he asks me to dance (sat)
asks me on a date (sun)
we only talk on the phone (mon)
go to lunch (tues)
watch movies together (wed)
watch movies together (thurs)
watch movies together (fri)
he asks me on a date for saturday
We're both attracted to each other. He plays with my hair; he greats me with soft kisses; he makes me laugh; he gorgeous. I feel like I'm going to fall in love with him pretty hard - Could it just be lust?
and btw - I'm not having sex until marriage -
2007-07-14 05:17:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like he is enjoying spending time with you. Don't rush into falling in love, it will come naturally. If you don't think you are spending too much time together, then you aren't. Kudo's on waiting until marraige to have sex!
2007-07-14 05:23:13 · answer #1 · answered by harleychic 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, "sweetie", as long as you are resolved to not have sex until you are married, see how far this goes.
However, don't get swept off of your feet. In seven days, a guy like this may have just one thing on his mind: conquest.
Keep a safe distance. Have fun. But, remember, a lot of guys feel that all the huggy-kissy stuff, the movie rentals, the dinners, lunches, and little presents are all an "investment". He may expect to be "paid back" at some point. Don't get too emotionally involved until you see what his real intentions are.
In the meantime, read Dave Berry's "Guide to Guys". It will keep your expectations realistic and you'll have a laugh or two in the process.
2007-07-14 05:28:14 · answer #2 · answered by SafetyDancer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be lust, or you really could have fallen in love.
But since you only met him 7 days ago, I wouldn't hang out with him that frequently. I would maybe just hang out with him every other day or every 3 or 4 days. Once you get to know each other better and have a longer history, you can hang out all day everyday if you want to. If you get too attached now, and spend every minute of every day with him, you are missing time to be with your friends and family. Try to limit your time together for now, when your relationship is that new. Good Luck!!!
2007-07-14 05:26:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you may want to take things a little slow, it is a lot of time to spend with someone, but I mean if you are happy then who cares, really it is your choice here. Sounds like you are having fun.
2007-07-14 05:23:45 · answer #4 · answered by zeekandthefam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its fun, in the beginning time together is needed to establish a relationship, but maybe after another week or so see him 4 times a week, he is asking to see you, so thats good, but too much of a good thing isnt always good, so dont be too attached at the hip, go out with your friends, let him see that you are independent too, you dont wana seem too needy.
Hope it works out.
2007-07-14 05:27:54 · answer #5 · answered by natc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol that last statement only promises one thing.here is your future schedule with him...
monday: he stays home and sleeps because it was his first day back to work and hes tired.
tuesday:he calls you and says he has to go after about 10 minutes into the call.
wednesday: he comes by to see you but leaves after 45 minutes.he asks you out for thursday night.
thursday: he takes to to the local bar because it's half price drinks for the ladies on thursday.he tells you to keep his beer in front of you so they think you are te one drinking them.
friday: he comes by after work but goes out at night with his friends.
saturday: he goes out with his friends but leaves with the skank he met in the bar.The skank doesn't hold out till the wedding night! his buddies think he's cool for getting laid.
sunday: he calls you about 4 o'clock with a hell of a headach and cancells tonights outing with you.
repeat next week.
2007-07-14 06:24:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like you are on the road to finding MR RIGHT
2007-07-17 01:30:12 · answer #7 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll know soon enough if he tries to get into your pants and your turn him down.
2007-07-14 05:27:41 · answer #8 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL YOU ARE IN LOVE. PEOPLE THAT ARE IN LOVE SPEND ALOT OF TIME TOGETHER. YOU GUYS ARE MEANT TO BE.
2007-07-14 05:31:29 · answer #9 · answered by funhouse:+} 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋