Family & Relationships - 14 July 2007

I'm dating a Jew and I'm not Jewish. Things are going amazingly well, except for one issue. I should preface this by telling you that I think I may marry him, and without this issue I most certainly would. He wants his kids to be Jewish, and I want to introduce both religions. He doesn't want me to convert because I have some Jewish heritage, but was raised Catholic. I want to hear from other people who have done this and how hard it is, because most likely i'll be raising Jewish kids for him. He's willing to do holiday celebrations with my family, and compromise on other things not related to religion if I do this for him. I understand why he feels this way because its been explained to me by many Jews... i just feel like i'll be losing part of myself that under other circumstances I would give to my children.

2007-07-14 05:26:46 · 7 answers · asked by Nicki K 2 in Singles & Dating

Basically my mom and dad stay mad at each other and constantly take it out on us, their children. Sometime I wish they would just hurry up and get a divorce already because at least I won't have to endure this stupidity. This last incident really took the cake for me. My mom got mad at my dad about not helping out in the house but cutting the grass for someone else. She took it out on us. Then my dad got mad at my sister for not cooking but started yelling at me telling to shut the **** up and leave if you want to. I hate your nasty attitude. Now there was no way this was about me because I couldn't cook that day (I am severely allergic to fish and it was not my turn to cook)

So now no one is speaking to each other and he walks around like I should be the first to apologize. I mean I am know I am his child and I am living in his house (which is not an excuse for respect) but don't parents need to be taught a lesson to, or is it assumed I should apologize for his own anger?

2007-07-14 05:19:05 · 18 answers · asked by from_me_to_you 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i have this friend who is mad at me because i posted a blog about her on myspace . the only reason why i did it was to vent. i didnt want her to see it but she did and i dont think that we will ever be friens again. what should i do? and i told her i dont want to see her or talk to her again.

2007-07-14 05:19:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

he asks me to dance (sat)
asks me on a date (sun)
we only talk on the phone (mon)
go to lunch (tues)
watch movies together (wed)
watch movies together (thurs)
watch movies together (fri)
he asks me on a date for saturday


We're both attracted to each other. He plays with my hair; he greats me with soft kisses; he makes me laugh; he gorgeous. I feel like I'm going to fall in love with him pretty hard - Could it just be lust?

and btw - I'm not having sex until marriage -

2007-07-14 05:17:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

is it a sin

2007-07-14 05:08:36 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay i have been married 3 yrs now and its been an extremely rock road.I dated my husband for 2.5 yrs during college it was love at first sight whem we first met and case of polar opposites attracting.I am Catholic and he is Jewish but we also have very different mind sets on how things should be done,how the world works, situations handled,family values,and morals(he is conservative/i am more open minded)Our problems started after our son (unplanned)who is almost 3 yrs old now was born and i refused to convert to juadism.My husband wanted our son to be circumsized and i said NO! We fight non -stop on how our son should be raised.My husband wanted our son to be brought up Jewish and i wanted to teach him about both religions.So as to let my son descide when he was older what religion he wanted to follow.After a year of seperation my husband has moved back into our home it took a week but now we are back to fighting this time because we found out my great gran dad was a Nazi?

2007-07-14 05:08:13 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What would happen if my parents split up? My mom would live with her family since she has no money. More to another state. My sister and I would grow up here and I could raise her. My father. I will disconnect from him. He is not worth it. Though I do love him. Thinking about emotions will destroy me. I hate him and I love him.

2007-07-14 05:07:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have a friend, and weve been friends for a while now, and ive started liking her. but i dont think she likes me, i just think she likes me as a friend. but i want to tell her how i feel-anyone have any advice?

2007-07-14 05:03:47 · 22 answers · asked by Kevin H 1 in Singles & Dating

okay so i hvae a frined....she thinks shes God, and its really annoying, cuz she told me, my sister and my BFF that we were going to hell, she was like, implying that catholics dont go to church, and tht just cuz we dont go to church evry friggin day of our lives, we horrible ppl, i mean, i beileve in God, but is this right? and what should i do?

2007-07-14 04:58:56 · 27 answers · asked by deleted 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

We've all have made mistakes throughout life, but we want to make changes. Then when we do people continue to bring up my mistakes. How can I work on not critisizing others about their wrong doings, because I sure get angry when someone brings up my mistakes.

2007-07-14 04:56:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my bf nd i were planning to get marry nd every time that we're talking bout it.. it feels so gret.. we have pfamily plan, our own house, our jobs, where to live in.. nd the arragement of d wedding.. it feels so great... i feels that he is the sweetest man for me, a perfect husband for me.. nd a perfect father for our kids to be.. any opinion???

2007-07-14 04:47:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

is it just me or is this girl being a *****? she is supposed to be my best friend but, treats me like i'm stupid, is always in competition, always brags and complains. my other friends even see this. my mom thinks this girl treats me like i'm stupid. and the other day when me and this girl were best friends she was being really bitchy so i asked her what was wrong. then yesterday when i confronted her about how annoying she was being she said i was annoying because i cared about her and asked what was wrong, she asked why i asked her if she was mad and i said cause u were being a ***** and now she keeps on saying i called her a ***** when really i meant that she was being a ***** i didn't say ur a ***** and to me that is 2 different things. she is just rude when i tell her that i don't want 2 talk about something because she was bragging she just keeps going!

2007-07-14 04:46:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my STB Ex-Husband & I have been separated for a few months now. he has a girlfriend who is pregnant, possibly w/his kid. he's been in town for a few days now (he & his gf live in another state), & we've been "secretly" talking on the phone at night and text messaging a LOT. well, last night we sort of slept together. of course last night has to be kept secret from everyone we know. but he says he doesn't want anyone to know yet that we are spending so much time together, & talking on the phone (about a LOT more than out daughter, i might add), & sending dirty little pictures through our cell phones to each other. i understand why he doesn't want it to get back to his gf, but why would he not want ANY of our friends or family to know we are hanging out so much? they ALL know we both want to remain good friends through & after our divorce. I want to tell the world how well we are getting along, but i promised him i wouldn't. why would he not want anyone to know about our FRIENDSHIP???

2007-07-14 04:36:12 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

more men are on these sites.
women get hit on all the time, how can any unique guy have a chance if this is the case?

2007-07-14 04:27:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-14 04:24:27 · 15 answers · asked by dave c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

she likes kissing .for hours..!!!!!!really!!she likes touching me....she likes it to sitting on my lap and kissing....but i brought up the "sex" topic and she told me that this is very special for her...that she only will do it with someone she loves..she tells me that she is virgin ...but she also telling me that she kissed in the past a lot of boys and that she enjoyed it to sitting on their laps too...isnt thatsex too?and now she wants children!(i asked the question about children today in yahoo answers)
but isnt kissing ..touching....sex too?i personally believe thats sex too!!and btw....i dont want to make children with a girl that tells me that sex is disgusting...she tells me intercourse is disgusting but she wants children too! isnt that overly stupid?
i mean..i dont want to make sex after turn off the lights and without any pleasure only for making children...

2007-07-14 04:22:38 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so I have a bf and he use to text me at about the same time every day. I'd reply and we'd chat this way. If I didn't respond right away to the text because I was busy doing something he would send a cute comment like "Well aren't you Miss. Talkative today". Not in a mean or possesive way but just in a playful way to let me know he really wants to talk to me. Lately, however, he stopped texting me at the same time. If I texted him instead, he wouldn't respond or tell me he couldn't talk because he was with his friends even though he expects me to talk to him when I'm with my friends. I totally understand that he needs his space and I don't expect him to text me every day or anything. I was just confused about his sudden change of attitude. He still texts me once in a while but not nearly as much as he use to. He seems to have lost some sort of interest in me. What is he thinking? And how can I make him start texting me all the time again? Thanks in advance for any advice.

2007-07-14 04:21:44 · 11 answers · asked by Lucy J 2 in Singles & Dating

there are these 2 brothers that have been going to my church for a long time, and alllllllll the girls think that they both are just these amazingly beautiful angel-like creatures.

i casually kept one eye on these 2 (yes attractive) guys, and as i watched girl after girl flirt with them, and watched them flirt to girl after girl, i saw that they kinda had this swagger about them and when they walked they more like struted like they were just the hottest things to ever walk this face of the planet.

and alot of times, they'll kinda talk to people as if they were below them. i dont know, this just like lowered there attractive-ness meter waaaaaaaay down.

recently ive noticed that they've given me quite a bit of attention, like lots of stares, and quite a few 'oh what i coincidence i didnt think id see you here!' moments. im wondering if theres something i can do, because i dont really want to be caught up in these guys.

2007-07-14 04:09:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hi...i'm a 22 yr old woman. i have this friend...a guy...my bestest friend. he proposed me yesterday. but a lot of things r confusing me. to start wid he's had a wild side to him...girls and everything. i never thought any girl could make a way to his heart...nothing goes beyond the bedroom for him. will he ever be able to commit to me wholly? secondly...i'm quite a plain jane n he's really handsome. all his previous gfs were beautiful girls. will he ever regret having me? afterall i know every guy loves beautiful girls. moreover i am from a humble background and he's quite well-off. it's a very contrasting match. i've always had feelings for him but never expressed them. when he proposed yesterday...it was a feeling i can never explain that went through me. wat do i do? i do love him...but don't want the future to be sad for us. he seemed very sincere though when he proposed me yesterday and said he'll the wild side of him far behind if we r to start a relationship. wat do i do?

2007-07-14 04:08:48 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My 5 and 7 year olds are completely out of control. They just think they are so god damned funny... But i am sick of it! They refuse to grow up and act like normal people. Help!!!

2007-07-14 04:01:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My fiances family has alot of children in it, at least 20 (Under 8) and everyone is pregnant again, I do love them, but my mom is paying for a very formal reception, I don't want kids crying and running around i find it very annoying but i know thats what they do, but do you think if i exclude kids under 12 that most of the people won't come. Or do you think they will find a babysitter

2007-07-14 04:01:21 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Every time I read about infedility here on YA tons of people quickly chime in..."Leave him/her...Divorce!" Is it at all possible that divorce is not the answer to marital problems?

2007-07-14 04:00:45 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-14 04:00:20 · 18 answers · asked by manu 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

That I've slept with other girls and some of your best friends. (I'm 18) What would you do? Be truthful and elaberate your answers lol.

2007-07-14 03:59:43 · 17 answers · asked by chrisHXC 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-14 03:49:58 · 7 answers · asked by naterluvsmte89 1 in Friends

Hello,

I want to be able to record things about my daily life and whatnots. Ever since I started writing about my life through my perspectives and thoughts, my mother has been snooping around like the scooby's nose. She finds it and reads my inner most and sensitive thoughts, which are sometimes narrcisstical and nostalgic. But that it just the way I am.

How can stop my mother from sneaking into my room when I'm outside of it or at school. Its an invasion of privacy. I tell her not to do this, I don't feel angry in particular, knowing how over-protective she is and I never get pissed. Instead I feel shame.

For example, when I was having sexually active thoughts I wrote them down knowing that I would like to look back before I had gotten sexually mature and learn from it. Now I am. Well, I turned sexually mature when I was 13 now I'm fifteen - I havn't written about it since and I feel I have missed out a lot.

Talking to her doesn't work. Can you help me?

2007-07-14 03:49:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My friend suspects her sisters boyfriend is a cheater. She has no proof of this, just hear-say from other people.

Her sister has gone to visit their cousin for the weekend and wont be back til Monday. My friend wants me to see if I can seduce her sisters boyfriend by hitting on him at the bar he'll be at tomorrow night. He doesn't know who I am. The plan is for me to hit on him, be all flirty, then get a pic on my phone with him putting his tounge in my ear or kissing me or something.

Is this a moral thing for me to do? I really don't want to hurt this girl but at the same time she'll end up getting hurt anyway if this guy is a cheater. What would you do?

2007-07-14 03:48:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i met dis gurl i really like her but i only get 2 see on sundays, but we talk online and by phone everyday. what should i do?

2007-07-14 03:44:13 · 23 answers · asked by ivan t 1 in Singles & Dating

All my life I have looked at beautiful women. Long legs, fair skin, beautiful face and belly button, boobs etc have turned me on. I am 24. I do not have a girlfriend. Till sometime back I was looking for a girlfriend who should be really pretty and sexy. But since last few months, my interest in such hot women has reduced. I have started liking women for what they are and not what they look like.

Is anything wrong with me? Is this a temporary effect or a permanent change? I do not mind marrying an ordinary looking girl which is something I never thought of till sometime back!!

What has happened to me?

2007-07-14 03:40:32 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm just looking out for my baby sisters best interest.

2007-07-14 03:40:02 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating