How do i tell him?

Question

this guy that i really like and who likes me has been calling, and i totally don't mind that, but what i do mind is that he is being so annoying, like he keeps inviting me over, and when i say i can't make it, he gets soo upset, but then the next day he just does it again.and he's been doing this for about a month and a half now, and it sometimes gtes to the point where if he calls, i dont pick it up just because i know that i'll have to deal with him, or, like yesterday, i just turn off my cell completely so i dont have to deal with it @ all. And, okay, i know that's being totally bi***y, but i only do that because i dont know how to tell him to back off a little. And, like i said, i really like him, but i don't want to hurt his feelings by telling him...... so to get to the point, how do i tell him without hureting his feelings of making him hate me forever?

ps, i've kind of thought about how to do it. But i only have"you're just trying too hard." is this a good start?????

Answer 1

By saying to him your just trying to hard is a good start. You can say it like this = I really like u but u don't have to try so hard to be with me. I like you but you are to mush. Tone it down you all ready have me so why are you being so pushy, you don;t have to because I all ready really like you ;-)

Take him out on a romantic date and while telly him let him know you really care and mean what u say and let him know you mean it Tell him he is pushing u away

Answer 2

Just tell him and get mad when you do it. You probably are too nice and he is interpreting that in the wrong way. Leading a person on is worse than hurting their feelings.

Answer 3

Miss shell, Just be totally honest ! He calls hang up ! Yes your line is good ! But some people just don"t get it !

Answer 4

There's no way to do what you want to do and not hurt this guy's feelings. So go ahead and tell him to stop calling you.

Answer 5

you should dump him and tell him no thats what you do smart one