Okay so like i've known this guy for a couple years now and we go to the same high school and stuff. He's seventeen((got held back a year)) and well i'm 13((skipped a grade))and he knows i'm 13 and he asked me out...i mean he's always been nice and he's a great guy...should i go out with him???
2007-07-14 06:30:57 · 34 answers · asked by Roxy Andrews 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This question should be asked to your parents! You are only thirteen. That guy is already having sex. He is going to want to have sex with you. You are not in the age of having sex. He is suppose to be dating girls 15-18.
You are way to young and should be thinking about other things and not dating! If you date him you are putting yourself in danger.
THat is all I have to say!
Also in a year he will be arrested and charged for being with you. He is also going to be registered as a sex offender!
2007-07-14 06:39:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he's nice to you...... he wants to get in your pants !!! You're young and inexperienced about the big picture that you'll be able to see when you get older. Guys this age are "not" looking for something long term or committed. You're flattered by an older guy being interested in you and that's what he's counting on to get what he will eventually want from you. Just consider this..... how will you feel if you go out with him and find out that he wasn't wanting to you know you as a person, but just to see how far he can get physically ? If you're ok with that to add to your memories, then go ahead. If you want to look back and feel good that you respected yourself enough not to let every nice, great, older guy take advantage of you, then tell him that if he cares about you as a person, he will just be friends for now and see what happens in a few years. I think you'll see the picture become very clear. (I'm not a prude, but know alot from many past experiences, unfortunately I'm still left with the memories & consequences of my poor choices.)
2007-07-14 06:49:05 · answer #2 · answered by Paula E 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think thats too much of an age difference but i have the same situation. i'm actually 15 and i'm going out with someone who's 17. i'm turning 16 and he's turning 18. i skipped a few grades too and he was supposed to skip two grades but he didnt have his records from his country. we both met in high school. i want to ask what year are you in? and what about him? if you were in maybe 9th grade and he's in 11th, then i'd say that would be okay.
2007-07-14 06:35:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm usually not one who cares about age differences unless it is in the case of someone who is very young with a man who is almost an "adult". Be skeptical of a guy who as almost an adult wants to date a young girl who is just now coming into her own. Don't get me wrong I'm sure you are a beautiful and mature young lady. Give youself a chance to figure out what it is you want don't get bogged down with relationships so young, save men for a time in your life where a future with one is an option.
2007-07-14 06:40:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt. What do you're parents say?
Skipping grades, staying back have little to do with anything. You're thirteen and at this age this should realy be you're first boyfriend. 17 year olds are usually much more experiend and are doing things you shouldnt even be thinking about right now.
Theres plenty of time for all of that, whats the hurry? =/
Either way, I wish you the best.
2007-07-14 06:35:14 · answer #5 · answered by Kate P. 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
So when was he held back? It does make a difference. And no, don't date him one on one. You aren't ready for that. And next year, if you and he should do anything, he could well go to prison. So just stay friends, and start liking guys your own age, and let him like girls his age.
2007-07-14 06:35:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its probably not a good idea so you better wait a few years.
4 years doesn't seem like that much but when you 13 and 17 it does.
like if its 22 and 26 its not as bad.
you know?
2007-07-14 06:34:48 · answer #7 · answered by FireAngel 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
please no, at 17 a guy really does only have one thing on their mind. You are only 13 you really shouldn't be dating. I am sorry. I am 25 and remember what it was like, but you can talk to him at school just don't go anywhere out of school with him.
2007-07-14 06:34:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you got the chance Yeah... but 13 and 17 is kind of a huge age diffrence. Once you turn 21 and older it won't make much of a diffrence but Hey it's your decision.
2007-07-14 06:33:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, there is some people who go out when between them is more than 15 years, but that is possible only some years later. I think you should reject his offer.
2007-07-14 06:37:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋