Why can’t people just say how they are feeling and talk about what’s bothering them. I m not a mind reader?
I just want to be able to get along with everyone without the crap. I m not in a friggin soap opera drama I don’t want my life to be like that.
I am I just being naïve in thinking that I will ever find some friends who are down to earth and level headed?
I just want to be happy and I m sick of the liars and fakers, when will it ever stop!!!
2007-07-14 20:33:51 · 7 answers · asked by Vanessa B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It will probably never stop. I think there are too many people out there who just like to create drama. Sometimes when they're hurt, people don't like to talk about it right away. It might not be that they're looking for you to be a mind reader, but just that they need time to figure things out.
If this is going to happen in many relationships in your future, then I'd say find a way to deal with it. For me, I just sort of stay away from my friends when they're in Drama Phase. I keep as much distance as possible, lying that I was busy. I'll listen to them complain, but don't offer any suggestions until I think they're ready to hear them.
2007-07-14 20:40:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
WELL SWEETIE UR ALWAYS GONNA FIND FAKE, LIARS IN THIS WORLD, THAT'S JUST INEVITABLE. HOWEVER, U R THE ONE WHO WILL DECIDE WHETHER OR NOT 2 ASSOCIATE WITH THAT TYPE OF PEOPLE. IF U FIND SOMEONE (A FRIEND WHO IS A DRAMA QUEEN, LIAR, AND A FAKE) THEN STOP BEING FRIENDS WITH THEM AND MOVE ON.
SIMPLE AS THAT. LIFE IS ONLY AS COMPLICATED AS WE MAKE IT. SO IF UR REALLY TIRED OF THE DRAMA, THEN PUT A STOP 2 IT. IT'LL END WHEN UR READY 2 END IT. U HAVE THE POWER. NO ONE ELSE.
AND YES DOWN 2 EARTH, LEVEL HEADED PEOPLE DO EXIST. U JUST HAVE 2 BE PICKY ON WHO U CHOOSE 2 CALL FRIEND. TAKE CARE AND GOOD LUCK IN UR SEARCH.
2007-07-14 20:40:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying to find friends let them come to you.
2007-07-14 20:36:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Happiness is a choice, not a gift from others.
2007-07-14 20:36:56 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Say it on their face...! If u wanna say it then SAY IT NOW!! IF they don listen then let them go HOME!!!
Itz better to be alone then to be in bad comapny :) rmembr tht !
2007-07-14 20:44:17 · answer #5 · answered by Twinky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can relate.
anyway,
Wanna share some trees?
2007-07-14 21:24:47 · answer #6 · answered by Virginnniiiaa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JOIN THE PARTY---I am sick of them too! !! ! ! !
2007-07-14 20:37:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋