Do girls get all shy and quiet around guys like.. suddenly? Like almost avoiding them... bcs my best girl friend of 2 years is suddenly doing just that! We saw eachother for the 1st time in 3 months last Monday for driving class (we talked often).. we talked and stuff, it was good... since then though she has barely said 1 word to me!! NOT LIKE HER!! And i didn't do anything to make her upset or anything!! Can a girl be your friend for 2 years and then suddenly develope feelings for you? Either she likes me or something is REALLY wrong!! I called her a couple days ago to see if anything was wrong, no answer.. she called be back 5 min later apologized she said the phone was in the other room... then she said nothing was wrong... our last class i played a game with her... she had her hand resting on her thigh.. so i did the same thing.. i started wiggling my fingers up and down... few seconds later, she did the same.. i stopped she stopped.. i started again, and then she started again...
2007-07-14 08:06:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Then i tested her personal space... in the end i got about 2-3 inches from having our arms touching.. and she didn't move an inch... so does that sound good? But.. she is just being unresponsive.. she's ignored my emails since last Monday (The only thing i said to possibly make her upset on Sunday was that i didn't want to have a gf (i didn't mean it though!! i just didn't want to fall in love with her again) .. but I have! If something is wrong.. it HAS to be either she likes me or something is really wrong, bcs she said nothing was wrong.. and then changed the subject to “anything new lately?”!! I didn’t do anything I am aware of to make her upset though! I sent her an email yesterday asking her to please talk to me.. I haven’t heard back…. Why is she doing this? Help!!! How do i get her to talk to me and be open?!!?
2007-07-14 08:06:43 · update #1
She probably likes you and wants to know how you feel about her but she is too shy to just ask. You should make the first move and ask her how she feels.
2007-07-14 08:11:37 · answer #1 · answered by sccrrox_mysox12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Mighty,
The quickest way to end this agony is a full frontal attack. Call her (BETTER YET - GO TO HER) and tell her that you need to come clean. Tell her that what you said about not wanting a girlfriend was not right. You do want a girlfriend, and you want that girlfriend to be her. Believe me, things will change back!!
Hugs, kid, get a wiggle on and find that phone or get in the car and head to her house!! :) You sound like a grand guy to me!!! She's lucky!
2007-07-14 08:14:50 · answer #2 · answered by Peanut 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you tell her you don't want a girlfriend, but play games with her, what do you want. You are the one confused. Stop playing games, you either want to have a relationship or not. Make up your mind. Why should she want to get involved to be hurt all over again? You need to put yourself in her position to know how she feels. If you don;t like the way it feels then don't do it to someone else.
2007-07-14 08:14:44 · answer #3 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe she is being quiet because she doesn't know your intentions. If you like her tell her, don't play games and test the waters so to speak to prevent putting your ego at risk. If you care about her the risk is worth it.
2007-07-14 08:11:46 · answer #4 · answered by mamadana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boy u like her more then just a friend .it's shinin. you know what u must talk to her face toface go to see her. if she likes u why you don't make up with her. u know when girls have a best frien boy n be in love with him have scar to lose him as friend or lover
2007-07-14 08:18:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋