my best friend proposed me yesterday...i'm confused...he used to be the playboy kind...?

Question

hi...i'm a 22 yr old woman. i have this friend...a guy...my bestest friend. he proposed me yesterday. but a lot of things r confusing me. to start wid he's had a wild side to him...girls and everything. i never thought any girl could make a way to his heart...nothing goes beyond the bedroom for him. will he ever be able to commit to me wholly? secondly...i'm quite a plain jane n he's really handsome. all his previous gfs were beautiful girls. will he ever regret having me? afterall i know every guy loves beautiful girls. moreover i am from a humble background and he's quite well-off. it's a very contrasting match. i've always had feelings for him but never expressed them. when he proposed yesterday...it was a feeling i can never explain that went through me. wat do i do? i do love him...but don't want the future to be sad for us. he seemed very sincere though when he proposed me yesterday and said he'll the wild side of him far behind if we r to start a relationship. wat do i do?

Answer 1

I think you should move your friendship to the next level and see how that goes before you start talking marriage!

there's no rush, you're still young. Give it a trial run for at least a few months. If things go well, then reconsider his proposal. Just don't rush into anything you might later regret.

Answer 2

Tell your friend you were surprised at his proposal and wonder how serious he really was. Then if he's serious, tell him you won't accept his proposal right away but would love to move your relationship up to a new level and see how that goes. It sounds to me like he's finally got some maturity and may be ready to settle down but give it a few months and then if it's good, move it to an engagement level for a year.

Answer 3

If you're as ugly as you say and he proposed to you, he may be temporarily insane. Try to get him to counseling before it's too late.