That I've slept with other girls and some of your best friends. (I'm 18) What would you do? Be truthful and elaberate your answers lol.
2007-07-14 03:59:43 · 17 answers · asked by chrisHXC 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your question isn't clear...did you sleep w/ all these folks DURING the year you were with this person...or before you started dating??
If it was prior to dating this person...unless they asked and you blatantly lied about it... so what??
I really don't care about who you slept with... man or woman...I don't care about how many times...or how good it was...I like sex...and (just like you) I like it w/ lots of different women :o) ...and I'm not going to be hypocritical and/or get all judgmental about those things...cause I'm not threatened by those things.
If you did lie about it previously...and now it's known...I'd be very angry...and would immediately end the "dating" part of the relationship (although if the sex was good I'd still hang out w/ you occasionally...let's not overreact!!) LOL
However...if you slept w/ these people WHILE you're dating this other person...and you weren't in an open relationship...that's a serious...SERIOUS... breech of trust.
Personally, I'd be more concerned with the lifetime of denial and internal misery you're facing than with someone else's response.
As for "what I would do"...I don't think it wise to elaborate...because if I were truthful...I'd probably get banned from the board.
Remember Peter...with great power comes great responsibility!!
2007-07-14 04:34:20 · answer #1 · answered by widewillie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be pretty pissed off at you. And call you a bunch of names in Italian...and kick ur ***. then I would most likely break up with you because you slept with other girls behind my back and some were my friends and you didn't tell me what you were doing. And also I might of really liked you and you broke my heart by doing that....but if you said you were sorry and I could see that you really meant it I would consider taking u back after we got u tested for a STD...and I would make sure the next time u never slept with anyone but me...
2007-07-14 11:04:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first off I'd feel very betrayed, then I'd clearly be disgusted and angry with you. And without a doubt, I'd probably wonder who I would want to shank first, you or my best friend (even though neither would happen since I don't want that on my record). And of course, finally, I would lose trust in pretty much everyone. I am not exactly sure how bitter I'd be.
Cheating isn't something I tolerate in a relationship. I would rather have someone tell me how boring I am then be cheated on.
2007-07-14 11:28:50 · answer #3 · answered by v squared 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would hopefully not see u for awhile and when I did no matter where we were I would kick u in a special place than while u were down knee u in the face. Also I would go get checked as soon as I found out.
2007-07-14 11:06:23 · answer #4 · answered by not number 1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might depend on when you slept with these women. Were the two of you together when it happened?
I'd also probably discuss std tests before moving forward.
2007-07-14 11:03:23 · answer #5 · answered by mlynn_4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK.. with me, you would probably be hated by most of the district. If i was close to your family they'd hate you. I'd make sure everyone hated you and thought you were out of order.
I'm not good with revenge.
Only you can get yourself out of the situation, you got yourself into it.
2007-07-14 11:09:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd kick you in the beat the crap out of you and kick you 23 times in the balls. Why?!?
2007-07-14 16:36:58 · answer #7 · answered by mickeys.girlfriend♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're female right? The picture makes it tough to tell.
If you did that nonsense to me, I'd teach you how to use proper English writing conventions (THAT would be your punishment), then I'd dump your @$$.
2007-07-14 11:08:46 · answer #8 · answered by taoist_comedian_1973 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id kick ur asss so hard that youd be in hospital for a week
2007-07-14 11:02:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be truthful? OK.
I would punch you in the face.
2007-07-14 11:02:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋