Family & Relationships - 14 July 2007

Just dont.

2007-07-14 17:51:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's no god

There's no companionship (for me anyways)

There's no one that will genuinely listen to me.

All girls only think I'm flirting with them and that I don't want a real relationship.

The meaning of life is: you create your own meaning

But I can't because I don't know who I am.. I don't know who I am!

2007-07-14 17:50:51 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been together for 12 years. We have been through a lot too. I used to live in a neighborhood in a house I loved. We moved from there about 4 years ago. My husband recieved a call this afternoon and I just happened to be near him. I heard someone screaming on the other end. I became very suspicious when I didnt feel secure with his answer. I checked his phone records on the computer about 15 minutes later. I also intercepted a voice message from her- cursing about him not bringing money for his daughters 5th birthday. I called the and asked who she was- I found out she was my ex-neighbor- she was very apologetic- but I didn't believe her. I checked the phone records and for the last month or two- they have been talking to each other sporadically. My question is: WHAT DO I DO NOW? I still love him though- but I'm totally hurt! He didn't give me a good answer when asked about Her! Was I totally wrong for checking behind him? What would you do?

2007-07-14 17:48:52 · 7 answers · asked by paulalinettegarrison 2 in Marriage & Divorce

When I was dating my now husband. He bought a Topco sex swing.
I experienced my first big - O, it was amazing, so I just had to marry him. But now we are looking at getting a better one.

From this woman's point of view the swing we got made my butt sore.
It was like sitting on a swing at the playground. It made my legs go a little numb.

I guess from a man's point of view. well lets say the point of view is what counts to him :)

I have been asking about the RHW swing I seen on ebay. The RockHer World Swing looks like it is built more from the woman's point of view.
I would like to get that one next. It just looks so comfy.

I just do not know if it is worth the extra cost.

Dose any one have the RHW Swing??
I think the head rest would help so much. My neck gets sore in my swing.

2007-07-14 17:42:13 · 5 answers · asked by jean b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't want my ex back but i don't want to be by my self ether

2007-07-14 17:38:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok men, what would u think if a girl sent you an email with the subject line: whats you faovrite positoin... and the email said " mine is the one where your inside me and yoru ready to explode in me w/out a condom"
what do u hink of that?

2007-07-14 17:35:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have this friend, anyway this guy at her work always looks at her, & walks past her way when he doesn't have too. Anyway he has also offered to fix machine breakdowns for her, & the other day he came by and stopped to talk to her, she then asked him what his name was ect.. & he asked her where she lived & what job she did before the one she's doing now. When my friend asked him where he lived he told her the suburb & the street name as well. Anyway, my friend kinda likes him, but she's not sure if he likes her back. Guys what do you think, if he looks at her all the time, do you think he likes her?

2007-07-14 17:31:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-14 17:17:19 · 13 answers · asked by Kaye00 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This is way to long to explain in detail. But my friend who I like asked me out to the water park, her, her cuz and the driver. The car broke down. We found a mech he didn’t charge us but my friend and the driver gave him 10 each. On the way back home. The driver paid for antifreeze ($10). The car broke down again, and a guy helped us out so I gave, and my friend and her cuz gave 4 each. So it broke down again and the drivers parents came to pick us up, and I didn’t even get a ride home, but my friend gave me a 5. the day sucked for me because I felt like nobody was listening to me when they asked me for advice, and I proved I was right with the directions and fixing the car. I also felt my friends cuz was telling me to pay for everything and having an attiudue with it. Because at the end of the day (not counting my taxi home) I spent $32 for gas, tolls, and that guy, her cuz still asked me for a $5, and I don’t know y. so who Is right, and how can I settle this?

2007-07-14 17:11:10 · 9 answers · asked by art w 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm trying to bring surprize in my sex life. Any suggestions?

2007-07-14 17:08:42 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well I've been married for 2 years now and i love my husband but the thing is he has a very bad temper. I mean when we get into arguments that don't seem like a big deal, well he either throws our stuff around or just smashes it into pieces and he also never really wants to talk about the problem. i know its hard to talk right then and there when you have so much anger but he just puts it aside for days and tells me to my face that he doesn't care what happens. then after days go by he feels well and starts hugging me like nothing ever happened and he still doesnt want to talk about the problem. he has never laid a hand on me but im afraid if i stay with him and he doesnt change he eventually will. im afraid to end my marraige and say to my family that it was a failure most of all im afraid i will never find a love again. he always disconnects the tv when he's mad and says i cant watch it i mean is that wrong what should i do?

2007-07-14 17:05:47 · 7 answers · asked by yuyu 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm talking about 13 - 15 year old guys.

Also, when I say "cute" I'm not talking about just appearances. Do guys like it when girls say that the things they do are cute or adorable? Or do they think it's "grandmother" talk?

2007-07-14 17:05:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me: 23. I'm a wonderful, warm person and attractive.
Him: 31 y/o guy who is cheating on his girlfriend with me (I am not advocating it! and I didn't know at first).

Hooking up about once or twice a month. He's affectionate, generous, kind to me. Says he's unhappy with his gf. Am I only being used? Are these all lines?

2007-07-14 17:05:14 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

if he says he wants the excitement, the new desire, wants to also find women who are into fetishes he likes. can he honestly love me and still want to do this or is he just too chicken sh!t to let me go and wants his cake and eat it too?

2007-07-14 17:04:17 · 16 answers · asked by viper pilot 2 in Marriage & Divorce

how do you know when it is time to cut your losses and walk away? how do you know it is the right thing to do? please, no one word answere i need real advice. thank you

2007-07-14 16:59:04 · 13 answers · asked by viper pilot 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I broke up about 4 monthes ago, we were never super close but we had been dating for quite some time -we just had complicated schedules.
He was very honest with me and I really appreciated it, but sometimes he would talk about how hot he thought other girls were, etc - but he would always make sure I knew that it was me he wanted to be with. two weeks before we broke up we had sex, then he went to mexico for two weeks and he broke up with me the day he got back.I later found out it was for a girl he met and liked in mexico (I'm unsure if he cheated or not). A few weeks after we broke up he called and asked me if I wanted to get back together (he told me about the girl and said "It turns out she didn't like me that much, and I realized how stupid i was to break up with you. im orry i was such an ***) I turned him down even though I still liked him
I still like him, I don't want to though
I want it to work out but I don't want to be the desperate one
any suggestions?

2007-07-14 16:57:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a size 12 but I just joined Weight Watchers to try to loose some weight before our wedding which is 1 year away.

I was looking on e-bay and I found this dress. What do you think of this one in white?

http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&ih=001&sspagename=STRK%3AMEWA%3AIT&viewitem=&item=110147876048&rd=1&rd=1

Has anyone ever bought a dress from a place like this on ebay? They are from China and make the dress to fit you. Would you buy your dress from a place like this?

Also, do you think that I am too fat to wear this dress (or a dress like it), honestly. All the models are so skinny, I have a hard time picturing them on me.

Here is a picture of me, I am in the blue jean jacket:
http://i207.photobucket.com/albums/bb200/anna_sfa/n38707294_30340765_213.jpg

2007-07-14 16:55:14 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

been divorced for 6 yrs with joint custody of 2 small children.My exwife did not take the divorce well and our children are "her life"now.The problem is i just got remarried(which she did not take well) and don't want any "problems" for my children.What i mean is my ex is very possessive and i don't know how she will react to anouther women with our children.So my question to all you moms is how should my new wife behave with my children?should we raise them together when we have them or should i raise them with my exwife and my new wife just take a backseat?What would piss you off as an exwife?

2007-07-14 16:54:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

been divorced for 6 yrs with joint custody of 2 small children.My exwife did not take the divorce well and our children are "her life"now.The problem is i just got remarried(which she did not take well) and don't want any "problems" for my children.What i mean is my ex is very possessive and i don't know how she will react to anouther women with our children.So my question to all you moms is how should my new wife behave with my children?should we raise them together when we have them or should i raise them with my exwife and my new wife just take a backseat?What would piss you off as an exwife?

2007-07-14 16:53:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i see this girl at the gym white who always comes in with a booty short pans on and dose some squats and she looks great i love her booty is it ok to tell her?

2007-07-14 16:46:23 · 20 answers · asked by sweet boy 1 in Singles & Dating

other since March. Right before we started dating way back in 1988 he had a serious spinal cord injury, since then he's lost his leg. We have been sharing memories and funny stories and just chatting here and there; some of our memories are personal and stirs up some mixed emotions. I will always have a special place for him and have thought about him off and on over the last 15 years........I also feel as though we left each other hanging and I have some unanswered questions and what if's. Should we continue talking or are we heading for a disaster? I live several states away from him, so there is no way we would see each other. My husband knows we email each other, his wife does not. Please any advice......I am really enjoying our chats and plus going down memory lane is great, now my husband and I have been talking about how we met and started dating!!!! Help me, can you really ever just be friends with your first love??????

2007-07-14 16:43:17 · 13 answers · asked by CHRISTINE K 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we're having a non-traditional wedding at my moms house. and luckily they have a built in stereo system. i need music to play the whole time. from about 7pm-????
i don't want that boring 80's music that they ALWAYS play like...."when a man loves a woman"....more modern love songs.....like love song by 311 is a really good song. but i need help. i can't think of certain songs off the top of my head.....do you have a link or suggestions....????? any help would be appreciated!!!

2007-07-14 16:42:42 · 6 answers · asked by Paige 2 in Weddings

i recently befriended a gay dude. but i actually think he's st8 and saying he's gay so girls will feel more comfortable about it.
he's always commenting on how hot i am and wants to hld me, hug me, and kiss. i think a gay guy should be asing other dudes to do that. and i ask him about guys he likes and it's the cliche "brad pitt" and "george clooney". i mean they're 40 somthin and he's 22. wat do u think and how should i confront him. he's a great guy but i dont want him 2 think he ca take advantage of me. :(

2007-07-14 16:36:29 · 4 answers · asked by Temporary Sadness 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 23. I'm a wonderful, warm person and attractive. I'm just stating this so that it helps you to evaluate my situation. I want to know if I am being used or if this guy likes me...
I've been seeing a 31 y/o guy who is cheating on his girlfriend with me (I am not advocating it!). We've been hooking up about once or twice a month since the Spring. He has given me a lot of help/advice so far. I don't want to be naive. He keeps saying he's not happy with his girlfriend and makes reference to leaving her eventually. He's short on the phone when he calls me, but I think guys just dont' like talking on the phone. He calls to check in on me and is really affectionate when we hang out. Very thoughtful, but sometimes a week or two go by where I haven't heard from him. I feel like I'm a booty call and he's giving me lines and mush to keep getting this out of me. Is this true? I'm not looking for a relationship with him, but I just want to know if I'm getting used or could he genuinely like me

2007-07-14 16:34:26 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I got married in Brazil. Is our marriage recognized in the US?

2007-07-14 16:27:27 · 8 answers · asked by MeggieP 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have this sort of get together thing for school this monday. I want to go, have fun, make new friends, be myself, and all that other stuff.

But, i have a problem! I'm really really shy and it's hard for me to do all these stuff.

I really need some.. i mean ALOT of advice! so please help me!!! i need all the advices i can get so please reply. It is sort of urgent too so the soone you answer the better.

Remember, no answer is stupid so just help me!

2007-07-14 16:26:34 · 10 answers · asked by shyshortiie 1 in Friends

2007-07-14 16:12:38 · 22 answers · asked by I'm A Cute Little Bumblebee 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-14 16:08:05 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am not saying being fanatical Christian or anything... just being normal Christian. Believing in God and Jesus and thinking that they are important. And that we should always try to walk the path that Jesus wants us to - in other words be the best person we can be.

That is what I believe. But all the girls I go out with just think it is stupid! They all just want to have sex with me as quickly as possible and when I say I would like to wait they get mad and insult my religious beliefs. Happens every time.

So - people - have you found dating a Christian is a turn off? Or perhaps is anyone else like me?

2007-07-14 16:04:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

song that describes ur love life right now

2007-07-14 16:02:10 · 20 answers · asked by Kristy 4 in Singles & Dating