jerkish, but is self confident. doesn't need the female. knows what he wants and not only asks for it, but demands it, out of women and life.
Now, if you are a man that can balance the two.. be nice but at the same time not be spinless.. have a backbone but still know how to charm when need be.. you areWAYY ahead of the game.. but unfortuantely, this is very, VERY few men.
A woman would rather share a jerk than to have a chump to herself.. TRUST ME.
so it's not that she WANTS to be treated like dirt, to her, being treated like dirt by a MAN is better than being worshiped by a CHUMP
-Backbreaker
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2007-07-15 12:05:43 · answer #1 · answered by ur_hacked03 2 · 3⤊ 3⤋
You know, sometimes I wonder the same thing.
Let's get down to basics. Every girl wishes and hopes for a great guy to come along and treat her like the princess she is... being pampered and taken care of. But lets face it, most guys are not going to be like that. Females ALSO have a tendency to want things which may not always seem reasonable, such as a relationship DESPITE the fact the person may not be compatible for her. She will let certain things go, like arguments and perhaps being treated nicely... for the sake of not being alone.
Hands down, I don't believe that any girl wishes to be treated badly-- but its more an issue of doing anything to NOT be alone. She will suffice with the guy who treats her badly, and it gives her extra motivation to stay with him and 'make it work', because somewhere she feels that it's possibly a good move.
Hope that helps a little, it makes sense to me.
2007-07-15 12:05:37 · answer #2 · answered by Questionable 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Women who seem to like to be treated bad have zero self esteem. If they are treated well they don't know how to act. It's a mental issue. If they are not being abused then they are not loved. It is warped, I know, but that is how they think. Men who show they care are not needy in my opinion. But then again, I am treated right by my BF.
2007-07-15 11:57:45 · answer #3 · answered by msims52 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
To answer that. Yes. Women like to be treated badly. But along with the sorrow has to be the sweet. The crave and satisfaction.
There's some sweet/sorrow that women crave from a great guy that she might never have a chance with. Similar to having a very expensive car that a person can barely afford. Human nature I guess
2014-11-22 01:58:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only some women like to be treated badly. It's probably some Freudian daddy thing. Some men gravitate towards mistreatment too. Dominatrixes aren't going out of business any time soon.
2007-07-15 11:57:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only indecisive girls like to be treated bad. If you treat her too nice though she'll trample all over you. Treat her like a lady and she'll give you the same in return. I hope this kind of helps your confusion. Best of luck.
2007-07-15 11:57:45 · answer #6 · answered by Indira B 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Women getting severely beaten, abused, raped etc has nothing to do with Islam. In fact, those has nothing to do with any religion that I know of. But human love to stereotype. I am a Muslim husband and I've been told on how to treat my wife. I was taught by my religious teachers that under Islam, "beating the wife" must be done in strict way not to cause pain but to remind our wife of any wrongdoing. That "beating" must not be harmful, painful or leave any marks and other conditions that I won't mind if my wife want to do same to me 100 times a day. Causing pain to your wife simply means you are committing sin.
2016-03-15 04:36:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we don't like being treated bad, but society causes girls to feel inferior to men which becomes a habit until they learn the hard way that they deserve better treatment in some case all you have to do is make sure the girl knows you want to go steady with her and that you aren't just foolin about wanting to be around her and talking a lot helps as well as maybe something nice like an inexpensive but kinda pretty music box or something, to remind her of you between visits
2007-07-15 12:00:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
well i dont like to be treated bad but i like a tough guy and still i can talk to but he can not be a push over ps i like when a guy a take charge it just depends on the girl
2007-07-15 12:01:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Iam a girl and I wont a man to treat me like a Queen that Iam. I don't play when a guy treat me bad I tell him to hit the door and don't come back no more.
If they don't change.
P.S
Most girls like a little bad boy but still a gentleman and loving, and smart person ;-)
2007-07-15 11:59:32 · answer #10 · answered by Queen 4 · 0⤊ 4⤋