I was scary and confused. We were a friends for 2 years, he was always polite w/me. Now he keeps coming to my room every night, wake me up, touch me, etc. My boyfriend works a night shift, so his father feels free to visit me. I told him what I don't want him to be here, but he went crazy. He dosen't hurt me much, but I'm unable to fight. I don't want to let my boyfriend know, he'll can acuse me. I can't tell anybody about it. I'm so scary. Please, help me. Please, tell me how to avoid him... Thank you
2007-07-14 20:43:51 · 16 answers · asked by irina v 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if u tell ur bf its gonna make a big problem. i will say tell ur bf to move somewhere else, say u don;t like to stay at his dads place.
2007-07-14 20:49:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you REALLY want to avoid him you should move out or get your boyfriend to stop working night shifts!!!Or another possibility is to go to work with your boyfriend or Go over to a friends until your boyfriend is home or just drive around town !!!You could go into your room and lock your door if you don't have a lock than put a chair up against or something heavy!!!Or you could get a camcorder and video tape it tell your boyfriend and show him the video!!!!Or the BEST thing to do is call the cops!!!!(ASAP)**BEST OF LUCK**
2007-07-14 20:55:11 · answer #2 · answered by gurl4life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Irina, we are more confused than you. Are you a slave? Do you have a place to live? Why are you staying under those circumstances? Why do you pretend as if it is bothering you? Why would you date any man who would not believe that you are being vitimized?
Most readers will read between the lines like me; you are not as victimized as you are trying to come across as being.
2007-07-14 20:50:46 · answer #3 · answered by Richard S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your guy should get your own place and immediatly tell him as well as the cops. TAKE ADVANTAGE OF THE SITUATION. Hire a lawyer and find someway...like a hidden video camera or recorder, record the situation and then sue for millions. TRUST ME!!!
2007-07-14 20:50:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will take baseball ball or some wood and hit him in the head until he blid!!!! Than call police ,u are still joung be careful or learn martial art . THAT WHAT IS HIS FATHER DOING IS WRONG HE IS PEDOPHILE.JUST DEFEND YOUR SELF
2007-07-14 20:56:19 · answer #5 · answered by pakins93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is SERIOUS! You need to tell your boyfriend, move out ASAP, and call the police!
2007-07-14 20:49:12 · answer #6 · answered by Serenity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out and tell your boyfriend. If he doesn't believe you, it means that he loves his dad more than you. Don't call cops cos that ************ will say that's not true.
2007-07-14 21:04:29 · answer #7 · answered by KristinaSRB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats not right! Tell the police!
2007-07-14 20:48:31 · answer #8 · answered by 161_IQ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out... immediately. If your boyfriend asks why, tell him. If he doesn't believe you then he doesn't trust you and if he doesn't trust you then you need to move on to somebody who does. Move out... NOW.
2007-07-14 20:48:47 · answer #9 · answered by Paul Hxyz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your boyfriend, if he doesnt listen then contact the police and move out
2007-07-14 20:47:30 · answer #10 · answered by Jessie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋