What personality traits are looking for in a future wife?
What would she look like?
What would you relationship be like?
Who would control most things, make important decsicions?
Thanx
2007-07-14 11:52:58 · 18 answers · asked by AKswimr 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What personality traits are looking for in a future wife?
A sense of humor, self-confidence, independence, sense of adventure
What would she look like?
Doesn't have to be a beauty queen or a model, but should take pride in her appearance; even "less attractive" women can be beautiful if they take pride in how they look.
What would you relationship be like?
Primarily it has to be supportive of each other; in good times it's easy to be helpful and kind but it's when times are hard that it is most important to pick each other up and show that things will work out and that you're there for one another. Everything said in a wedding, basically; but it means so much more when you act on your vows in the midst of a marriage.
Who would control most things, make important decsicions?
Control of things has to be divided up....she decides on this, he decides on that, both decide on some. Split up tasks and for the most important decisions you really have to discuss and agree. In the end a "big" decision made by one person without consent by the other will end in an unnecessary argument.
Also important is that both people in the marriage have to know themself very well and also their spouse. Without this it is very difficult to understand and correct your faults or your spouse's.
2007-07-14 12:03:39 · answer #1 · answered by David G 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The main thing is compatibility. The things we do have in common besides a lot of love and affection. These are the things that maintain love and affection over time. When the physical no longer matters, these are the things that bond us and help us get through whatever life throws at us.
A future wife has to understand me and not try to change me, as I'm sure she would expect the same of me. Our relationship should be 100% honest 100% of the time. We should never hide anything from each other, no matter how trivial or serious. Husband and wife relationships require that kind of integrity. We definitely have to share the same values
We both should make decisions together. Marriage is a partnership. It requires both to make it work. Unless one person is better at decision making when it comes to certain things like finances. But never hide anything from each other.
I could go on and on, but this would get too long.
2007-07-14 12:01:46 · answer #2 · answered by â??Markâ?? 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Someone that's sincre
Someone that's positive
Someone that's true to you and herself.
Someone that's ambitious
Someone that can cook
Someone that's not to jealous
Someone that's secure with herself
Someone that will be a good mother to future children.
Someone that's a family person.
Someone that has an open mind
Someone that you can talk to about any and everything.
Someone that is trustworthy
Someone that's a lady in the streets but a freak in the bed.
Someone that's willing to try new things.
Someone that's honest
Someone that's fun to be around
Someone that you can laugh and joke with
Someone that brings out the best in you
Someone that's always in your corner no matter what
Someone that will love you the same regardless the situation
Someone that's beautiful inside and out.
2007-07-14 12:09:11 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Top five traits a million. Self Confidence/Open two. Mature three. Kind and Caring four. Honest five. Aware of atmosphere, information, and so forth A beautiful lady will have to have: a million. Self trust/ Good gorgeous smile (no factor watching like leave out universe in case your withdrawn, Likewise, a lady will have to now not have a tremendous ego) two. Tall three. Well "configured" face (Big eyes, however now not bulging. Small mouth, tallish nostril) four. Well Balanced frame Long legs, noticable hips, slim waist, breasts which are proportional to the frame five. good maintained No messy hair!! Maintained/common dermis.
2016-09-05 10:03:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stability, trustworthiness, knowing I can trust she will always be there when I need her, intelligence and humility. As for what she looks like...I just don't want her to fat or too skinny..just right, I wouldn't care if she were Black, White, Hispanic, etc... Our relationship would be understanding and on fire all the time...that's how I like it..I think both of us should make the major decisions together.
2007-07-14 11:57:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Loving, Caring, Kind, Good with Kids, Sweet.
My girlfriend (sorry but i want to marry her)
We could be honest, open, still have fights of course, loving, mysterious sometimes
I think that most of the desicions i would make, but ask for her opinion on everything and compromise with her.
2007-07-14 11:56:48 · answer #6 · answered by Chris 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Personality: nice, funny, smart, indepentdent but also dependent, good with kids, caring.
Looks like: Hair color does not matter, big eyes, real breat, not to big nor to small, an inch or 2 shorter than me, long legs, not to pail, but not dark.
We would make decision together every day no matter what it is.
2007-07-14 12:00:17 · answer #7 · answered by Salomon S 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I would want my girl not to wear to much make-up and not dress inappropriate if we had kids i would only want up to 2 kids no more than that i would want her to care for the kids and for her to have a good job and get paid and for us not to be divorced and when she comes home from work for her to kiss me and once in a while i would want some sex and i would still want her to wear a bikini and to shop at victoria secret.
2007-07-14 11:59:00 · answer #8 · answered by Jason 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
average looks, kind hearted, intelligent, open honest conversation, she needs to ability to say whats on her mind, not being overly judgmental, long hair, tender lips for kissing, able to discuss what we should do together about making the larger decisions. for me she'll need to like being kissed all over, especially down there on a very regular basis, and be receptive to my physical desires.
2007-07-14 12:07:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be herself. She would look like every woman in the world. 50/50. Control 50/50, work out decisions together. lol.
2007-07-14 12:04:05 · answer #10 · answered by larry m♥ 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋