why is it when I had my girlfriend, I lost interest in her, but now that she's gone, she's all I can think of. When I had, everyone and everything else was important and fun, but not her. But now she's gone, I realize that those other things are really meaningless. Why did it take her being gone forever to see this? Why did it feel like the opposite when we were together?
I just can't get over meeting her. With her, I felt so confident, I forsook her. but after she left, I saw myself not as the prince as she had, but as the 40 year old fat man who is balding and my career went nowhere. The family I went back, that hated her, now I relaize how much I hate them.
2007-07-14 21:03:50 · 6 answers · asked by thelatahboy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you married? Is that family that hated your "girlfriend" include your wife and children? You are such a child. You want only what you don't have, and don't appreciate what you do have.
Your problem is you want it all, and don't want to have to choose one or the other. Family or single life, that's your choice.
But stop messing the people in your life around by your indecision.
2007-07-14 21:11:40 · answer #1 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guess you've spent too much time with that negative family, which caused you to be critical of others too much!
Get away from the poisonous family influence and start appreciating other people and yourself!
Think positively and look for the good and you'll find it.
Of course no one is perfect , including ourselves, but we can accentuate the positive!
Which I think you really need to do in your life!
2007-07-15 04:09:40 · answer #2 · answered by Donna G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it takes longer for people to see what they have or in your case what you lost
2007-07-15 04:08:51 · answer #3 · answered by rick k 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah man, we all want what we can't have. but its human nature, we never seem to appreciate what we have until we lose it.hope you get her back.
2007-07-15 04:09:58 · answer #4 · answered by fisticuffs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will never really know the imporatnce of someone until they are gone.
2007-07-15 04:14:17 · answer #5 · answered by honey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you ought to have followd your own thought.s not there.s in my opion?
2007-07-15 04:07:51 · answer #6 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋