2007-07-14 20:33:50 · 9 answers · asked by ~dreamvette~ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I tried to remaining friends with my ex.
But he and every girlfriend he has had tried to make my life hell.
I never wanted him back, yet after the divorce he forgot he had children.
Now ten years later when he has no one, he calls and wants to visit our children.
I am happy for that, yet I no longer want to be part of his life.
2007-07-14 22:13:48 · answer #1 · answered by unity 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be perfectly honest with you, I've never been married but I can tell you, that unless there's kids involved most ex's rarely stay good friend's after a divorce. Unless of course you got a divorce because you were having differences, because of your careers or maybe you agreed to get a divorce because you two just realized it wasn't going to work anymore and you wanted to handle the whole thing in a civil and respectable manner.
2007-07-15 04:18:20 · answer #2 · answered by 00silky 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well, i am not divorced yet. we weren't talking for a long time and finally after a month of waiting for him to sign the papers, he wrote me telling me that he has been sick and that he will get them done as soon as possible. then i said that i still care about him and that we just weren't meant to be married but we can still be friends if he wanted cause we were always friends and now we have been talking again. but we'll see how long that lasts after the divorce is finale.
2007-07-15 08:49:48 · answer #3 · answered by sweet serinity 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first year we didn't talk.......
The second year we began to speak civil to each other....
Now, after almost 5 years, we laugh and joke. We have some really good conversations, and we actually get along better then we did when we were married.
The pressures of married life can sometimes ruin a good friendship. That's what happened to us.
You absolutely can be good friends with your X after a divorce.
Heck, I always liked the guy......It just wasn't a good thing for us to be married.
One thing I never will ever do is take trash about my X to anyone......especially my grown children.
2007-07-15 04:04:45 · answer #4 · answered by conim2002 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that is a personal decision. For me I decided that it would be easirer for me to walk away completely and not look back. I just decided that being divorced meant for me that, that part of my life was over and so it was time for me to move on. I just went through divorce recently. If you ever need to talk just send me an e-mail.
2007-07-15 03:39:48 · answer #5 · answered by Chipper33 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am trying to be friends but she is making it very difficult. So slowly I am giving up that idea of keeping a friendship type relationship.
2007-07-15 03:39:37 · answer #6 · answered by jorge e 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am friends with both of them my husband which is #3 doesn't like it but i can't see being enemies just because we couldn't make a go of it.
2007-07-15 03:40:14 · answer #7 · answered by Teenie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes.....I even send him magazines and things to the prison he is in.....the place he was destined to go to long ago.
2007-07-15 03:38:03 · answer #8 · answered by theartisttwin 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Though i'd like to be but no.
2007-07-15 03:39:56 · answer #9 · answered by Sean 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋