... men think with the head on their "dick" while women think with their heads. Well many times its enough for a man to get laid by whoever and sometimes with no emotions or strings attached. Women however are wired in such a way in their heads that whoever they sleep with is often considered by them a potential long time if not lifetime partner. This leads them to start thinking before they indulge in relationships. Below are some of the questions that may pop up in many womens heads.
1. Are this mans values and norms compatible to mine?
2. Does he seem to have/ show respect for the people that brought me into this world (and for women this is mainly their fathers)?
3. If I bear children with this man will he want the best for them and will he and i be able to work together towards a good future for our children?
4. Does he care about the wellbeing of my family/relatives or wish them well?
5. Is his "love" for me reflected in what he says to me and about me to others?
2007-07-14 09:59:45 · 12 answers · asked by Mrs. Midnightbully 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
paul t, you know from reality that its not all women who think only of a mans bank account. I wouldn't live in kind of a hell with a man just because of what he has on his account. You've got to be able to enjoy the money as well. Not spend it while you're crying or spend it to buy anti-depressants and sleeping tabs.
2007-07-14 10:12:43 · update #1
Sexyma, there are all always exceptions to the rule, everywhere.
2007-07-14 10:20:49 · update #2
Aunty Em, this is what you've said:
"The list you put together is true for women seeking a long term partner and I think you will find that men have a similar tick list when looking for a wife!"
And you and I agree on that. I don't know if different women are wired differently mentally but I speak for those who like me find it hard to sleep with a man without asking those questions to themselves first. To me a person cannot disrespect my father or mother and at the same time think anything of me. On the other hand I could treat myself cheaply and not care about what thoughts the male harbours in his head and go ahead and **** with him anyway. Maybe I think too much but i believe I'm not alone.
2007-07-14 10:28:07 · update #3
Papa Dom, Ok i might need help, but what kind? Did I say anything wrong or we are here to exchange ideas?
2007-07-14 10:34:23 · update #4
wesley w, you said this:
"everything you say is right but not all the time, guys dont always think with their dick, they only think with their dick when its hard". Thats true. And i would prefer it if they, at all times, thought of me like they do when the dick is placid/ jiggly/ flat. It makes things much simpler and the world a simpler place to live in.
2007-07-14 10:50:01 · update #5
Pure cheese, you said this:
"...According to nature, we should all also be living in caves and evacuating our bowels in the open air while walking around naked - we seem to have developed beyond this level of pimitivity...."
True for you, and well done. Applause! Applause! Applause! But I hope the developemnent had been good for the planet and our survival on the planet. Sadly, as we all know, this is far from being true. We seem to be "developing towars a speedy death for all living creatures and planet earth as well. Well done. Thank you.
2007-07-14 23:52:48 · update #6
think that this is a bit sexist ,you cant say that a man thinks wiv his dick anymore than you can say a woman thinks of a big bank account .
2007-07-14 10:06:01 · answer #1 · answered by paul t 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's about time you make less sweeping and generally sexist comments.
I am a man, does than mean that according to you I must, by default, do all my thinking by way of my penis? You might as well say that men and women are a different species, not gender!
You can argue that nature programs all men to want to copulate with any woman in an emotionless fashion.
According to nature, we should all also be living in caves and evacuating our bowels in the open air while walking around naked - we seem to have developed beyond this level of pimitivity, so why can't you accept that the same can be true of men's control of their sexual urges?
I can't say I recall ever dragging some random woman off by her hair to copulate because my knob was thinking for me.
I, like many MEN today, find your "checklist" quite familiar to my own values - the difference you're identifying here isn't between male and female. It's between civilised and uncivilised people, Of BOTH genders, you'll probably be shocked to hear.
And as the head of the penis is homologous with the female clitoris, you should also add that women must think with their clit as well. Or retract your statement about ALL men and comment about the WRONG men - which is I believe what you're referring to.
2007-07-14 21:42:37 · answer #2 · answered by Purecheese 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a myth that women and men are somehow complete opposites where sex is concerned. Women and men are socially conditioned into their roles. We are all capable of having no-strings sex. Some men I have met hate casual sex and some women I have met go to it with abandon! Women tend to be more coy about admitting their sex-count as its still (even now) considered 'not nice' for a woman to be openely predatory. The list you put together is true for women seeking a long term partner and I think you will find that men have a similar tick list when looking for a wife!
2007-07-14 17:16:00 · answer #3 · answered by AUNTY EM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babe i think you are being very stereo-typical.....there are more female prostitutes than males....and i`m sure they aren't`t thinking of wedding bells when they are with a "punter". I`ve been with my fella for 6yrs and never once have i had the above thoughts when in the thro`s of passion....you think too much...lie back and fantasise...mmmmm.
2007-07-14 17:16:36 · answer #4 · answered by sexyma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you got the gender species on this earth correctly
everything you say is right but not all the time, guys dont always think with their dick, they only think with their dick when its hard,
but ill tell you something ill never understand women NEVER
2007-07-14 17:09:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men r just born to breed..as with ALL male species, they have a hard time lettin go of the woman that carry thier offspring.. but notw/ a woman they have sex with....A baby carrier is a sure thing for more breeding.............
2007-07-14 17:07:53 · answer #6 · answered by htrime 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that's a crock, many women these days just think get your kit off, the same as many men would!
2007-07-14 17:14:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not what i would ask or think of but saying that depends where i was down town drunk or sitting in a public place through the day lol lol
2007-07-14 17:04:34 · answer #8 · answered by DIANNE E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
correction "boys" think with their dick not "men". Men think with their ambition in life
2007-07-14 17:34:58 · answer #9 · answered by dindaplace2b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I actually think with the head on my left knee.
2007-07-14 17:03:53 · answer #10 · answered by tman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋