why do all people on here say looks dont matter?!?

Question

i've (other people too) noticed that mostly everyone on here says looks dont matter! that is such bulls***, in real life everyone wants to date the hot girl or hot guy, and the first thing you look at is if they are hot or not, i dont know if yall are just saying that so that the person dont feel bad, ...to me, looks DO matter and im being honest on saying that i want to date an attractive guy only but he has to have a personality i would approve of too but if he only had one of those then i would not date him at all and i would not go out with an ugly guy...so why do you people say that?...guys and girls but especially girls, you KNOW you dont want to date and ugly guy even tho he was nice, and i say its always mainly the girls because you reject most of the guys cuz they are ugly...everyone just say the truth and stop lying to this people on here,

for coclicious, who are you calling a six year old? look who doesnt know how to spell. and for Nico6688...sure, w/e you dont know what you are talking about, what are you 14?

to nico6688: sure, w/e you say, are you saying all of that because you are ugly and no hot guy wants you? well stop trying to start a fight on internet, that is so lame

Answer 1

i tottally agree with u 100 %
looks do matter i mean somone has to have a good personality too but i still agree with u ( =

Answer 2

looks and the initial attraction matters just as much as personality. A relationship can't last without both so it is important that you have to be attracted to him/her physically/emotionally.

This is what I've noticed with women though, as long as you're an average looking woman who takes care of herself...you can walk into a bar and get hit on by any guy; fact of the matter is there are a lot of men who are desperate or aggressive enough to hit on anything that's a decent female. This provides a lot of confidence and feeds the ego to the girl. She then starts to think, "hmm maybe I can aim higher" Her standards get raised but she doesn't understand the fact that most guys will hit on anything decent. So those women become more vain and start to have too high standards and become picky. My point is...yes looks matter but as long as you have realistic standards, don't go out only finding certain types of men attractive, try to find all types attractive.

Answer 3

Well let me put it this way so you understand. The reason why some people say looks don't matter is because they don't. Everyone has a different idea of what looks good to them. What I am saying is one person may like a 500 lbs girl with zits all over body and thinks that she is hot. Some guys may think alley mcbeal is hot. Looks do not matter because everyone likes different things. I personnaly like girls with a little extra hips and a rounder butt that's what a look for not if they are fat or skinny or pretty in the face.

Answer 4

Look DOES topic! HOWEVER... seem is NOT all there's. I in my opinion care approximately character first, frame later, however I will admit that if any person is solely undeniable unpleasant, I simply would possibly not be attracted. I have met a lady on-line, we have now been speaking for months, we have now voice chatted, we have now obvious every others at the webcam.. she is eleven years older than me and weights 230 kilos (I weight one hundred fifty five kilos). Many men and women might generally discover her method too fats and unpleasant, however at the same time she is certainly fats, she is a long way from being unpleasant, and he or she simply has a extraordinary character, and I simply could not support however fall for her. I consider the most important difficulty is that men and women simply commonly do not take some time to get to understand every others. We see many questions right here that displays simply how little men and women even realize from their possess associate or peers. So in a society in which men and women slightly get to understand their lover, you'll be able to think that many would possibly not care to get to understand that individual in the market that does not have compatibility their cosmetic specifications. People cross on many possibilities to get to understand exceptional men and women, simply since they have got "specifications". Pitty.

Answer 5

Aww, this is why girls like you have low self-esteem. You get so distraught in looking good for a guy, you lose sense of who you really are. The media has really done one hell of a job. Why don't we just stone the ugly people? That will rid the world of them. Then you won't have to complain on why people are lying about not wanting someone who looks good because everyone will be beautiful.

I mean, really. People have their own preferences. We're not all snotty like you. We actually do care about a person's personality more than a person's looks.

Edit: I'm 19, you slut bucket...Jeez...

Answer 6

well i must agree that looks do matter, amongst other things. to some people, maybe it doesn't matter to them as much, or once u get to a know a less attractive person, u may find that his personality or character brings out the best in them and u can overlook the physical. it's truly up to the individual and their preference. personally, yes i want to be with a person that i do find desirable. it's only natural. there has to be some spark in order to go further. and no, i am not saying he has to look like the next LL or the Rock, but there has to be something about him that i find appealing.

Answer 7

Sometimes if you can project enough confidence, act in a classy way, dress appropriately and take care of yourself, at least putting in an effort, then sometimes looks don't matter or at least seem as important, keeping in mind that the effort that you put into the way you present yourself is quite often the same effort that you would put into a relationship.

Answer 8

I hear what you are saying!

Many people on here dismiss looks when talking about potential relationships.

I, for one, say that personality is MORE important but I am sure to note that I have to think they are cute. They don't have to be "gorgeous" but I HAVE to be attracted to them, physically.

Not sure about guys but you are right! Many women have passed me over because I am not "hot" (god, I hate that word!)

Answer 9

Beauty or attractiveness is in the eye of the beholder*. Everyone makes or forms an opinion as to how and when they are attracted to someone*....

Answer 10

well if u want both u will never get it cuz most hotter guys dont have great personalitys at all they all just want sex to let u know so its stupid to look for looks