there are these 2 brothers that have been going to my church for a long time, and alllllllll the girls think that they both are just these amazingly beautiful angel-like creatures.
i casually kept one eye on these 2 (yes attractive) guys, and as i watched girl after girl flirt with them, and watched them flirt to girl after girl, i saw that they kinda had this swagger about them and when they walked they more like struted like they were just the hottest things to ever walk this face of the planet.
and alot of times, they'll kinda talk to people as if they were below them. i dont know, this just like lowered there attractive-ness meter waaaaaaaay down.
recently ive noticed that they've given me quite a bit of attention, like lots of stares, and quite a few 'oh what i coincidence i didnt think id see you here!' moments. im wondering if theres something i can do, because i dont really want to be caught up in these guys.
2007-07-14 04:09:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They are noticing you now because you were not one of those girls giving them all the attention so now they want to see what's up. There is nothing more satisfying than throwing a cold shoulder to arrogant, egotistical men. Be coldly cordial. When they say hey say hey but with disinterest. I cannot stand men who think the world revolve around them and showing them that it doesn't is fun!!!
2007-07-14 04:19:13 · answer #1 · answered by Jackie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whats rare is valuable. Gold, for example.
To the boys rare is someone who doesnt throw themselves at you. That makes you pursuable. As soon as they get a sense that you can "be had" in some way you will be relegated to the status of everyone else.
If you really dont want them to pursue you, publicly humiliate them. Tell them loudly in front of other girls and adults about how you watch the girls throw themselves at them, and you watch how they swagger. Ask them how their God feels about people who look down on others.
They will likely be knocked down a few pegs, may have a chance of being human beings, and others will be alerted to their antics.
2007-07-14 04:14:28 · answer #2 · answered by Curly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feed them their own medicine..if you are strong enough that is...lead them on to point where YOU look down on them. you would then seem as a hard to get girl and this would devour all their time [taking their focus on other girls] then when the time is right you lay down the bomb.......SUCKERS......this is because i don't think that some people are inferior than others..everyone is equal and if those guys have ego's like ostrich eggs then the yolk must be on them!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-07-14 04:17:03 · answer #3 · answered by Snoop Dogg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
each physique has ego, regardless of if it incredibly is human or animal. Ego retains survival instinct alive. now whilst one comes around the guy with lesser ego, you sense satisfied, and revel in the dominance. yet whilst somebody with inflated ego comprises you, you stumble on disturbed, your humility is crushed, and you sense threatened. and there is in basic terms thank you to settle for that it is so. it is all. possible exchange oneself, boost into ego-much less, non secular, yet once you want to alter different, the two you will desire to be So violent, like Chang-ez khan, and so on. that different guy or woman surrenders to you, or you will desire to be a Buddha, then you incredibly can exchange the ego of others like Angulimaal . SO be satisfied and revel in Egos of others besides as yours.
2016-10-21 06:22:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, these are dogs, players, guys-that-treat-women-like-crap type of guys... every guy has a ego but the ones that use it to their advantage, actually have very low self-esteem and feel as if they needs to prove something to them selves by treating every one else around them as they are below them, my advice to you would be to just cut contact, they arent worth it. Trust me.
2007-07-14 04:19:10 · answer #5 · answered by Tabitha. M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha, ha, BEWARE!! These two boys sound like gifted players. People are attracted to confedence, and you say these guys are attractive. Two major ingerdents for a player.
2007-07-14 04:18:40 · answer #6 · answered by golsen2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deflate them. Even the hugest egos can be popped with the prick of a pin.
2007-07-14 04:12:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Avoid them. If necessary, tell them to get lost. You are smart to see them for the players they are!
2007-07-14 04:16:11 · answer #8 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you ignore them so they are interested.
they dont like girls falling all over them. they like the hunt.
2007-07-14 04:13:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
huge egos are a complete turn off
2007-07-14 04:11:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋