if i feel lonly what shall ido?

Question

ihave no friends or relatives ihave no one to talk i feel lonly

iam married &my husband doesnnot listen or talk to me no intimacy

Answer 1

I feel the same way myself. You aren't alone, bro. Try to go to a lot of public places, such as the mall or a coffee shop. If you see someone who looks like a good friend, walk up to them and introduce yourself. Get into a lively conversation, without scaring that person off. Next, give that person your phone number. Keep in touch with that person. You will never feel lonely again, trust me. If you want to talk, my email address is [e-mail].

Answer 2

Not knowing your lifestyle and preferences makes it a little difficult to give advice.

Do you have a job? If not, and it is possible for you to work, that is one way to get out and see people and begin relationships. Go to church and get involved. There may be small Bible study/discussion groups that meet during the week that you could be part of. Do you have an activity that you enjoy? Sometimes that is an avenue to follow. There may be community groups that engage in that activity you like. Contact your local park district. They may offer those kinds of activities. As you get around people, relationships will begin. I know what it's like to be lonely. These ideas can help. I would also suggest reading your bible and praying to God. He can fill voids that no people can fill. He can also put friends in your life.

Answer 3

It can be very difficult moving to another country & trying to make friends. I moved to Spain when I was 21 & didn't speak a word of Spanish at the time. It wasn't easy, but eventually I plucked up the courage to go to a local bar in the town & gradually I made friends with lots of people there. Once you have made friends with one person they will introduce you to all of their friends. The hardest part is the beginning. At least you can speak some English which gives you a head start. You could try visiting a local bar, or club & in the end people will start to recognise you & say hello. I did also get to know some other English people who lived in Spain as we automatically had something in common. I know what it is like to feel bored & lonely, just try to get yourself out & about as much as possible even though it is hard. You could also try joining some clubs if you have any interests & hobbies. Then you will meet like-minded people. Good luck & keep trying even though it's not easy.

Answer 4

You may have a slight case of depression on your hands. The reason you are lonely is because you don't feel comfortable in your own skin right now. I've helped many men with this exact same issue with great success. Don't worry, you're not alone. I can help you through this messenger consultation if you'd like.

David Sexton., PhD Human Relationships/Author

Answer 5

throw away your lonely life by getting out of your house and start talking to the nearest neighbour , then say hi , how are you to the post man , the man who brings newspaper every morning , the cashier in supermarket . . .

Answer 6

if you are lonely there is always god you can talk to.

if your not that religious then by a pet or something, taking up activities like sports or martial arts would help you mix around with lots of people.

Answer 7

Man. Bad times. Here, try myspace.com bebo.com, or xanga.com There chat rooms so you can talk to people there. or justin.tv

Answer 8

keep looking some friends.mail 2 us if u need somebody to chat.

Answer 9

1st start bii makin friendz where u work (if u do) n get out n mingle dont be shy

Answer 10

if your lonely chatting may help ... or go to partys like maybe with your buddies ............but one day you'll meet someone thats the one .. maybe not now but later