i've met my mothers 2nd cousin recently. but i did not see him since i was child, but my problem is im begening to like him becoused we have comunication ever since the day we intruduced. he send me sweet notes, and he cares for me a lot and i can feel that he like me too. we sleep together and he kissed me. but i ignore it as if im in a deep sleep pls. help me what should i do
2007-07-14 08:00:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are asking strangers for our approval. In case you have not looked around, this is your world. You cannot see mine and I cannot see yours. I do not have your eyes and you don't have mine. So if I cannot see yours how the hell can I feel it?How can I feel you? Your feeling about something is the only truth. That you are sure of. Everything else is relative: Some people see it as good, some as bad. Your truth is the ONLY truth.Feelings are the language of the soul. Don't you relises that ALL religious belief, culture, convictions, "right/wrong" are from ANOTHER BEING? Look at it this way. If the same people that answered your question negatively were born in a society where it was acceptable to sleep with their sibling, they would not think twice about it. It just happens to be that you may not live in such a society. This is also why a Christian must not look down upon a Muslim(or any religion thinking itself better): Have you seen that religion is all about GEOGRAPHICAL LOCATION? The same Christian could have been born in Afgh. and would most likely have been a devout Muslim just as he claims he is a superior devout Christian. Now look at it this way. Your location is your family, your settings and thoughts of others around you. I AM NOT in your "mental" location. Just to clarify, I do not become intimate with my relatives because I just don't feel what you feel. Not because I think its right/wrong. If you were my friend I will be accepting of you and you would stay my friend because you just did what is the hardest thing for most people:Someone that loves you and that you love. Every man gotta right to decide his own destiny,
And in this judgement there is no partiality.
So arm in arms, with arms, we'll fight this little struggle,
'Cause that's the only way we can overcome our little trouble.
-bob marley
You came here alone, why not leave doing what you wanted to do by free-will?
2007-07-14 08:27:06 · answer #1 · answered by JeffreyK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would be your 3rd cousin. People do marry 3rd cousins. But I wouldn't do it. The blood lines are still too close. It can cause your children to be born with birth defects. Find some one who is not related to you. There is a whole world of guys out there who are not your blood.
2007-07-14 08:18:55 · answer #2 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I find nothing wrong with the 2nd cousin thing. Your family might though. That's the only problem you may have.
2007-07-14 08:05:39 · answer #3 · answered by katobow 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
it's wrong AND illegal. your children will be illiterate. it's called INTERBREADING and frowned upon in society.....please spare us the expense and yourself the heartache.
2007-07-14 08:17:40 · answer #4 · answered by bella36 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you might need help. I believe this is called incest..which is illegal.
2007-07-14 08:04:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
That's just nasty! were do you live alabama?
2007-07-14 08:03:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
oh-kay,..well..You should think how u feel about him..Do what's in ur heart..
2007-07-14 08:05:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋