My boyfriend and I are doing really great but my old friend Ben radomly comes out of no where in town and all these old feelings came up and I felt like I loved him and it was nice to have him around again but when I woke up next to my boyfriend sleeping I knew I loved him and not Ben and I felt reallu bad. I told my boyfriend all we did was talk and I thought I had feelings but I knew Derek was the one. He said all he cared ws me being honest and he trusts me but I still think he's relaly mad but tells me he's nto because we're dating?
2007-07-14 20:31:12 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Nah, he's not mad. You have past feelings for Ben, that's completely normal. Now as an adult you need to make clear boundries that you can't do "things" with him. If you're mature enough you'll have self control to do so.
Suzy (person above), i've read some of your replies and you have no productive answers for anything other than criticizing people.. stfu
;D
2007-07-14 21:39:48 · answer #1 · answered by Kyung Ho Y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be sleeping with your boyfriend, not until he is your husband. If he has respect for you, he will marry you, before he sleeps with you.
2007-07-15 03:35:49 · answer #2 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋