Family & Relationships - 14 July 2007

I don't get it. I would like to have sex with an older woman, preferably about 30. I'm just obsessed with the idea. Any ideas why or how to fix this?

2007-07-14 21:14:29 · 3 answers · asked by Ashley P 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm the closing shift manager at a Wendy's in New York. There is this 19 year old kid that's always giving me a hard time. Every chance he gets he does something to cause me grief. There are 2 other guys that work with us that he hangs out with. He got in an arguement with one of the guys, the other one is his best friend. He told his best friend he better not talk to the other guy, anyways one night we were all working except for the jerk, we will call him Bob. Bob parked down the street and spyed through the window and saw the 2 of them talking. When his best friend went to leave Bob was outside waiting and yelled at him for talking to the other guy. This is just some of the stuff he does. He has went to the police many times to file complaints about my husband saying he's harrassing him. My husband has talked to him only because Bob gets me so upset. He lies about me to get me fired and I dont know why. My boss wont fire him and I dont know why. She knows he harrasses me.

2007-07-14 21:12:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

This case involes a father who has current child support, but whose visitation to the 13 YO girl has been blocked by the mother. Dividing his court/attorney costs by the number of times he's seen her, it averages out to $1900.00 per visit.

Until recently, he hasn't seen the girl for six months. He saw her by waiting near her school when she called to asked that he be there.

At the time, she informed him that her mother was wanting a baby, so she's been using a turkey baster to put her boyfriend's semen in her. The father called the police, but rather than have him take the child to a hospital, family services told the police to take her to be examined than put her in a temporary holding center for children in need. Than, despite his requests, they placed her in a foster care home, 200 miles away, as there were no local spots available.

To add insult to injury, they filed for an increase in his child support to pay for it. The mother and boyfriend fled the state.

2007-07-14 21:11:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

so me and my friend were on myspace and i told her to send my ex a message and she asked him if he likes anyone, and who he wants to go out with. he said "idontknow, i want to be single for awhile" what does that mean?
like does that mean he doesnt want to be tied down by one person and be able to talk to different girls or what?

2007-07-14 21:09:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-14 21:07:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

why is it when I had my girlfriend, I lost interest in her, but now that she's gone, she's all I can think of. When I had, everyone and everything else was important and fun, but not her. But now she's gone, I realize that those other things are really meaningless. Why did it take her being gone forever to see this? Why did it feel like the opposite when we were together?

I just can't get over meeting her. With her, I felt so confident, I forsook her. but after she left, I saw myself not as the prince as she had, but as the 40 year old fat man who is balding and my career went nowhere. The family I went back, that hated her, now I relaize how much I hate them.

2007-07-14 21:03:50 · 6 answers · asked by thelatahboy 1 in Singles & Dating

What would my success rate be. haha.

2007-07-14 20:59:41 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey ppl ..i sense somthing wrong wit my famly..and its been goin on for 6 yrs naw ..My dad has never took us famly out ..or spend money on us..Always loosing temper and moaning is he was to take us to shopping.My dad is an army offiser aswell..i mean i know for sure he has lots of money ..but never spends on us ..always going to horse racing stuff and spends money.He had just logged in yahoo and had forgotten to sign out. And when he left..i went in it and by surprice he was still signed on ..so i thought about checking his inbox and im SHOCKED!!!! I cought him being a member of matchmaker...and i also read his profile..and the status is divorced ..no kids.. !! And ive noticed him making contacts with lots of women and flirting with them. And in one message he even wrote to this chinese gurl ..asking her if she cud find him a decent girlfriend with described profile!!! What does this mean?? Is this bastard cheating on my mum

2007-07-14 20:57:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was 16 when i lost my virginity. My friend Madison is only 14 and is already asking about having sex. She keeps asking me on advice if she should do it or not. I keep on telling her she needs to wait but she dissagrees. Her bf is my age 16 and i think hes presuring her to do it. how do i stop my friend from having these urges to have steps. Do you think shes trying to follow my footsteps?

2007-07-14 20:56:10 · 10 answers · asked by hollister_babe_177 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am not a good looking guy and i no this ..so in my mind, this is unlikely..how can i tell without asking her

2007-07-14 20:52:47 · 23 answers · asked by heart of ice 2 in Friends

2007-07-14 20:50:40 · 15 answers · asked by ~dreamvette~ 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiancee and I have been together for about 2 years. She moved in with me from another state about 9 months ago. We were attached to the hip and we did everything together. We started out as long distance and we were on the phone all the time, talking/texting each other. We saw each other 1-2 times a month, we would meet halfway (4 hr drive) or I would fly her here or I would fly to her. I found out I had to deploy 3 months ago and she moved back home to her parents' house. When I was going through training she would call me all the time, telling me she misses me, crying, talking, texting, etc. Midway through my training I've noticed phone calls and texts were less and we were drifting apart. I figured she just started her new job and she was busy. Then a few weeks later, she said she wasn't sure if she loved me anymore. I saw her on a 4 day pass and she was reassured she still loved me. So I deployed to the mid east three weeks ago. I called her 1.5 wks ago, she tells me she met someone 2 weeks ago, they connected, couldn't stop thinking about him, etc. and she said she doesn’t love me anymore. She said she loved me, but not in-love with me anymore. So what happened?

2007-07-14 20:44:03 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was scary and confused. We were a friends for 2 years, he was always polite w/me. Now he keeps coming to my room every night, wake me up, touch me, etc. My boyfriend works a night shift, so his father feels free to visit me. I told him what I don't want him to be here, but he went crazy. He dosen't hurt me much, but I'm unable to fight. I don't want to let my boyfriend know, he'll can acuse me. I can't tell anybody about it. I'm so scary. Please, help me. Please, tell me how to avoid him... Thank you

2007-07-14 20:43:51 · 16 answers · asked by irina v 2 in Singles & Dating

After i lost her i feel like i don't know what to do. i feel like i'm so alone.now i can't do any thing.can you help me?

2007-07-14 20:41:53 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I got married with an american and he wants me to change my last name to his last name. I think, it is very old fashioned and rude for me. In my country no body do that. If u are an american, plz tell me why I have to change my last name?
Tanx
Paris

2007-07-14 20:40:07 · 15 answers · asked by Paris 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend is black and I am white. I have never really been attracted to white men. I love tall black men and they're right: Once you go black, you never go back! I've been in 3 relationships and two have been with black men and one with a persian guy.

My friends think i'm weird, and people still point at my boyfriend and I on the street as if we are weird since we are of the opposite race. I still can't believe that in this modern day and age there are still ignorant people out there making a big deal out of interracial relationships!

But that's not what i'm curious about. I know interracial relationships are completely normal, but I was just wondering if it's okay that I am not attracted to white men? I mean, I find some of them extremely good looking, but it's not exactly about physical attraction; it's beyond that. I'm just not attracted to them overall. I love them as friends and I respect them but can't picture myself dating one.

2007-07-14 20:38:26 · 13 answers · asked by Tiger 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Say for instanse a guy said I am into led zeplin and know how to play immagrant on my guitar

and I said thats hot dude

would that be flirting?

2007-07-14 20:37:39 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is a Soldier who was depolyed to afghanistan in feb. he is coming home on leave in aug and we were gonna go to hawaii to get married ..untill he told me the other day that we couldnt be married cause he was already. he said he married his best friends sister so she coud get her citizenship a few yrs ago. He said he was trying to get a divorce and he is sorry for not telling me sooner. then i asked if there wa anything else i needed to know and he said just one thing. he slept with a married woman just before we got together and she got pregnant and the baby is 2 months old and he is not sure if it is his or not. he said she emailed him before the baby was born and asked if he thought it might be his but has not contacted him since the birth,what the hell should I do ...stay( I left my husband for him..i was sure he is the love of my life) or leave? i have 2 children who adore him as well.
HELP one part of me wants to run and the other stay cause i love him so deeply?

2007-07-14 20:35:38 · 7 answers · asked by Hot mama 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-14 20:34:27 · 18 answers · asked by 結縁 Heemei 5 in Singles & Dating

Why can’t people just say how they are feeling and talk about what’s bothering them. I m not a mind reader?

I just want to be able to get along with everyone without the crap. I m not in a friggin soap opera drama I don’t want my life to be like that.
I am I just being naïve in thinking that I will ever find some friends who are down to earth and level headed?

I just want to be happy and I m sick of the liars and fakers, when will it ever stop!!!

2007-07-14 20:33:51 · 7 answers · asked by Vanessa B 1 in Friends

2007-07-14 20:33:50 · 9 answers · asked by ~dreamvette~ 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Your sooo beautiful. What's your name. Would you be my girlfriend. Would you be freaked out? BTW the guy looks HOT. But you never seen him before.

2007-07-14 20:32:10 · 6 answers · asked by hahaiwon 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I are doing really great but my old friend Ben radomly comes out of no where in town and all these old feelings came up and I felt like I loved him and it was nice to have him around again but when I woke up next to my boyfriend sleeping I knew I loved him and not Ben and I felt reallu bad. I told my boyfriend all we did was talk and I thought I had feelings but I knew Derek was the one. He said all he cared ws me being honest and he trusts me but I still think he's relaly mad but tells me he's nto because we're dating?

2007-07-14 20:31:12 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-14 20:29:21 · 16 answers · asked by Mandie S. 1 in Marriage & Divorce

UHH H0W D0 i BREAK UP WITH THE FRESHMAN GUY I D0NT WANT T0 BREAK HIS HEART HELP

2007-07-14 20:26:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It seems like everywhere you go and turn someone is getting married. And you hear all these stories of being together for 3 weeks, or 4 weeks and then BAM your married. Isn't there any time to get to know the person you are about to spend your entire life with? or do you just want a good f*** for a year or so and then its on to the next one. Please let me know

2007-07-14 20:25:22 · 7 answers · asked by Derek S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

5'10'normal all over but my belly 40inch,i have the worst complex possible,its not the size of a watermelon but it getting bigger by the years,im ready to give up trying to lose it at 49 years old...is it really a big turn off?

2007-07-14 20:23:42 · 9 answers · asked by wzr5gq20032000 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-14 20:14:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

when people say they are "horny" wat does it REALLY mean.....wat does it feel like?i have absolutely NO sexual desires but i know people who i am close to that say they r feeling horny....wat is it really??and like i said i have no sexual desires i just want to know

2007-07-14 20:12:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well me and my girl have been goin out for about 4years and she started school and works, I as well go to school and work on average we see eachother once every 2 weeks and spend at the most 2 hours on the phone. When we first started going out she complained i never gave her attention now when i try to talk to her we always fight over nothing. stupid little arguments over nothing at all. Im sick of this I really love her and see her as my future wife but im sick of this shitty relationship. She's always mad now and has a really shitty attitude torwards me as if i dont matter but when i mention breaking up she cries. what can i do girls?

2007-07-14 20:09:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating