I really don't know how the laws are in Canada, but ANYTIME
THERE IS ....CHILDREN FROM ANY TYPE OF ''UNION'',
THEN...THE CHILD IS ALWAYS ....ENTITLED...TO ''THEIR
PART'' OF AN ESTATE of either birth parent, unless the child
is under the name, of someone who is not the birth parent.
A spouse has the right to ''put a lien'' on land, belonging to
another spouse, even if the land is in the parents name...and
the birth parent is on that property, esp. if the parents of that
spouse, are also in the bloodline, of the child(ren) involved.
(This is just in case, the birth father/mother becomes de-
ceased, or has not sufficiently met the requirement for the
child support payments).
The ex-wife/spouse, is entitled to monetary value of some
type, to cover the expenses of raising the child, and these
expenses can cover anything from housing / food / clothing /
medical coverage (hospital & doctor & dentist bills), to
school supplies.
IT IS THE RESPONSIBILITY OF ''BOTH BIRTH PARENTS''
TO MAKE SURE THAT CHILD, BECOMES EDUCATED
TO ADULTHOOD, AND TO HAVE A SAFE ENVIRONMENT
IN WHICH TO LIVE, TIL THAT TAKES PLACE.
There is nothing you can do to change that fact. No amount
of fussing and fighting can change that either...
YOU MARRIED INTO THE PROBLEMS OF YOUR ''NOW''
HUSBAND...AND YOU HAVE ASKED, TO BE SHOULD-
ERED WITH ''HIS PROBLEMS'' TOO...by marrying him.
Should he not pay the required Upkeep for the child, and
allow a ''portion of his estate'' to be given to the child, as
per law, then, should you be in the working field, and file
income tax under your present ''married name'' then should
you be eligible, for any ''refunds of cash'', you may find that
ALL YOUR REFUND, has gone to pay for YOUR HUS -
BAND'S RESPONSIBILITIES. and you can do nothing to
change that. It is part of the BLOODLINEAGE, the child
inherits, by being BORN INTO THAT BLOODLINE...
Nothing about a Connecting Bloodline, can ever be erased...
it is there, FOR LIFE.
Should your husband cooperate, in allowing support of the
child, he should have Equal Rights for Visits with the child,
and this is Nothing that the Spouse can do anything about,
either....because it took both of them to bring the child into
this world, and until the child is 18, THEY BOTH HAVE A
RESPONSIBILITY TO THAT CHILD(REN), and a third
party, is not involved, with that bloodline, but they are in
a position of ''substitute parent" and can have a ''positive in-
fluence on the child's life".
I would suggest that your husband do all he can, TO BE-
COME A PART OF THAT CHILD'S LIFE, AS MUCH AS
POSSIBLE, AND DEMAND HIS ''PARENTAL RIGHTS''
SHOULD HE HAVE A DESIRE TO.
Either way, HE IS SUCKERED IN, THRU HIS OWN NEGLECT OF ''PROTECTIVE SEX'' & BEARING A CHILD,
THAT ....HE IS STUCK WITH 18 YEARS OF RESPONSI-
BILITY TO THAT CHILD....unless he is willing to deny his
paternity...and sign legal papers, which will ''divorce'' himself
from that child's life, and give the full responsibility to the
child's birth mother.
But let me say this, if he did do this, and the birth mother is
killed or dies, then HE HAS NO RIGHTS TO PUT CLAIM ON
THE CHILD.....HIS CHILD...
and what a shame that would be to the child...
Can't you just see a child growing up, to realize that his
birth mother or birth father, signed papers, to deny him a
connection, to his ''birth bloodlineage" ??????
That'd be a rude awakening for the child, for sure.
IT DOESN'T TAKE A LAWYER TO FIGURE OUT THAT
A CHILD "DOES EXIST'' AND THAT ''THE BIRTH PARENTS'' NOW HAVE A RESPONSIBILITY...TO THE
CHILD...but it might take a lawyer, to straighten out such a
mess.
Don't let your husband try to tell you any different, either.
I've been around enough people & cases, to know that some
people don't have much common sense, and yet they want
to have the full say-so, & try to get a current spouse, to think
they know it all, when they don't... (hope this helps...TF)
2007-07-14 06:38:58
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