I lost my best friend.[she's dead] now i don't know what to do. what should i do?

Question

After i lost her i feel like i don't know what to do. i feel like i'm so alone.now i can't do any thing.can you help me?

Answer 1

Time heals everything, You'll have good days you'll have bad days. All you need to do is realize that shes in a better place looking down on you. your not alone. I'm sure you must have other people. The key thing to do is surround your self with people that love you.

Answer 2

No! only time can help you,I don't think you ever get over something like this,you learn to live with it. Feeling lost and alone is the worse kind of hurt, I took a class in transcendental meditation and it helped. I found myself crying less and less and thinking of the happy times we shared ,although at times I still feel a hurt inside when my thoughts wander back. Please know you will feel better soon! and remember it's better to have such a wonderful friend even for a short time than never to have had one! I do when I think of it that way......Take Care and God Bless

Answer 3

I am so sorry about your friend. It's normal to feel bad and lost. It's like someone came and cut part of you off, kinda like a big part of your heart is missing. The loneliness hurts even when you are asleep. Write to your friend in a journal. Write when you feel lonely or afraid. Write after you had a dream about her or when you remember some good or funny stuff that happened to you two together. Write her a letter that says I miss you. Write down things you would say to her if she were here. Whenever you feel like talking to her, write down what you would say to her in your journal.
This might help you go through these difficult times.
All my best to you.

Answer 4

AH SWEETIE I CAN'T IMAGINE HOW U FEEL, THAT'S JUST HORRIBLE. I CAN TELL U THAT U NEED 2 BE STRONG, WE'VE ALL LOST SOMEONE CLOSE 2 US BEFORE AND IT'S REALLY HARD. BUT WE HAVE 2 BE STRONG AND CONTINUE LIVING. ALWAYS REMEMBER ALL THE GOOD, KEEP HER CLOSE 2 UR HEART, BUT MOVE ON. NOT WITHOUT HER REALLY, CUZ SHE'LL ALWAYS BE IN UR HEART.

BUT U DO NEED 2 CONTINUE WITH LIFE. JUST HANG OUT WITH UR OTHER FRIENDS, AND FAMILY. AND ONE DAY U WILL HAVE A NEW BEST FRIEND. U WON'T REPLACE HER CUZ SHE CAN'T BE REPLACED, BUT YOU'LL HAVE A NEW BEST FRIEND AND SHE CAN HELP EASE UR PAIN.

TAKE CARE SWEETIE AND REMEMBER UR BEST FRIEND WOULDN'T WANT U 2 SHRIVEL UP AND DISAPPEAR. SHE'D WANT U 2 BE HAPPY BECAUSE SHE WAS UR BEST FRIEND. AND BEST FRIENDS ALWAYS WANT THE BEST 4 US.

HUGS!

Answer 5

You have my deepest sympathy in the loss of your dear friend...there are no words to express to you....how sorry everyone who is reading your question.. feels...that you are sad and alone....

When we lose someone close to us we are in a shock at first ..and ask many questions...."why did this happen we were enjoying life together so much?"
For the first few days...weeks or months we think we even see them in the store...when shopping....or they are still in the next room...it's so strange when we are so sad and missing someone it's as if they never left....but we know they died and are not close to us .
If we are spiritual we can pick up the holy book and find passages that comfort us or pray silently for peace in our heart. Ask God to bring comfort to our aching minds...
Years ago when our friends child was killed in a car accident I remember talking to them expressing my sympathy and thinking how did they get through it...years later....my husband and I lost our daughter because of her illness....then I knew the pain our friends suffered....no one knows the pain until they have been there.....since that day...everything changed but as time went on I changed too...and looked at life differently...not taking life for granted...thinking more about others....
We don't know why some people live to be old and gray while others die at a young age.....I do believe in God and know he holds the answers and the comfort I need until my day comes too....We are all here for a certain number of days ....no one knows all we can do is treat others like we want to be treated and be forgiving....and make each day count...
You take care of yourself ....and you will heal in time...just like many others have who also suffered a loss....
Sincerely,
Mama Jazzy Geri

Answer 6

first of all, sorry for your loss, and i know its hard, but you need to understand that you can't spend your entire life greiving. if you think about it, crying isn't going to make her come back, nor is it going to make you feel any better... tears will never stop. you're not alone at all... there's always someone there for you. and just because someone died, doesn't mean you've lost them forever. now, you can talk to them whenever the hell you want! :) hope this helps...

Answer 7

That's normal because you lost your best friend but if I were you move-on and I don't think your best friend wants you to be sad just because she's gone.... Move-on step by step and I will assure to you that you will be happy again and I'm sure that your best friend will be happy because you are happy without her...

Answer 8

Were you born with your best friend around? Did you grow up with your best friend around? What do you think she would tell you as to what you should do?

Answer 9

i know its hard buut u need to try to 4get about it and not think about it don u have any one else toturn to another close friend my friends mother just died resently and i help comfort her well try suronding ur self with friends who know what ur going threw well try to keep in touch



well hope everything works out good.

Answer 10

make sure you have as much love & support around you from family & friends :-)

it'll take time for your hurt to go...but think of all the good times you & your friend had together & how lucky you were to have her in your life (even if only for a little while)

**HUGS**