Okay...I was at this camp...Studentz...for the past week.
And from the very first day I saw this guy. The cutest and most awesome guy I've ever seen. He's a great Christian. He's hot. And the only thing I see that's wrong is...He's one year younger than me.
But, I tried really hard to make myself ask him his name and where he lives. But, I couldn't. And now I'm sitting at home all sad and depressed. Because I won't see him until next summer...and only if we both go to camp...
And I really can't get him off my mind. I want to meet him. I want to talk to him. But, I don't know how! There's no way because I don't know him...I'm in love. Love at first sight...and never even spoken to him...
Please help me with my situation...
2007-07-14 10:49:44 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh sweety i remember that feeling well, it is painful i know, i would love to click my fingers and fix this for you, but unfortunately i cannot, i know how awful it is for you, some will patronize you and say aww puppy love, but i remember how intensely i felt any emotion when i was younger to the point where love really did hurt!!!, you must try and consider early on the possibility that you may never see this lad again, i experienced something very similar to yourself, and i never saw that guy again, you will never forget him i would dare say, it happened to me twice and i remember both times vividly, the only productive advice i can give you is if you ever do see him again, bite the bullet!!!, tell him your interested because if you dont you will regret it and be forever thinking what if, i make a point of taking risks in life, i learned a long time ago in a very painful lesson never to let ifs get in the way of what i wanted, if he is not interested when you tell him at least you will know and can move on, although that may be painful it will be nothing to a lifetime of regret.
2007-07-14 11:03:59 · answer #1 · answered by I belong to me. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you experienced was a crush on this guy not love.
Find out from someone his address and write or call him up and talk to him. Then this way you will beat waiting until next summer.
2007-07-14 10:55:10 · answer #2 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me just like a crush/lust, but if you get to know him you may find that he is awesome, and it can grow into love.
I dont believe in love at first sight, or falling into love, I think it always starts small and with "proper nuturing" it has the potential to become something great.
2007-07-14 10:53:27 · answer #3 · answered by Brandon V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't love someone you don't know...
To love someone requires you know WHO you're loving...
You're physically attracted to him to the point of "infactuation," but you're not "in love..." THAT takes a little time and intimate togetherness before "true love" rears up like a confusing three-headed groundhog on steroids...
Watch out!!! Don't commit your heart to someone you don't know...people you don't know will break your heart everytime. Sometimes (speaking from a lifetime of experience in the matter) once you get to know your "infactuation," the attraction flies out the window so fast you don't have time to say "Golly! I think I love you...
Se La Vee, K Sirrah Sirrah, Ariva Derche, Adios Amigos, Goodbye Goombah, So Long and Thanks For All the Pain and Mental Anguish, my true love whom I don't know...!!!
2007-07-14 11:01:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you love him when you don't know him.
You are attracted to him and if your that far apart then I can't see you being able to have a relationship with this person.
Long distance relationships don't work. Why not look for someone in your church instead. It makes dating alot easier when you can build on a relationship.
2007-07-14 10:57:16 · answer #5 · answered by Swampmoth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you are just fluctuated means when u like some one so mush so fast your think your in love with him. But Iam going let you know from my life when you love somebody the love comes slowly. First you respect the person then you like that person then you fall in love. Because real love comes in time not quick. If you love him all ready its not real love its called "fairy tell love" Fairy tell love happens quick like in story books. Really love takes time and understanding.
2007-07-14 10:59:14 · answer #6 · answered by Queen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got a huge crush on someone who looked good at camp. Get back in activities now that you're home and soon you'll have someone else you're interested in.
2007-07-14 11:00:01 · answer #7 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are infatuated. You cant be in love with some one you don't know because there is always a chance that once you get to know someone you may find out that he or she is a total jerk or you have nothing in common.
2007-07-14 10:56:36 · answer #8 · answered by sara r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Miss Sleepy, Congradulations ! Do you know anyone who might know him ? Maybe call the camp and describe him that might ring someones bell ! Pray to Jesus for help in finding him that would be my first option !
2007-07-14 11:04:11 · answer #9 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love at first sight --- how romantic....equally exciting is the fact that you 'know' you will see him again. Take this time to grow -- gain confidence -- hone your interpersonal communication skills --- take an asprin and meet me at my group: Madison --- i-need-help-please@yahoogroups.com
You'll be ready!
2007-07-14 10:55:56 · answer #10 · answered by madisonfoxe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋