What's the point of living?

Question

There's no god

There's no companionship (for me anyways)

There's no one that will genuinely listen to me.

All girls only think I'm flirting with them and that I don't want a real relationship.

The meaning of life is: you create your own meaning

But I can't because I don't know who I am.. I don't know who I am!

My mom barely talks to me anymore since whenever we did talk all we did was fight, so she decided it was better to just leave me alone.

I used to have friends but since I'm going into college I will be losing all of them. I mean I just wish I had one friend, be it a girl or guy who would just understand me for once.

Answer 1

Figure out who you are. Other people cannot define you. What do you like to do? You should look into getting hobbies...
What have you always wanted to do? ... Find a way and go do it.
What interests you? If you don't know, find out. Look into different things like history, music, art, cooking, etc.
What about your family or friends? If you don't have any all you have to do is go out and meet people. It's easy most of the time and don't give up if it's difficult at first.
What makes you angry/sad/happy...?
how do you feel about what's going on in the world?
What would you do for a friend?
All these things help define you as a person....
Life is about having fun, learning, and loving. Go out there and do all three!

Answer 2

Taking your questions from easiest to hardest.
All the girls think I am flirting. . . This has to do with the way you treat them. If you want them to respect you, you have to be respectful and respectable. Since you already have a rep. You will have to work harder than the other guys.

No one will genuinely listen to me. What you really mean is that no one you have met will listen. There is someone out there that will. You will find them eventually, if you keep looking. If you give up and die, you will just be dead.

I don't know who I am. This only comes with time and experience. Be patient with yourself.

There is no God. and The meaning of life is you create your own meaning. Are you sure? or are you guessing? Don't assume that anything you haven't seen doesn't exist until you have really given it a chance. There was a time within the last century when people thought Panda's were mythical, but someone ventured into the jungle and found them there. Tell God you will do what he would have you do if He will prove himself through you. Then see what happens. If nothing happens then you know there is no God. Until you do that you are assuming.

Answer 3

It'll be alright. We all have our bad moments when we doubt everything and our existence. Happiness isn't something you find. It's something you just have. You choose to be happy or choose to be sad. Some people live in awful situations yet they are happy because they choose to be. Ever heard of Pascal's wager? It's something like, if there is no God, then there's not harm in believing there is one, but if there is a God, then once you die you won't be eternally damned. What or who else created this world? How did the matter get there for the big bang to occur with? You will figure out who you are. Some people make too big of a deal out of "finding yourself." Just have some hobbies or passions, things you care about and want to spend you time doing/thinking about. You don't have to know all the answers. There may be companionship for you. You don't know that there won't be any. I just listened to you right now. It'll all be just fine. Rejection hurts, but one day you probably will find the right person. It takes time and going through a lot of people that aren't quite right though. Good luck with life. I hope you are successful and are content. Nobody can be happy 24/7.

Answer 4

The point of living is that in itself; what would be the point of dying if then you can't do anything to change yourself or your life?. God exists, but sometimes we just don't want to see Him. Hell is not a fire pit, but the absence of God, created by a soul that denies His love. So if God loves you, then you already have love in your life. As for a more mundane approach, you are what you yourself believe you are; you don't create the meaning, you live with that meaning, and what you do with it determines your course in life. If you flirt with girls, but don't get around to the next step, showing confidence, love, commitment, then you are the one who's not being a real companion. Take a chance. Go beyond flirting and show who you really are, who you want to be.

Answer 5

You will create your own meaning. It sounds for now your depressed which you're deeming as your life worth. Are you in school? Are you thinking about your future? When was your last medical exam? Are you searching for colleges/Universities? What are you interest in? Where would you like to travel? A Companion isn't always going to be available. Ask yourself questions about Yourself. Start a journal and through your writing and self reflection, you will discover yourself. Don't let "girls" determine your self worth.

Answer 6

"You are looking for love in all the wrong places".

If girls just think you are flirting with them, then you can't be serious. And they won't take you serious.

You need to change your attitude. And you don't find love, it finds you!

You need to join group activities, you'll meet more people that way. And a depressing person (like you sound) is not going to attract people. Who wants to hang around with someone down?

Get some new clothes, a new hairstyle, etc. to make yourself feel better about yourself, and it will project to other people.

Answer 7

Just keep going on take care of you self and i'm sure when you go to college you will meet alot of people really fast don't be stressed out over the fact that you don't know who you are most people don't someday you will find you self just find a career that makes you happy be a good person and everything will fall in to place. and your mom loves you try being the one to say i love you and show her a little attention

Answer 8

to discover your self is very hard i discovered myself on Monday it took a bad turn to make me realize who i am. believe me there's no companionship for me either.but if there isn't any one that will listen talk to me if you want or something i had these problems before and now i know who i am. those girls who say you flirt and don't want a real relationship must be dim witted. if you have anger and want to let it out and can't hold it in don't do what i use to do (cut my self) because i almost died doing it and well if you want to let it out then write your feelings down but it's best to talk with some one if you want talk to me i don't have much to do since it's summer

Answer 9

Everything is life...

could you imagine there is noting at all...
not you
not me
not any girl
not any friends
not family


no you couldnt because there is none so i think life's meaning is LIFE to live

Answer 10

jesus loves u and gave everythng jst so u cud live to hm u mean everythng nd he has a plan 4 u