do women from countries outside the USA make better wives?

Question

Every year more and more men are looking outside of the USA for women to take as their wives. I made the decision to do this, and married a beautiful woman with great morals, and family values.
I have talked with several other men that are in the process, or have done this, and they all tell me the same things. They couldn't find a woman here that 1. wanted to settle down with one man 2. had children from a past realtionship ( or children from several men) 3. were addicted to substances (including pharmacedical), 4. Had too much baggage (lots of ex-lovers)

The majority of these guys aren't the ones stereotyped to look for women overseas... these guys are mid 20's to mid-30's, in good condition, well off financially. THEY AREN"T LOOKING FOR SLAVES ladies!

So I pose this question...do women from different countries make better wives?

also- any guys that have any questions on the process- email me. I can give you some advice ( I am not a professional on this, but can help some)

Answer 1

I wouldn't say better. Different culture and different values. When compared to women in other countries, women in this country are spoiled. I go to school with women from Africa, Russia, Japan and there is an obvious difference in the way they carry themselves but that doesn't make them better.

Answer 2

I really don't give a damn what you and your kind think about me. I am happily married to a fellow American, he's white and I'm black, and we are also both proud soldiers in the Army. If you want a spineless nematode for a wife who will kiss your feet every night and take all your crap, then more power to you. Mamma always said it takes all types to make the world go 'round. But you do not have to issue subversive insults to American women in the process. Most of us grow up in a different culture here, than say, a Russian or Pakistani woman. The social climate is different, so what do you expect? I say to your brethren, happy hunting and good riddance. Most of the American women you are chastizing here probably don't want none of you all either.

Answer 3

I am girl myself and after reading this. I have to give your my opinion and some facts. It nothing wrong with being whoever you want is with. Remember these are the girls you pick these to be in a relationship with. It sounds like your relationship end to many times. Do you know what are looking for in a relationship? Do you even know yourself? Your values, what you want out of life.

Don't think every man going to another country to get a woman out of life. There good & bad women and men. When you meet a female do you ask her before the relationship gets serious. Do you have any children? You should know this before the 3rd date. Is she lied, end the relationship. If someone lied in the beginning in the relationship they will always lied.
As far as substance abuse, some people try to be closest smokers. Eventually, the signs of drug use will come out. None can't hide it. You must don't know the signs of someone has a drug problem. Lots of this is your fault. Get information before having sex with these girls. If you is dealing with a girl that not over her ex. She is not ready to move on to a new relationship. She need help maybe counseling. If you decide to continue the relationship that your fault. Again you knew what you was dealing with.

Everyone has problems. You not perfect. Read the Bible. Everyone will has tribulations. Including you and the woman you marry to. King David, King of Solomon, Adam and Eve has problems. Moses, his sister was stricken with a disease because she didn’t like the woman her brother married. There will be some people don't like interracial couples but that their problem. Along you and her is happy that what count. What makes you think you so special? You full of pride.

I'm in a relationship with someone who is from a different country. We have a child together. I also has a child that not his when we meet. We communicate, our values and differences (which you will have due to male/female are different, both of you are from different cultures, & have different experiences) He has no problem with. He treats my child just like it is his. I be dam if I'm going to let anybody treated my child like an outcast. I will never go for that. All of us are happy. Some people jealousy about it but that their problem. Some of things you say about values system. I do agree with you to a certain degree. I love the United States but the farther away you from this country the closer the family value, the community, the crime rates, even in poor areas in the world. I see this as myself & so did lot of people. Some of the crime you here in this country you will not here no where else in the world. Such as incest, same sex marriage, robbery, theft.

I agree with on some issues and disagree with some issues. In U.S. it about money. They love money. Most people work in the government is greedy. So the people will suffer. I know too many Veterans in U.S. are not being treated right. But if they go elsewhere, they will be treated with the up most respect. I believe if someone serve & protect your country. They & the immediate family should have at least their basic needs cover. Even the bible stated if you have a crooked leader the people will suffer.

I also had to say it sound like you are using these women. Remeber what goes around comes around. God punish people that abuse people. Sooner or later you will get punish. You can;t hide nothing. I mean nothing from God. God place a high value on abuse including finacially and sexually abuse. If you love this women you will respect her.

Answer 4

I think a good woman and wife is a good woman and wife no matter what country she comes from.
There are still lots left here in the USA and I am sure there are lots elsewhere too...I know someone who did the same thing and got a nutcase though.
I just think there are good women who make wonderful wives all over the world...you just have to find the right one...if overseas works better for you and others, cool.

be cool...

Answer 5

Funny cause I can't find a MAN from here who wants to settle down, has no children from several women, is not addicted to any substance including cigarette and hasn't too much baggage. You think I should order a man from a magazine? One that will be pretty with not too much English that way he won't complain too much.

Answer 6

well it depends from which country, i would say that American women are less attractive them some European women and obey there husbands i don't know its just different men have the upper hand in most other countries so ya

Answer 7

are you sure the women overseas aren't using you? spoiling you and what not because they want an easy way to be in America, where it's supposedly suppose to be a better life with access to material wealth (which often is lacking in other countries).

Answer 8

I think for marriage , its a relationship of man and women, minds,their emotions,and their love for each other, they dont make this relationship for generations,not for colours,and not for anything else,but only for attraction between him and her, and i think it can happen anywhere, may in same place, or may out of country. it does not matter that where from anyone but this matters they love each other.and that called marriage.and relationship of husband and wife.

Answer 9

THAT IS BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT MAN ENOUGH TO HANDLE WOMEN FROM THE USA.....WE HAVE THOUGHTS AND OPINIONS AND DON'T LET **** HEADS PUSH US AROUND........SO IN OTHER WORDS, YOU CAN'T HANDLE IT......GET SOME WOMAN FROM ANOTHER COUNTRY THAT WILL DO EVERYTHING YOU SAY AND DO EVERYTHING YOU WANT........WHAT A MAN !!!!

Answer 10

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