First off, I'm "too nice" so that should explain a lot.
I'm a Christian guy, and over time all of my female friends have paired off, and the pool of dateables has dried up. In the meantime, I'm surrounded by women who flirt and wouldn't mind a "hook up". When's it time to just chuck dating the "nice Christian girls" who are either attached or too picky and just do what everybody else is doing? I'm beginning to think that being with someone that's "bad for me" is better than being with no one at all. At some point you just become the loser if you're not with a girlfriend, so I'm thinking I need to start dating somebody and work from there rather than nobody at all.
2007-07-14 07:33:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
God loves everybody...so should we....if you fall in love, it shouldnt matter what faith she preaches.
2007-07-14 07:43:51 · answer #1 · answered by emily66 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
My son has said the very same thing. He says that women are more interested in guys that abuse them. I do not agree with this. There are a lot of women in this world and only a few like to be abused or rather are attracted to abusive men.
You should pray and ask God for a good Christian wife. Then you must be patient and wait for her to arrive. For He says that 'we should not be unevenly yoked.' So don't marry a woman who is not a Christian, you will be inviting trouble. Just read the story in the Holy Bible about King Solomon. That should convince you of the truth. I suggest you get a New Living translation of the Bible which is written in plain modern English, much easier to understand.
2007-07-14 07:47:11 · answer #2 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's an unhealthy mindset to consider yourself a "loser" if you're not paired with someone. It's that mindset that rushes and keeps people into relationships with the wrong person. If you feel strongly that you only want to date Christian girls, then only date Christian girls. However, there are nice women out there in many different religious and non-religious persuasions including athiest.
Date outside your faith if you can come to an agreement about:
* How to raise any future children
* Household customs (e.g. What if she's Jewish and wants to have a kosher home, or doesn't want a Christmas tree).
* Overall religious practices: (Are you both okay with it if you go to church every Sunday and she doesn't.)
Dating and marrying outside one's faith can work, but there may be more issues to work out.
2007-07-14 07:50:04 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. X 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well... being single is not a problem... but for long term you need to hold someone's hand because without that hand you wont be able to live comfortable life laterly.
well i dont know what age you are running in but if you are around 25 or something then you still have time to wait for your dream girl. I did so and found one.. i wish you too get your gal of your dreams.
Well to date with someone without any faith.. i dont think its true. Its better you hangout with friends rather than going on fake dates.
God has made someone for everyone. you too will get her soon... :-) my blessings...
2007-07-14 07:42:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nooooo! You can date outside your faith but you don't have to setlle. Never! Be patient, your time will come-you sound influenced by what people think, you need to think about what you're saying very carefully. So what if you're a loser who wants good things in his life? You can not change anyone. Pray about it since you are a Christian, you will find someone as nice as you. Hang in there!
2007-07-14 07:36:56 · answer #5 · answered by fine00 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Anytime. Just because someone was born into a certain faith, doesn't mean they are going to stick with it or believe in it. If you mean someone that is outside your faith is "bad for you", you aren't a very good Christian. People with don't belong to any organized religion are just as good as those who are following blindly and living by the rules of their antiquated church.
Of course, if you mean "bad for me" as one who just wants to be with you for a couple of hours, well, I am against that too! There is the perfect girl out there for you, perhaps you should expand your horizons on where you are looking.
2007-07-14 07:40:22 · answer #6 · answered by harleychic 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
if you are a true christian, then you wouldn't be contemplating just hooking up with some random girl. how old are you? if you are young, then just chill out and wait. if you want to date, then do it. if you are truly a "nice guy", then you'll find someone who will respect you and your values. not EVERYONE around you is taken. you'll meet someone who doesn't like the idiots around her, and will appreciate a nice guy.
why would you want to date a girl that's wrong for you, just because? not a smart idea.
2007-07-14 07:39:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
No one is a losser , the only thing you just need to do is to believe in your self . Some girl that you like will come along. Just believe in your self . For now . Best of luck
2007-07-14 07:40:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Ask God to send the right person into your life and try to be patient. Good things come to those who wait!
2007-07-14 07:38:44 · answer #9 · answered by Jai 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
A good woman is a good woman faith is a relationship to your soul with your GOD not your human partner GOD loves all so should we.Just follow your heart GOD will let you know who's right for you he gave your heart,mind,& soul for your use so use it PEACE IN THE WORLD !
2007-07-14 07:43:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Why do you have to date someone religious at all? Does everyone around you have to have the same beliefs as you?
2007-07-14 07:37:13 · answer #11 · answered by neverdugdisco 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋