if he says he wants the excitement, the new desire, wants to also find women who are into fetishes he likes. can he honestly love me and still want to do this or is he just too chicken sh!t to let me go and wants his cake and eat it too?
2007-07-14 17:04:17 · 16 answers · asked by viper pilot 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change = yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. They don't respect women or children. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
2007-07-14 21:44:49 · answer #1 · answered by Photographer 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He wants his cake and eat it too. He will cheat on a wife if he ever gets one thats for sure. Why don't he just fine a girl that likes what he likes instead of having a gf then cheat on her? Dump the guy, find someone that is into you.
2007-07-15 00:14:55 · answer #2 · answered by Countrygirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please, are women clueless? Have any of you watched TV or read a book? ALL men want as many women as you'll allow. We're wired that way. Why do you expect something different? If you don't like it, go ahead, get another man. If he tells you something different, he's a liar. Now you have a liar. Appreciate the fact he's honest with you about it and accept the fact men want women, and many of them.
If he wants something you're not willing to give him sexually, he'll find somewhere to get it. Far more men cheat than stay faithful.
Thumb me down all you want. Truth hurts.
2007-07-15 00:29:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like seriously mismatched libidos.
A marriage CAN have all these things, both parties just have to be into it. A wife CAN be a different woman to her husband every night of the week if she tries.
I think if he has messed around, you SHOULD walk; or consider this a warning that he is about to cheat.
Hello, you CAN walk, right, I mean you have two legs? He does not have to "let" you do anything.
2007-07-15 00:24:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may love you, but will cause you a lot of grief in your life. I would run while it is still easy to do it. Remember - he cannot "keep" you, when you are ready to go. Don't degrade yourself by thinking he is the only man in the world. There are plenty who are decent and will treat you the way you deserve to be treated - with respect and love.
2007-07-15 00:23:23 · answer #5 · answered by Booger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, MAN, girl?! Do you want me to come over and help you pack?! NO!! Get rid of this guy. He is not the one for you. Are you SERIOUS? Man sharing is for the friggin birds. At least he is HONEST. But you need to honestly forget his number and address. Like yesterday sweetpea.
2007-07-15 00:17:45 · answer #6 · answered by Sleek 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes he can love you but he cannot be IN love with you. There is a huge difference. Get rid of him and find someone who cannot live without you.
2007-07-15 00:20:19 · answer #7 · answered by Mastershake 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, no. From what I've seen, this type of person only loves him/her self and doesn't care for the spouse or the flings.
2007-07-15 15:18:03 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes they can love you, but i dont believe i could be in love with someone and do this too them,im not that selfish and that is what this man is. sorry just my oppenion.
2007-07-15 00:56:06 · answer #9 · answered by caviler2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants both.Wonders if he can find someone who will be ok with that .
2007-07-18 22:28:05 · answer #10 · answered by Klingon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋