Family & Relationships - 14 July 2007

What personality traits are looking for in a future wife?
What would she look like?
What would you relationship be like?
Who would control most things, make important decsicions?
Thanx

2007-07-14 11:52:58 · 18 answers · asked by AKswimr 3 in Singles & Dating

yes i kno what you all are gonna say.. why date him in the first place when he has no job. well trust me that not even the end of it.. he was locked up before being with the wrong ppl at the wrong time. hes tryna make a change but its like for some reason its kinda boring me a bit that i have to pay for mostly everything. maybe cuz im not use to dating a guy like this but he really makes me feel good. hes very understanding and we have so much in common its scary. but neway i gave him money this week so that he can travel because i guess he went to an employment agency and they gave him places to got thats hiring. i really hope he gets something because i dont want this to be the reason why we stop talking to each other. neway i need ya advice on what you think i should do and what ya would do if ya was in my shoe. i know they are gonna be alot of ya that say im stupid... BUT EVERYONE DESERVES A CHANCE. im also thinkin we should stay on the dating status til he get his self settled

2007-07-14 11:51:23 · 13 answers · asked by Black Barbie 2 in Singles & Dating

What would your response be if someone said this to you. Thanks.

2007-07-14 11:51:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so I am 14 years old... (15 in january) and my parents have been divorced for a few years now. I see my dad every other weekend, and I really dont like going to his house anymore. Quite frankly its getting old, and I need to stand up and say that I don't want to go anymore.

How do I tell him?

2007-07-14 11:44:47 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am a woman who has been dating another woman who just told me recently that she has a solid relationship with a man who she calls her husband since they have been in a relationship for more than 10 years. She never told me this because she was afraid I would runaway from her. I tried to break it up three times but she would not let me and now her man/husband called me and thanked me for making her happy. I am absolutely stunned by all this because I do not date married men or women or date anyone in a committed relationship. I like her alot and she likes me a lot saying she loves me and misses me when I try to distance myself. Her man never asks to join or anything because we are both not into that but he made it a point to call me and ask me to take care of her and make her happy. This is not my usual dating pattern but I have found myself in it by her not telling me at the beginning that she was already in a committed relationship. What should I do. Please help!

2007-07-14 11:43:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he tells me this all the time we have been together for 1 year is it safe to say it back?

2007-07-14 11:40:42 · 10 answers · asked by Amanda e 1 in Singles & Dating

A female who respects herself and her body is SO SO much more attractive and CLASSY than a girl who acts like a sl*t.

We ALREADY KNOW most guys are like dogs. Most NOT ALL. I'm no dog, I respect women. But NOW there's more and more girls that will do anything and they couldn't care less about a relationship anymore. It's just sex with whoever and whenever. No ties. Nothing special. Girls can't blame guys for it, if they're doing the same things now.

Opinions???

2007-07-14 11:37:29 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-14 11:37:07 · 19 answers · asked by Dave C 2 in Weddings

My wife has never complimented my green eyes. come to think she has only given me about 6 compliments in 16 years of marriage. is this normal? i tell her how beautiful she is more times than I can think. is green eyes a turn off??

2007-07-14 11:34:30 · 21 answers · asked by Roger R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I usually let her out after a few hours

2007-07-14 11:33:44 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do I get my mind off of him without involving another guy? Crushes are fun and all, but I really need to stop obsessing. Tips?

2007-07-14 11:32:04 · 3 answers · asked by Next-Hollywood-Spinner 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

So here's the story...

My boyfriend is considering a job opportunity in Hawaii. I know he has been looking around for a new job. We've gotten pretty close, though. He said the other day that he wanted to marry me and be with me forever (granted, it was in the bedroom. But he doesn't usually say things he doesn't mean. If I bring it up later he will say that he meant what he said). Then, he was looking at something online the other day and it was about babies and Hawaii. I said that it was a random fact. He said well you'll have a baby. I didn't say anything because I didn't know what to say. So I'm guessing he wants me to be with him in Hawaii, right? I don't know. Should I bring up this in conversation or let him? We haven't been together that long but we are pretty close. He has said many times that he wants to have a family with me. I don't know what I am supposed to think? HELP!

2007-07-14 11:29:55 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My finace and I are going on vacation to get married. Both sets of parents would like to have a reception, but we don't care to have one. Our wedding is in February, are there any other options to get everyone together, other than having a reception?

2007-07-14 11:26:07 · 16 answers · asked by WorldTraveler 4 in Weddings

I've bought a whole bunch of these (I keep them on me at all times), but so far I haven't been attacked in elevators, in restaurants, in the office by these hot skinny chicks? Actually, the only difference is a couple guys in the office are telling me I smell very gay, and this is not the reaction I am looking for.

My question is, how do I get these really hot girls to rip off my clothes like they do in the commercials?

2007-07-14 11:26:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm like 4'11'' and people always think of me as just cute. No one really takes me seriously and I'm always being called innocent and stuff like that. No one thinks I can be perverted and they always gasp and act surprised when I sometimes am. Why is it so hard for people to take me seriously? Does height really matter? I have a pretty high voice, so that works against me too.

2007-07-14 11:20:59 · 15 answers · asked by Bob 2 in Singles & Dating

DO NOT TELL ME HOW TERRIBLE OF A FATHER HE IS!!! You don't know what his ex is putting him through. I just need to know how he would do it. He's leaving for Iraq for 2 yrs soon, and if he has to worry about his ex doing what she is...he will die!

2007-07-14 11:19:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been in a long term relationship for 2 years. He's a great guy, he's kind, affectionate and always puts me first. He's talked about us getting married, I feel as though I have my family and his families expectation that we will. The idea of marrying him however does not fill me with excitement, all I feel is indifferent to the idea. I can't even figure out what depth of feeling I have for him, I love him but I can't figure out how if I love him as a lover or as a brother. We rarely have sex because I just can't face it at times and when we do, it's over in less than a minute. I thought long term love involved feeling mentally connected and passionate - I've had that in previous relationships. However like I said nobody has treated me as well as what he has and I feel like a fool for even having these doubts, I have no one to talk to as everyone is so quick to tell me how great he is they don't want to hear about my own fears.
I feel alone.

2007-07-14 11:17:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am 11 years old and over weight because my dad doesn't like spending money he likes going to cheap places to buy us food like McDonald's AND I JUST HATE IT I sleep on the floor with no AC and I have nothing No bed No Desk No TV No Friends No HEALTHY FOOD INSTEAD HE GETS US CHEAP GREASY FOOD my dads family is poor you see so he sends all his money to his family and doesn't even give a **** about us the only reason we have Internet and a computer cause my DAD NEEDS IT I am sick of my life I go to a crappy school 2 UGHH !!!!!!!

2007-07-14 11:16:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

How do you like to be kissed
Passionate kisses
soft
hard
you tell me

2007-07-14 11:14:29 · 5 answers · asked by Areogurl 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok so I'm 17 and my brother is 13... He knows he can't beat me up but loves to fight like boxing(just for fun) and I knock him around all the time but he does not care.
Are brothers like this?
Could my brother like pain?

2007-07-14 11:14:26 · 18 answers · asked by colinreilly90_3 1 in Family

there's a saying "its not where he's at but where he wants to be" meaning it doesnt matter that the man is with you , if he still calls the ex or messes around or what not that he really wants to be with her but if thats true why would he stay with his new wife? what do you guys think if a man cheated with his ex before is that what he really wants or does it only matter about who he is with?

2007-07-14 11:08:09 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hi, I am a guy, and have a problem. I am unable to ejaculate in front of my girlfriend. I am fine in private, and even over the phone with her. This issue has really effected us deeply and its a huge problem because were scared that when we take that "final step", that I may not be able to finish. We have tried a few different ways, of which none worked: her doing it, me doing it myself in front of her, and her even masturbating herself while i tried. I at this point believe the problem is 100% psychological, and i really need help trying to solve it. Thanks a lot!

2007-07-14 11:04:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Even if you've known this person for years and still don't know what they are, any advice?

2007-07-14 11:03:15 · 11 answers · asked by perrygreenwich 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am divorced, and thought it would be a good thing to fight for 50% parent time with my kids.
I never realized how painfully boring sitting home with my kids all the time would be. Am i just not going to be able to have a social life unless i just pay child support and ditch the kids?

2007-07-14 11:02:14 · 10 answers · asked by ohmyhead69 1 in Marriage & Divorce

this guy that i really like and who likes me has been calling, and i totally don't mind that, but what i do mind is that he is being so annoying, like he keeps inviting me over, and when i say i can't make it, he gets soo upset, but then the next day he just does it again.and he's been doing this for about a month and a half now, and it sometimes gtes to the point where if he calls, i dont pick it up just because i know that i'll have to deal with him, or, like yesterday, i just turn off my cell completely so i dont have to deal with it @ all. And, okay, i know that's being totally bi***y, but i only do that because i dont know how to tell him to back off a little. And, like i said, i really like him, but i don't want to hurt his feelings by telling him...... so to get to the point, how do i tell him without hureting his feelings of making him hate me forever?

ps, i've kind of thought about how to do it. But i only have"you're just trying too hard." is this a good start?????

2007-07-14 11:00:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband had 2 children with his ex girlfriend they 2 and a half and almost 5 years old. We have a child together also who is 17 months. When we lived near the ex, there was never a problem with us keeping the kids. Then about 6months ago we moved about a hour and a half away. Recently the children came to visit for a month and we decided we wanted them to live with us. When my husband talked to the kids mom during their visit with her, she said no to them living with us and then went home refusing to let us see the children. they have joint custody so we can get visitation but there are many reasons they should live with us. her house is disgusting with flies and food etc.. the childrens teeth are rotting out , they dont get bathed properly and cant even say abc's or 123's and she wants to send the 5 yr. old to kindergarden ! my mother in law says "well she's still hurt that you (husband) went and started another family" but they were no longer together and she has a new ba

2007-07-14 10:56:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

where are the best places to meet females that are at least 18 years old? and i don't go to bars or clubs they are just not for me....and suggestions? or should i try the bar and clubs

2007-07-14 10:56:51 · 8 answers · asked by Empty_Glass 3 in Singles & Dating

My son, his wife and their new baby live with hubby and I, along with two of my grandsons (7 people). Her Mom and Grandmother showed up at our house last week and said they left their apartment and needed a place to stay.(They got kicked out for not paying rent.)
After I fed them, I gave them a list of emergency housing agencies, and the phone number for the disabled housing assistance. They stormed out of the house yelling "thanks for nothing" and yelled at my son "Your mother is a (bad word)" and tore up the list I gave them.

Why would they not go to the agency that the taxpayers have set up to help people?

2007-07-14 10:55:58 · 15 answers · asked by Yarnlady_needsyarn 7 in Family

Okay...I was at this camp...Studentz...for the past week.
And from the very first day I saw this guy. The cutest and most awesome guy I've ever seen. He's a great Christian. He's hot. And the only thing I see that's wrong is...He's one year younger than me.

But, I tried really hard to make myself ask him his name and where he lives. But, I couldn't. And now I'm sitting at home all sad and depressed. Because I won't see him until next summer...and only if we both go to camp...

And I really can't get him off my mind. I want to meet him. I want to talk to him. But, I don't know how! There's no way because I don't know him...I'm in love. Love at first sight...and never even spoken to him...

Please help me with my situation...

2007-07-14 10:49:44 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-14 10:49:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating