VERY IMPORTANTE: We choose not to wear a wedding band or jewelery, what else?

Question

could we use to show that we are married? I guess body language does sure say a lot huh?

Thanks!! :)

Answer 1

A ring or jewelry shows everyone else you are married, but you both know in your heart that you are, and will act accordingly to show everyone that you are committed to each other. As you say body language shows alot, Good Luck.

Answer 2

Certainly, the circle of a ring represents undying love and the continually renewed vows of the married couple. Circles have long been archetypes for not only timelessness, but also wholeness and homecoming. The circle also speaks to the constant round of the heavens, as well as the eternal return of the seasons, marked by cyclical ritual and celebration.

I found this online and thought what other circular archetype can replace a ring. Maybe small hoop earings, bangle bracelt, ankle or arm tattoo. It can be anything circular, symbolizing fidelity.

My husband has a band but I still use my engagement ring and it really doesn't matter. I'm married with or without the ring, we used garland with flowers to exchange vows at the wedding. It was very sweet.

Answer 3

i didnt understand what this question was actually saying at first until reading all the cynical scruffy answers and realized i'm on the wrong section of answers since i don' fit with hippies or KKK groupies including when angelina had blood viles around neck with scuzzy ex. how did i get here who knows but if going to go to extent of swindling or swaping your own marriage why even bother to tie the knot in the first place. That's why there a thing called common law since dont't have to spend a penny on a ring or do any sort of thing. And for the ones willing to believe in such a thing than ring is good indicator not bought for show and tell but for own beliefs including a good sign to tell unwanted predator's in nice way to buzz off.

Answer 4

There are many reasons wedding rings aren't worn. Religions, work, allergies, just to name a few. The ring is only a symbol of the commitment between two people. It has nothing to do with the commitment to the union whatsoever. Nor does the lack of a ring make you any less married.

And you are correct, your behavior should indicate that you are married. I wouldn't expect you to be sitting in a corner with one of your hubby's friends, nuzzling him.

My parents were married some 35 + years before I got Dad to get Mom a wedding ring for her birthday. She loved it, and eventually lost it. :)

You owe no one a reason for choosing not to wear a ring.

Answer 5

I think something like a small tatoo on your ring fingers would be the coolest way to go I mean it might hurt but you don't have to worry about the item or anything else getting caught or in the way or just not something you like. If you take his last name then it should be obvious that your married and if you share a home! That would make it more then obvious that you are married. I think that rings are nice but i'm not really materialisitc so the tatoo thing would be my next guess! Congrats on your wedding

Answer 6

Well, if you aren't doing jewelry, there isn't much else that will cause people to simply look at you and say, "she's married" b/c thats the normal symbol. Really the only thing that will work is your body language and actions toward each other like you said. I had a friend who didn't want a ring, so they tied a string around each others fingers...simple and meaningful to them.

Answer 7

I've seen people get wedding tattoos....obviously there's the ring tattooed on your finger thing. There are also less obvious ways. For instance HTB are talking about puzzle pieces. He will get a small puzzle piece with a special symbol for us and I will get a dotted outline of that puzzle piece that show he is my missing piece of my heart. I just don't want my name tattooed on anybody...even my husband.

As for rings...we are still doing those but I will wear mine on a chain around my neck most of the time since I am an artist and can't really wear jewelry while I work.

Answer 8

You won't need to do anything out of the ordinary to show that you're married. The way you gaze into each other's eyes will tell everyone you are an item. Jewelry is superfluous when you are in love. Congratulations.

Answer 9

What about a pin to wear on your clothes? That way it isn't touching your skin ( I don't know if that is an issue) It doesn't really matter anyway. I wear my wedding ring & engagment ring but my husband never wears his wedding band. It doesn't bother me and we're still married.

Answer 10

We are planning to have very delicate bands tattooed on. (We are both tattoo virgins) He works in a industrial setting and we don't want him to lose a finger. I know for men who work with their hands the bottom side will wear off and if they dont heal properly they may appear smudged.
They will both be small enough to be hidden by our actual rings. Just an idea for you.