Family & Relationships - 14 July 2007

am going to marry my indian boyfriend soon, everything was great untill he told me that his ex-wife asked him to return. I love him so much but am afraid if he will accept his ex-wife again for his kid's reason. He had 2 daughters from her and his ex-wife left him with another guy. She lives in NZ now while my boyfriend lives in UAE. after 4 years my bf finally get contact with their daughters and he is very shocked knowing that his daughter's life is unhappy . I know about his feeling abt this, for me, there will be no problem if the kids want to live near the father as long as his ex-wife not ruin our life. Please tell me what to do ...

2007-07-14 06:41:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My stepdaughter wrecked my custom made Ferrari.She is 13 and as you can see underaged,so I can't report it.The marrige is barely 6 months old and we are not on goon terms.Her mother doesn't know,because I want to handle it myself.What should I do?

2007-07-14 06:38:42 · 35 answers · asked by To Be Left Unsaid! 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what will u do if you found out yr husband might be suffering from heart problems plus currently you've got 3 kids to look after . will you file for a divorce and leave him in case he dies ?

2007-07-14 06:38:34 · 13 answers · asked by kerin 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Need I say more?? She will be here for a week, thankfully she is staying in a hotel. She is really condescending, I really can't stand her. We moved out of state (from eastern NC to the midwest) last summer, and she was an absolute nightmare. Now she's staying for a week! Any advice on how to survive? There isn't too much for entertainment around here!

2007-07-14 06:37:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

about a yr. ago a friend invited me to a once a mo. dinner out w her friends from work. Everyone was nice,but I just wasn't having fun and wanted it to end. My friend seemed to get upset if I tried to cancel so I kept it up. 2 mos ago she and I and another friend had dinner out,and the next nite would have been our usual "girl's nite out". I left a message on my friend's phone saying if we were going out 1 nite I thought I would take a break the next nite as I was low on funds-that was a white lie -I just wanted a break and used that as an excuse.Anyway when we went out to eat(the 3 of us) at the end my friend said "I want you to come out tomorrow nite-so I am paying for you-she actually picked up the whole tab. I said "no- I just can't go out"-I never wanted her to pay for my meal that nite,and I am mad that she just would not take the hint that I just wanted a break. Should she be mad at me? I should have been honest,but she made it hard .

2007-07-14 06:36:32 · 18 answers · asked by ignatzy 2 in Friends

I dont know why but he just does lol its really funny and stupid though lol

2007-07-14 06:34:23 · 2 answers · asked by Brookie Baby 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-14 06:33:50 · 18 answers · asked by d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A mate has started dating a 30 year old woman, he is student and she has got a pretty good job. He is convinced it will work but can it really? She has got a lot going for her and is she likely to go off with someone more on her level and age? Is he going to get heart broken????

2007-07-14 06:31:35 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay so like i've known this guy for a couple years now and we go to the same high school and stuff. He's seventeen((got held back a year)) and well i'm 13((skipped a grade))and he knows i'm 13 and he asked me out...i mean he's always been nice and he's a great guy...should i go out with him???

2007-07-14 06:30:57 · 34 answers · asked by Roxy Andrews 2 in Singles & Dating

They can be slow dances or fast.

2007-07-14 06:28:10 · 8 answers · asked by Ash 3 in Weddings

ive been going out with this guy called james and weve been going owt 4 3 days now. I sed 2 him on tuesday that i luved him nd he was really special nd the next day when i went online he sed he was wndering whether to say yes nd i wuz like yes 2 wat nd he sed to going owt wiv ya so i wuz really suprised nd anyway in the end he said yes. so now is saterday and he hardly talks to me at skool and we havent cuddled or huggled or kissed or anything and we arranged to go 2 da park and see each other nd he aggred but the next day he said e was to busy so i said ok, nd then he sed promise tomorrow tho so the next day cam and i said you atill coming tonight nd he said no but i think thats because it was drizzly so now its saterday nd he aint been online and i really want to go 2 da park with him because its gorgeous outside but his phones switched off and everything ive emailed him but no answer. do you think hes trying to avoid me and only going owt with me to make me happy? i really need help

2007-07-14 06:27:30 · 6 answers · asked by miissyy moo 2 in Singles & Dating

can someone please put me on your contact list!!!?!?!??!



i'll put u on mine!?!?!

2007-07-14 06:27:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i honestly don't know what to do anymore. his parents are getting a divorice after his dad had an affair, and he has changed so much since the guy i met in the first place. he says he's confused, and i believe him. he can't read anymore without thinking about it, he doesn't want to get out of the house, and worst for me, is that he told me that he doesn't love me as much as he used to because of this. -but he does still love me. (that i'm positive of.)

i told him that we should have a relationship that is very, very loose, one with no obligations or requirements. i told him that i am here, no matter what.. but he doesn't want to talk to anyone.

the thing is, he can't go on any meds or anything because he's leaving for the navy in a month and a half.. that's why he's so stressed.

is there any way- and ideas that i can do just to help him out, or get him to cheer up for just a bit? i'm worried sick about him..

thanks. =\

2007-07-14 06:25:59 · 20 answers · asked by F-22's are sexy! 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ihave no friends or relatives ihave no one to talk i feel lonly

2007-07-14 06:24:46 · 17 answers · asked by Noha R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My stepsons went to there grandmothers for about a month 1/2 and when they got back the oldest who is 4 told his mom when he went to sleep to kiss Jesus good night and that he went to church. Now my husband and I and there mom our not religious people at all and I don’t know how we should address this. I think it is kind of wrong that she did that knowing we are not religious people but I will let it go. I think it could have been easier to address at home than how the grandparents did it. My question is now that it is said how we should address it I think that he is young and that getting to into the religion would be against what we think. I think we should just tell him that some people believe certain things and daddy and mommy don’t and so on. My husband and I disagree a little he thinks that if he wants to go to church and stuff we should take him and I think he is to young and that should wait tell he is older.

2007-07-14 06:22:08 · 20 answers · asked by Ashlovable 2 in Family

that your daughter is not AS beautiful AS you;


or


that your daughter is MORE beautiful than you?

2007-07-14 06:20:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

why can't a faithful, loving, committed relationship be enuff? (i said girls bc i'm a dude...it's my experience)

2007-07-14 06:19:33 · 20 answers · asked by d 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-14 06:14:08 · 16 answers · asked by yoje115 2 in Family

2007-07-14 06:03:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-14 06:02:22 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-14 06:00:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i think this is happening to me, cause i lent a freind 97 quid, and week after week they say they need more and that they got no money to get food ect.. i cannot be sure though, they are freindly and are polite at the same time.. they say they will pay me back wen they get paid.is this crap

2007-07-14 05:56:50 · 11 answers · asked by b 1 in Friends

2007-07-14 05:55:55 · 10 answers · asked by lucinda w 1 in Weddings

We live in Alberta, Canada. They have a child together but never lived together. We have been married over a year. I am trying to get him to get the house put into his name so that we have more security. Besides hiring a lawyer to answer this, does anybody have any ideas?

2007-07-14 05:55:17 · 9 answers · asked by I Dream of Genie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

plz tell me the true

2007-07-14 05:52:36 · 11 answers · asked by mail.titanic@yahoo +20109495587 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-14 05:52:24 · 7 answers · asked by manoula04 2 in Singles & Dating

My hubby had an affair , i was pregnant on our 5th child when it started, i didnt prove what was going on until my baby was almost 2, i knew in my heart about it but he was so sly and and decieveing and he kept denying it and twisting my thoughts that it took a long time before i could prove his affair and put a stop to it.
He said he didnt love me, that he was only ending things with her and staying me with for our children.
Its been almost 2 years now since his affair, now he says it was his mistake and he was messed up and that he loves me.

The thing is, i have no feelings for him anymore, ive tried, im still here, i love him kinda like a brother,but i really do not love him anymore , Am i wrong to not love him ?

2007-07-14 05:38:22 · 12 answers · asked by ☆♥ Tinkz Baby! ♥☆ 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

My brother has been going out with this girl for about 3 years now, and it looks like its getting pretty serious. god bless his soul, she treats him very good and they seem genuinely in love with each other.

However, I am embarassed for him and am afraid that most of his budget (he doesn't make much money) will be spent on feeding her, expensive dinners, microwave foods, etc. etc. She also will have health problems later in life and he will be burdened if she becomes bed ridden. The girlfriend is about 50lbs overweight, but I think she will balloon up to 500lbs based on her diet (she even eats those hotdogs with the cheese in the middle)

The question is, how do I break them up? I was thinking about framing her by having my friends call and leaving naughty messages. How do I get my brother to dump this fat b*tch and date a skinny hot chick?

2007-07-14 05:32:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i mean really? the "girl" rule is that we offer to pay, but let you if you push for it, but does paying really make you feel like a man? my cousin told me this and i had no idea us ladies should just let guys pay all the time lol

2007-07-14 05:32:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the question is: how can i convince my stuborn parents about datin??? how can i make them ok with the fact that im datin a guy and that we like each other??

well, heres the story...im 16 years old and i dated this guy who's 18 years old since 2 years and im still datin him. we like each other very much and hes a cute..handsome...sexy..kind...sweet...understandable guy.
well, the problem is that my parents caught us talkin with each other on the phone and they didnt agree ,,they shouted on me and punished me and they asked my BF 2 leave me .. but he said that he likes me and wants me and i also talked with my mom about datin and that i like this guy..
the point is that my family doesnt know my BF...i tried 2 convince them that hes not like the others..i swear hes very sweet and a gentleman but that didnt change their mind..we tried many thing like: talkin 2 them about the fact that im a teenager..tell them that we r not havin sex..and lettin them 2 talk 2 him and knowin about him

2007-07-14 05:29:41 · 14 answers · asked by yasmeen q* 3 in Singles & Dating