Family & Relationships - 14 July 2007

My friend Ben and I were really good friends but then his mom died and a lot of things ahppend ( my mom died a month before) Ben shut me out of his life but yet was talking to others and would totaly ignore me. And when I did talk to him, he'd ionly say a couple words and then have to go. But last night I just saw him for the first time in months and he said he was sorry fr what he had done and that he loved me.All these old feelings came back and I don't know what to do?

2007-07-14 08:18:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Get a myspace. They said people get kidnapped, raped, and stalked. This is true, but the people this happens to give out personal information such as phone numbers, addresses, ages, schools, states, towns, etc. I wouldn't put any personal info and won't accept anyone I don't know as a friend and they still won't let me. What are some websites that give articles explaining that only people that give personal info can get stalked! If you don't give information, then people can't find you! And please, don't respond if you are just going to tell me not to get a myspace and all that stuff. Thanks in advance!!!!

2007-07-14 08:18:20 · 14 answers · asked by charley 3 in Family

2007-07-14 08:18:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-14 08:17:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a past affair in college life.Though it is one sided but still it is very important part of my life.I was studying in B.sc final year when I fell in love with a girl.But she refuses my prposal.Due to which I suffered from severe depression at that time.Now I am perfectly all right and that girl also get married and she has a kid.But I am still unmarried because I keep distance from every girl after that incident.You can say this my negative attitude but it is true.Now in future If I get married I should tell my wife about my past affair or not?

2007-07-14 08:16:11 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

could we use to show that we are married? I guess body language does sure say a lot huh?

Thanks!! :)

2007-07-14 08:11:50 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Every year more and more men are looking outside of the USA for women to take as their wives. I made the decision to do this, and married a beautiful woman with great morals, and family values.
I have talked with several other men that are in the process, or have done this, and they all tell me the same things. They couldn't find a woman here that 1. wanted to settle down with one man 2. had children from a past realtionship ( or children from several men) 3. were addicted to substances (including pharmacedical), 4. Had too much baggage (lots of ex-lovers)

The majority of these guys aren't the ones stereotyped to look for women overseas... these guys are mid 20's to mid-30's, in good condition, well off financially. THEY AREN"T LOOKING FOR SLAVES ladies!

So I pose this question...do women from different countries make better wives?

also- any guys that have any questions on the process- email me. I can give you some advice ( I am not a professional on this, but can help some)

2007-07-14 08:11:24 · 12 answers · asked by baron d 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I live in tragedy. My daughter and I were best friends; when she was a child; we were appropriately parent and child. We got along so well; everyone commented on how much we loved each other, what a happy and great family we were.

After her wedding fell through, we became even closer--for two years. Then one day she turned on me--just like that! I was in shock and asked her what happened, "I thought we were doing well." Her answer was a sarcastic "You're great in a crisis."

She was about 30 by this time, and had never talked "mean" to me before. Everything got worse, until now I am no longer "welcome" in her life--and that means the life of my grandson, as well. It is a fate worse than death for me.

My son is baffled. She won't explain herself. Before the final banishment, she was verbally cruel, and one night lost her temper so badly she started bashing me. (Note, I never hit either of my children.)

I fear it's the medication; SSRI's can cause violence.

2007-07-14 08:08:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Do girls get all shy and quiet around guys like.. suddenly? Like almost avoiding them... bcs my best girl friend of 2 years is suddenly doing just that! We saw eachother for the 1st time in 3 months last Monday for driving class (we talked often).. we talked and stuff, it was good... since then though she has barely said 1 word to me!! NOT LIKE HER!! And i didn't do anything to make her upset or anything!! Can a girl be your friend for 2 years and then suddenly develope feelings for you? Either she likes me or something is REALLY wrong!! I called her a couple days ago to see if anything was wrong, no answer.. she called be back 5 min later apologized she said the phone was in the other room... then she said nothing was wrong... our last class i played a game with her... she had her hand resting on her thigh.. so i did the same thing.. i started wiggling my fingers up and down... few seconds later, she did the same.. i stopped she stopped.. i started again, and then she started again...

2007-07-14 08:06:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Cogours are woman who love to entangle younger men and affair of heart with them which can even end up in physical relationship.

2007-07-14 08:05:49 · 6 answers · asked by dave murphy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

when my friend who i like asked me 2 go out 2 a water park i said ya ok ill go. and she said everyone will pay their way. (there were 4 of us now). after a while the car broke down, a mech helped us and didnt charge us. but my friend and the driver gave 10 each. so we got 2 the park and when we left the car broke down again. the driver paid for anitfreez ($10). it broke down again, then we found this guy that helped us. the driver asked me and i gave 6. my friend and her cuz gave bout 4 each. it broke down again then the drivers parents gave everyone a lift home exept me. my cab ride $12. my friend gave me 5. but i was right the whole time giving them directions and trying 2 save power on the car batt and noboy would believe me and my friends cuz was giving me a attitude and expecting me 2 pay for everything. but no one would listen 2 me. and my friend was supposed too pay 4 her cuz cuz she didnt have money. mayb it was the sircumstances but i felt like i was paying 4 everyone.

2007-07-14 08:05:32 · 2 answers · asked by ace 2 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-14 08:02:58 · 10 answers · asked by midnight_star_chaser 3 in Singles & Dating

im 17, ive been with my girlfriend for 6 months. we are not are not being silly but we both want to sleep together. How do I know if im doing it right, its making me feel sick with worry. all our mates and us are going away for the weekend to a wedding me and my girlfriend have booked a double room, its D day for me, but im so nervous now, could it all go wrong through nerves...........

2007-07-14 08:01:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

always curious about this and want to see what people have to say about this. HOw on earth provide alink if possible on how to join the porn industry and become a star there.

2007-07-14 08:01:06 · 11 answers · asked by fijihunkinca 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

guy told me he was a bowtie man and i wanna know what exactly that is.

2007-07-14 08:00:48 · 2 answers · asked by Robin G 2 in Singles & Dating

i've met my mothers 2nd cousin recently. but i did not see him since i was child, but my problem is im begening to like him becoused we have comunication ever since the day we intruduced. he send me sweet notes, and he cares for me a lot and i can feel that he like me too. we sleep together and he kissed me. but i ignore it as if im in a deep sleep pls. help me what should i do

2007-07-14 08:00:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Like if it says who your true love, to find out press F6 .........It would actually show!

2007-07-14 07:58:24 · 19 answers · asked by ariannacastll 1 in Friends

she told me that husband is a jailbird and was in on possession of a drug looking to distribute it

2007-07-14 07:55:28 · 7 answers · asked by Madmen22 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-14 07:54:00 · 13 answers · asked by Trish 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Fisrt of all im shy when comes to anything sexual. But i want to let my man know that I do want him without saying it.

2007-07-14 07:53:23 · 11 answers · asked by MzCalio 1 in Singles & Dating

anyone got some good ones

2007-07-14 07:52:15 · 9 answers · asked by jessica j 1 in Singles & Dating

My BFF was going out with this guy a few months ago. they broke up and i am dating him. we've been dating for two months. My friend and him were goingout for 3 weeks. Last week my friend just found out she is pregnant with my boy friend's child. This leaves me in a wierd possition. Should I let my boy friend tske on to fatherhood or tell him i want to stay with him. Plus we are only 17 so.....yeah.

2007-07-14 07:48:51 · 14 answers · asked by robertson_1995 1 in Friends

i broke up with this guy almost 5 years ago he always cheated on me he was very jealous and he physically abused me once in a while i finally left his *** i have moved on and im very happy with my boyfriend now of 3 years the ex still calls and tells me that he loves me and that he wants to be with me i tell him im happy without him and that he should just understand the fact that i dont want to be in any kind of a relationship with him he has a girlfriend and a child now but he just doesnt understand what should i tell him why doesnt he get it already?

2007-07-14 07:46:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well i was out yesterday and 3 guys came up to me (at different times) and complimented me on my looks. they said i was "hott" which made me a little uncomfortable and my face turned BRIGHT red. i don't know if it was just because he said that specific thing but i really don't want my face to turn red when a guy compliments me or something. please don't take this question the wrong way i just really want to know how to overcome this. cause i'm afraid guys will think i'm wierd or something. so what can i do?

2007-07-14 07:45:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-14 07:44:10 · 8 answers · asked by jane 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend who is now my ex boyfriend says he loves me but he needs to be there for his son so we decided to break things off between us. He has a son which he does not yet know in person and well, he wants to be there for his son so, he decided to marry his son's mom for his son's sake not loving his son's mom. Do you think he is making the right choice even though he loves me???

2007-07-14 07:36:07 · 18 answers · asked by Blessed 1 in Marriage & Divorce

First off, I'm "too nice" so that should explain a lot.
I'm a Christian guy, and over time all of my female friends have paired off, and the pool of dateables has dried up. In the meantime, I'm surrounded by women who flirt and wouldn't mind a "hook up". When's it time to just chuck dating the "nice Christian girls" who are either attached or too picky and just do what everybody else is doing? I'm beginning to think that being with someone that's "bad for me" is better than being with no one at all. At some point you just become the loser if you're not with a girlfriend, so I'm thinking I need to start dating somebody and work from there rather than nobody at all.

2007-07-14 07:33:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've (other people too) noticed that mostly everyone on here says looks dont matter! that is such bulls***, in real life everyone wants to date the hot girl or hot guy, and the first thing you look at is if they are hot or not, i dont know if yall are just saying that so that the person dont feel bad, ...to me, looks DO matter and im being honest on saying that i want to date an attractive guy only but he has to have a personality i would approve of too but if he only had one of those then i would not date him at all and i would not go out with an ugly guy...so why do you people say that?...guys and girls but especially girls, you KNOW you dont want to date and ugly guy even tho he was nice, and i say its always mainly the girls because you reject most of the guys cuz they are ugly...everyone just say the truth and stop lying to this people on here,

2007-07-14 07:33:24 · 13 answers · asked by play dead 1 in Singles & Dating

I have exercised to within an inch of my life. I've improved my self image, I socialise more, yet to no avail. WHAT THE **** DO YOU WANT FROM ME????

2007-07-14 07:32:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-14 07:31:14 · 6 answers · asked by dCon 5 in Weddings