we've been dating for a month and a bit
i was thinking right away
but maybe a bit later
i havnt stopped thinkin about her since the moment i met her
and it wasnt long after that we started dating..
when should i tell her that i love her ?
christmas 25th of december with a gift ?
or jus randomly before that give her a gift and tell her?
2007-07-14 03:38:16 · 24 answers · asked by Nick723 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think a month is a bit too soon
love is a really strong emotion that you shouldnt play around with by saying it to everyone girl you date
BUT ONLY YOU KNOW IF YOU SINCERELY LOVE HER OR NOT
IF YOU FEEL THOSE STRONG EMOTION TOWARDS HER THEN GO FOR IT...YOU'LL KNOW WHEN THE TIME IS RIGHT...:)
2007-07-14 03:45:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the girl and how she feels. Do you think she loves you too? If it is possible, then telling her soon will be ok. I would do it first time in a really romantic letter sent with a small gift or given at a dinner out.
Word of caution: Be sure you love her and that it isn't just a deep liking and/or infatuation. A month isn't really very long to know if you love someone. Once you tell a girl you love her, it becomes serious and you can't take those words back later. If you're not sure you love her, then tell her what you just said. That you think about her all the time. That you like this thing or that thing about her. Just tell her your true feelings and not try to sum it all up with "I love you". She'll respect you more if you tell her the other stuff first, and wait till your sure before you tell h er you love her.
However, if you are sure it is real love, then go for it in whatever way feels good for you. I think a note and a flower is short, sweet and romantic.
Good luck.
2007-07-14 03:45:15 · answer #2 · answered by Top Alpha Wolf 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that depends on the personality of your girlfriend. no two people are alike. in the same way, no 2 girls think the same. some girls would jump for joy after being told of the precious 3 words weeks after dating. others would have doubts. others would be ecstatic to receive gifts from someone they fancy. others would have doubts. know her first. better yet, ask yourself and answer with complete honesty if you really like her despite her bad days when she has spots on her face and hair in a mess and suggestive of dandruff growth? that despite the fact that she can fart with a vengeance with smell that could kill a small population of animals? that she may snore when asleep and might even sleep talk? that she has a long-since-dead big toe? that she can be moody and snap at you at times especially during her period? humans are not perfect and if you still like her very much despite some imperfections and would want to get to know her more, then yes, you do love her. it wouldnt hurt to tell her. she can either tell you to take a hike, ask you to give her time or simply break down and cry out of hapiness. thats the risk you have to take.
2007-07-14 03:52:51 · answer #3 · answered by blah blah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no wrong or right time to tell someone you love them. If you feel it now then tell her. If you don't think she is ready to hear it then you might wanna wait. It took less than a month for my fiancee and I to say those words to each other. We have been together nearly 4 years now. Say it when you want and how you wanna. Good Luck!
2007-07-14 03:52:12 · answer #4 · answered by curious_boricua_soul 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is new "lust", not, "love," you have to be careful not to get them mixed up. Love is a powerful word and by knowing this person for such a short period of time and to say "i love you" can really damage them if later on down the line you didn't mean it. It's not that what you are feeling is not true feelings but you just need to be for sure.
2007-07-14 03:46:38 · answer #5 · answered by RevGal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart. Let her knows when you feel like letting her knows. I guess you're still very young. A relationship doesn't end you let her knows what you feel. True love is a long journey and you won't be comtemplating over moments like this every now and then.
2007-07-14 03:46:54 · answer #6 · answered by JJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 1 month of knowing her is way too early. Why don't you wait a while and make it more meaningful. Christmas is a good plan.
2007-07-14 03:41:26 · answer #7 · answered by ((♫♥♪♫♥♪♫ Shivers ♫♥♪♫♥♪)) 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to wait until Christmas. If I love you is a big thing to you two, buy her roses, and write i love you on the tag. Then say it in person. she'll find it adorable, trust me. Good luck! =D
2007-07-14 03:43:29 · answer #8 · answered by kristingirl2010 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just go with your heart. If you love her its better to find out if she loves you too. That way you both can move to the next level of your relationship. Best of luck.
2007-07-14 03:43:10 · answer #9 · answered by sillygal81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her when you're sure you mean it. If that's now, then fine. But don't say it unless you're absolutely sure. And don't be offended if she takes a little bit to say it back - some people take longer than others.
2007-07-14 03:41:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋