Family & Relationships - 14 July 2007

we've been dating for a month and a bit
i was thinking right away
but maybe a bit later
i havnt stopped thinkin about her since the moment i met her
and it wasnt long after that we started dating..

when should i tell her that i love her ?
christmas 25th of december with a gift ?
or jus randomly before that give her a gift and tell her?

2007-07-14 03:38:16 · 24 answers · asked by Nick723 3 in Singles & Dating

I sent my sons off for the month of July to stay at their dads just like I am suppose to because that is what was required by me in the divorce. Well, in the mean time my son is only there a week and he gets himself a girlfriend...now my son is only 16 so it's pretty typical to hook back up with an old girlfriend from about two years ago, and I know this girl is trouble. But I get a call from my x saying that my sons no longer want to live with me and that they want to live with him and his wife Now the step mom is a @#%* from what my sons have told me before. Which I rather not go into right now on the things she use to have my sons do. My husband abuse both my sons and myself and dcfs did get involved so we left and moved away from him, but I have to do what the court says by letting him see them. I told my son it was out of the question. So then he said he hated me. I know when he gets back he is going to be out of control and i don't know what to do.

2007-07-14 03:34:42 · 26 answers · asked by christina 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I had a six year relationship with my first boyfriend from 15-21. We did everything together, we even lived together from the age of 17. We had a passionate, up and down love, which I ended up leaving because I thought I should concentrate on my education instead of settling down and marrying so young.
I saw him again five years later, we had a passionate, wonderful vacation, but when it was time to go back to the city where I lived, I left again. Why didn't he ask me to stay? I wondered. Why didn't he take me by the hand, look me in the eye, and ask me to stay? Why didn't I just stay?
Fast forward to today, and he is still in my blood. We communicate by email, he says the reason he didn't ask me that day to stay was because he was so scared I would say no. He says he has never found another love like ours, but is married and has to take care of his wife for now, but says that things might change in the future because he cannot stop loving me, either. I need help with this!

2007-07-14 03:34:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

do you wish you had a love like the ones in Titanic or The notebook? I am 13 and hope i have one like them is that normal.

2007-07-14 03:31:27 · 29 answers · asked by Pese, luv & HATE UofM 2 in Singles & Dating

I got married 3 weeks ago and my husband and I are trying to make love but we just ca't seem to getin the mood. Please help. thanks!

2007-07-14 03:27:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

if your girlfriend loved to shop would you mind going with her every once and a while?
and what if when you went she tried to pick out new cloths for you? would you be offended?

2007-07-14 03:24:01 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had 2 dogs I had they wore in the backyard running and he would contact the pound saying they would bark all day long, he did this several times. I had to get letters from the rest of the neighbords incl. one right next to me, saying that my dogs were not barkers. The pound would come before dutie, during lunch, after dutie and play with the dogs over the fence without me knowing & said that there was no problem. They sent him a letter to back off, because he had threaten me to take me to court. He once threaten my child with a golf club for waiting for the school bus across the street from his house, (by the way he lives on the back/left of my house)with friends in middle school and accused the kids of throwing his garbage on the floor at the time we wore having problems with cats & raccoons. He sees me in a store & comes by me on purpose, he sees my daughter with my sister & says you're taking too long checking out hurry. My kid goes to school with his grandson and feels horrible.

2007-07-14 03:19:39 · 15 answers · asked by Erika V 1 in Family

A daughter of a family friend is getting married at the end of the month and I discovered that she has registered at 7 different places for everything from a dust pan to a power saw.
Should I go off their registry requests or be different and get them something original?

2007-07-14 03:17:27 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Guys (and girls) please answer.

2007-07-14 03:11:18 · 56 answers · asked by Talon 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-14 03:07:24 · 8 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

i've been married for about a year, and have been trying to find my husband's divorce certificate from his previous marriage.there has been no paperwork evidence of a divorce, and i am unsure of what to do.

2007-07-14 02:55:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-14 02:54:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The thing he dosent understand is that I am 3 months pregnant, and have been extremely tired and very nauseated. I admit to sleeping alot lately, but my body is telling me to sleep. I am not lazy, just tired. Also I am a germaphobe, I hate dirty, yucky things, and he says " you need to just bite the bullet and clean those things that grosss you out", well it makes me ill, and i cant stand things that smell funny. Is he right to keep yelling and criticizing me because of my nonproductivity lately(just since becoming pregnant), or should he give me a break? Please help me by giving me any suggestions you can...our relationship is falling apart because of this.

2007-07-14 02:49:11 · 17 answers · asked by Smiley 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 25 and my husband and I have been together since I was 17. We just aren't clicking. I love him. I just think I am boring him. He is a sagitarius . I want to make things more fun in ALL areas of our relationship. P{lease give me some ideas.thanks

2007-07-14 02:37:51 · 12 answers · asked by junebaby 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband, who I have three kids with, left me for a year claiming to have fallen in love with our friend, came back saying mistake. Won't give up his friendship with her and thinks I should be ok with his feelings. It is tearing me apart each time he "pops down for coffee." Don't say make him choose, he says I have no right to dictate his friends. Just wish he loved me as much as he cares for her. Don't want to split again as kids really missed him and don't want to uproot them, but can't go on crying. Things go well, she gets her paws on him and everything is my fault again. Tried speaking to her years ago when this first started, she says she can't help it. Obviously spoken to husband, he says he can't help feelings and I should be glad he's honest and it hurts him to know I feel this way.

2007-07-14 02:32:52 · 35 answers · asked by mo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i am thirteen years old and i unfortunaltly have friends who are to faced and dont know how to confront or deal with them

2007-07-14 02:29:12 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Is there any word(s) in which any one can define LOVE.

2007-07-14 02:23:13 · 16 answers · asked by anil k 1 in Singles & Dating

Ex is from the UK. He has denied being the bio father of our child whom he has never seen in person, nor been involved with.

Had made threats, so his name is not on birth certif., refused to do DNA, knows he has a child support order in our divorce papers, and said he threw it in the trash. Has been on a vendetta against me, never once wanting to see our child....just bent on harassing me, saying Im keeping him from entering the country!( His name is flagged but he can visit )

If he has denied he is the father, refusing to do DNA...how can I terminate his rights with his being the 'legal' father as we were married still when I gave birth? DO I have to put his name on the birth certif. NOW and then try ..or only unless a DNA test is done...and time passes again with his non involvement?

Or should I just leave it be? He only has a physical address for us cause of his past threats w/his girlfriend..and he has never petitioned the courts in 2 yrs for his visitation rights.

2007-07-14 02:22:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I like guys with a good heart,smart,strong,cute

2007-07-14 02:20:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-14 02:17:27 · 37 answers · asked by specialtk2006 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-14 02:13:15 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

before you answer, think of the couple an hour before and after the weeding. What have you observe on them?

The most important question is at the moment when they are wed who is happier?

2007-07-14 02:03:34 · 20 answers · asked by CPUcate 6 in Weddings

what meaning of love?

2007-07-14 01:56:59 · 5 answers · asked by nimajalalizadeh 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok now i know it could be worse but im very upset that my 14 year old son keeps smoking weed!he had a rough last 2 years and is on probation .he doesnt really get in much trouble besides normal teenage stuff and has done a remarkible turnaround but he wont stop smokeing weed.he could test at any time i gruond him and when he gets to finally go some where he gets high it worrys me so much it is makeing me phisically ill. am i worrying to much?tell me what you guys think.all comments and thoughts are welcome

2007-07-14 01:51:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Differece between love marriage n arranged marriage?

2007-07-14 01:44:31 · 34 answers · asked by raashi 2 in Marriage & Divorce

im indonesian women looking for serius relation to become husband , some body say so im pretty ,humoris like with chaildren ,patient ,loyal and honeysty, my age 47 years old !!!

2007-07-14 01:44:27 · 3 answers · asked by Poppy M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-14 01:31:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Which towns and cities? By HOT I mean in looks AND personality

2007-07-14 01:31:31 · 13 answers · asked by Fishing Twit 2 in Singles & Dating

A good friend of mine who can be somewhat of a b*tch walked in on me getting changed last night.

My friend feels she's overweight and needs to loose a few pounds.

Anyway, I was trying on bra's that I bought. I'm very self conscious about my breasts. Nobody has ever seen them aside from my current boyfriend with whom I've been with for two years. My breasts are very small. I think I'm either a 32A or a 32B it varies sometimes I fit into 32A's other times I fit into 32B's.

To get to the point I was trying on these two push-up bra's I had that were size 32 B. They fit "OK" but for some reason didn't give me as much "push" as I would have liked.

Well my friend walked in and started laughing at me. She told me she thought it was funny that a 20 year old female would/could have such a small chest. She THEN took off her top and tried on one of the two bra's I purchased that was a push up and said "ha these push me up more I'll take them off your hands."

2007-07-14 01:28:41 · 16 answers · asked by LiL Chrissy 1 in Singles & Dating

My former husband got married before he was legally divorced from me. When the divorce was final, he remarried the same person. He died two years later, and left nothing to his daughter from the 1st marriage. Do you think the 2nd marriage was legal?

2007-07-14 01:25:32 · 10 answers · asked by Lady D 2 in Marriage & Divorce