My brother has been going out with this girl for about 3 years now, and it looks like its getting pretty serious. god bless his soul, she treats him very good and they seem genuinely in love with each other.
However, I am embarassed for him and am afraid that most of his budget (he doesn't make much money) will be spent on feeding her, expensive dinners, microwave foods, etc. etc. She also will have health problems later in life and he will be burdened if she becomes bed ridden. The girlfriend is about 50lbs overweight, but I think she will balloon up to 500lbs based on her diet (she even eats those hotdogs with the cheese in the middle)
The question is, how do I break them up? I was thinking about framing her by having my friends call and leaving naughty messages. How do I get my brother to dump this fat b*tch and date a skinny hot chick?
2007-07-14 05:32:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude, does your brother know how much of a little prick you are???? If my brother was as shallow and self concerned about his self, I would do him the favor of kicking his ***.
I just came back after reading some of your own best answers. I wanted to see if you really genuine in your question here or if you where just rattleing some cages. Dude you seem like a smart guy. You even wrote about how Americans shouldn't be prejudice against Arabs. All also say a question you asked about why fat thugs at the gym shave their pits. So I ask what is the prejudice you have againsit heavier people. My best friend is a heavier guy and he is the greatesr person I know.
2007-07-14 05:43:49 · answer #1 · answered by golsen2000 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You don't, (at least I hope you can't). By your own admission they seem happy together and she treats him very well, so why would you want to interrupt their happiness just because her weight is a problem for you? In every way that matters it's none of your business, and if you value your brother at all, you'll realize this and leave well enough alone. I hope you don't tell your brother any of what you've told to us....you're likely to seriously harm your relationship with him and cause problems unnecesarily.You obviously have a great deal of growing up to do yet, so I hope it's an eye-opening but safe journey for you. Good luck.
2007-07-14 05:43:57 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Ur an A S S!!!!!! U have no right to do or say anything. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder! If they are good together and love each other....u should be happy he's happy! She doesn't sound like she's bad to him. Ur a shallow, sorry excuse for a man and brother! I would hate to date u...u sound like the guy that calls his pregnant wife a cow and whale. Idiot...find something better to do with ur time...I'd be more worried about myself than someone else....u have issues that need to be worked on...try looking in the mirror next time before u open that gaping hole in ur head u call a mouth.
2007-07-14 05:42:41 · answer #3 · answered by mrsprincess07 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You don't. Leave your brother to be happy. Have you thought about asking this girl to become healthier/lose a little weight? P.S. She could also have serious health problems that make her gain weight. P.S.S. Don't barge into your brothers relationships. It's your brothers love life, not yours! P.S.S.S. If you can't accept that your brother loves someone that is overweight then how can you ever expect to find love yourself?
2016-05-17 11:05:53 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, your a mofo. He has been in love w/her for three years why are you interfering...did you stop to think that maybe he loves her for who she is and not for what she looks like? did you ever stop to think maybe he likes her figure the way it is? I was expecting to see she weighed 500 lbs but I only saw she was 50 lbs overweight, which is very possible to lose. Does she care about her health whatsoever? is she always pigging out or does she diet and is trying to lose the excess pounds? Nevertheless, I think its incredibly shallow that he should dump her for a "skinny hot chick". Not everyone thinks that barbie ideal is beautiful.
2007-07-14 06:00:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Wow you are really a self centered jerk. I mean what the hell do you care if your bro likes heavier girls. It's none of your buisness. Try paying more attention to your own flaws, and let your brother be happy with the girl HE loves. Jerk.
2007-07-14 05:38:53 · answer #6 · answered by ripstang3000 3 · 7⤊ 0⤋
that's horrible... if they love each other it doesn't matter size or shape and u have no right to intervene because u think extra weight is ugly and embarrassing. Its people like you who make girls want to go throw up after each meal or be uncomfortable wearing a bathing suit.
2007-07-14 05:41:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
It is not your place to break them up. If your brother is happy then let him be. Just leave them alone and move on with your life.
2007-07-14 05:39:28 · answer #8 · answered by Fayt 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Some times you have to change tactics and get her to dump him, this might actually be easier to set him up .
send some good looking girlfriends over to his house ask them to flirt with him when ever they are around him, its more obvious when its in your face. A big fat girl who See's skinny girls flirting with him would definitely ps her off and cause a fight you might have to do this a couple of times but just make sure you call your brother the day after to see if they fought so you can bash her while he is still bitter ;)
But remember that if your brother really loves her it just better to leave it alone afterall your family and some day you might have to get help and fat girl might be the only one who can help you
2007-07-14 06:02:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
i think thats really ****** up that you say that. what do you hes going 2 be spending money on microwaves and food for her. so what she a big leave your brother alone. if your brother's happy then let him be and worry about yourself. you're such an asshole.
2007-07-14 05:40:42 · answer #10 · answered by melyjelly05 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋