Family & Relationships - 14 July 2007

when we first meet he told me he was 29 which this year would make him 32...I do love him dont get me wrong I dont think its the age gap that bothers me but the fact that he lied about it...I dont know how to confront him about it? I looked in his wallet cause i had been suspicious about it...How do i tell him or ask him why?

2007-07-14 10:45:25 · 16 answers · asked by boricuamami_85 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

well i broke up with my bf!!and like hes all mad at me and i told him that i would love to be friends and he does'int want that cause he said i broke his heart and i feel soooooooo bad!what should i do?

2007-07-14 10:44:17 · 8 answers · asked by kea234 1 in Singles & Dating

I turn 15 in august and I'm having my birthday party next week. I haven't thrown one in a really long time. Most of my friends' parties are just going to the movies or hanging around their house, but I wanted to do something a bit different but not too expensive (that's not gonna fly w/ my parents lol). Any ideas?

2007-07-14 10:43:46 · 13 answers · asked by pseudonym 5 in Friends

to just say "you wanna have sex?"

this is a guy who you're not really that good of friends with, just enough to talk on AIM.....

2007-07-14 10:40:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i met a great guy; and we hit it off on all levels... i want to keep seeing this guy; but i'm willing to still stay with my husband. He says he's not happy with this situation; but he does not want to let me go... I still love him; but I want to keep seeing the other guy... is this selfish of me... even though I was honest enough to tell my husband about the affair?

2007-07-14 10:39:58 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am scared to death! I hate being in the spotlight, and just the thought of having a hundred plus pairs of eyes on me all at the same time makes physically ill. Any advice?

2007-07-14 10:37:23 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I like this gut but he dosen't notice me at all but I really want to tell him that I have a crush on him what should I do?

2007-07-14 10:35:27 · 6 answers · asked by nana 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-14 10:35:05 · 8 answers · asked by mia 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how old were u when u first lost ur virginity?
fell in love?
got married?
had a baby?
started drinking?

2007-07-14 10:28:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

does not have any children. I went to the Dr. last week and she prescribed me some pills to help me become pregnant. The reason I lost trust is because I found out he was cheating in Jan. 2007, when I heard the females #, I called her & met with her, she is 46 and she claims that she did not know he was married.She claims she did not know but now she knows. I dont have proof but I feel she is still around. I have not said anything, but a week ago I found out about another female. She sent him a text through his cell phone and I saw it. My husband dont know that I know a lot of things that I do know, but I love him and I am trying very hard to fix it. Iam going to college right now, I have 2 years left. I am hurting very bad, please give me some positive advice. By the way I am 34 and he is 41. Please help me. I do know that some things cannot be fixed, but I tried. We are all human and sometimes we all make stupid mistakes. Thank You

2007-07-14 10:24:55 · 24 answers · asked by mustluv50 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-14 10:21:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm in my early 20's - hubbys a bit older than me, we have been happily married 6yrs now, have a lovely four year old child and im nearly 7months pregnant.

He told me today that he's had enough of me, i only asked him if the lamb that i was about to eat looked right (it looked pink) & he started screaming at me saying "are you out to p*** me off, r u saying i cant cook properly you f* in this - you f* in that. i know he's not having an affair etc but weve been arguing all day and tonight he broke some cupboard doors in the kitchen and smashed plates and cups everywhere.
Hes gone out to the pub now and his parting words were (looking at the destruction) look at what you made me do.He said hes leaving in the morning..
i feel as though i keep saying the wrong thing to him, hes never been like this before but one thing he did say was whatever you do with your pregnancy etc you f* get on with it and dont expect owt from me.will some1 just tell me that il be ok soon sorry 4 rantingx

2007-07-14 10:19:58 · 15 answers · asked by prg 2 in Marriage & Divorce

it has nothing to do with him at all. he
s great. but his friends annoy the **** out of me. I used to be friends with some of these kids but I got rid of them so I could have some peace of mind. I still have to occasionally deal with these other friends because I'm friends with Kyle. Kyle is great but I dopnt want anything to do with his friends so I believe everyones got to go.

2007-07-14 10:18:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-07-14 10:09:31 · 9 answers · asked by shayne_h_1999 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-14 10:07:28 · 31 answers · asked by Ergo 1 in Singles & Dating

its really hurtful to hear and sometimes i just want to cry. a few days ago my mom's friend told my mom that I resembled her a lot in body shape and how i walk. instead of taking it as a compliment, she loudly bursts out in front of my friend and her mom, "wow im not as fat as she is, am I?," i tried to laugh it off but the situation became very awkward and i coudl tell my friend's mom was a bit startled. She constantly has sporadic outbursts of mean comments like you're fat, why are you so stupid, how come your grades suck...It really is hurtful and i don't know how to handle it anymore

2007-07-14 10:06:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

He's into football and baseball, video games, playing outside with friends. I can't think of anything to get him that he doesn't already have, please advise me with something creative!

2007-07-14 10:05:39 · 7 answers · asked by Kerry B 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My parents went through a divorce in Ohio in 2000. My father got full custody of me and my old brother, I was only 6 at the time. After we moved to North Carolina and then to Arkansas. The mom moved to California and then Georgia. What I want to know is the legal age to decide my parent, my father told me 18, but my mom 14. I am 14 right now, and I want to live with my mom, since I've gone 8 years without her. My mother can't afford a lawsuit, so I want to make sure I have legal rights. And if the age is 18 then how do I get emancipation?

2007-07-14 10:04:18 · 11 answers · asked by artsy_indian_chic 2 in Marriage & Divorce

... men think with the head on their "dick" while women think with their heads. Well many times its enough for a man to get laid by whoever and sometimes with no emotions or strings attached. Women however are wired in such a way in their heads that whoever they sleep with is often considered by them a potential long time if not lifetime partner. This leads them to start thinking before they indulge in relationships. Below are some of the questions that may pop up in many womens heads.

1. Are this mans values and norms compatible to mine?
2. Does he seem to have/ show respect for the people that brought me into this world (and for women this is mainly their fathers)?
3. If I bear children with this man will he want the best for them and will he and i be able to work together towards a good future for our children?
4. Does he care about the wellbeing of my family/relatives or wish them well?
5. Is his "love" for me reflected in what he says to me and about me to others?

2007-07-14 09:59:45 · 12 answers · asked by Mrs. Midnightbully 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

im getting married in about 5 months. my fiance and i have known eachother for about 1 year and we have been on and off him and i go really serious really fast and he asked me to marry him. i said yes and i do love him but im not sure if its its that kind of love that makes a marriage work. again im not sure if this is the person that i want to spend the rest of my life ( and eternity) with and i dunno if i want to make children with him. i just graduated high school last year and im a freshmen in college and im getting ready to get married! im really nervous about the whole situation. i want to talk to him about it but im really not sure how he will react. he seems like her really does love me, but im not sure if i can make out marriage last a lifetime. what should i do

2007-07-14 09:56:24 · 22 answers · asked by UW2010 3 in Marriage & Divorce

No quest. really - just what I believe I am ready 4 in my life. Shame cause need the man 2 have that baby ... ;)

2007-07-14 09:55:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im 16 and this guy who is 20 likes me, is that in your opinion a too big of an age difference??

2007-07-14 09:53:36 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this guy for about three months now and after sex, he asked me if he was better than my ex in bed. I told him that i would assess him seperately and after i him, i told him that he was average in bed but we could improve on it together as time goes on because the first time is not always great and he got sad and unhappy...

Did i do something wrong?

2007-07-14 09:52:00 · 31 answers · asked by Sahem 1 in Singles & Dating

what do guys look for in a girl? physicaly,mentaly,and personality wise?

2007-07-14 09:50:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 12 but i really like this guy what should i do about this

2007-07-14 09:49:49 · 33 answers · asked by lmao 1 in Singles & Dating

are married. We are all hosting it.. thanks

2007-07-14 09:49:13 · 13 answers · asked by lrios1229 1 in Weddings

I was married for 9 years and just got divorced last year. we have been separted for 21/2 years now and i really missed him. So I took him back and now i remember why i got divorced.. now i am scared to tell him that idon't want this realationship we have been back together for two weeks. What can I do?

2007-07-14 09:48:13 · 23 answers · asked by Mz.G 2 in Marriage & Divorce

They live in Mississippi and he said he wanted to see their daughter and took her to Alabama and says he is not bringing her back. Does anyone know if there is anything she can do to get her daughter back?

2007-07-14 09:47:16 · 20 answers · asked by BeThAnY 4 in Marriage & Divorce

getting mixed feelings about him. my ex just sends mixed emotions. he put me on his top friends list next to his other ex. but I dated him before this other girl. what is he trying to tell me? any advice please.

2007-07-14 09:46:27 · 15 answers · asked by princess 2 in Singles & Dating

My little brother is only 4, he'll be five the 22nd. Our mom passed in Nov and he really didn't understand it. He knew about the whoel dying thing but he still thinks my mom is coming back. I don't want to sound like a bad sister and say " mommy is never coming back" he said he doesn't understand why she left again On christmas the year before, my mom left us because my parents got into a fight) It's hard not to cry to see your little brother praying out mom not to come home. I take care of him with my boyfriend together, our dads pretty much a dead beat so I have to be the one to tell him. He's a boy so I dont think he wnats to hear mushy stuff, any help, pleae?

2007-07-14 09:45:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships