My friend suspects her sisters boyfriend is a cheater. She has no proof of this, just hear-say from other people.
Her sister has gone to visit their cousin for the weekend and wont be back til Monday. My friend wants me to see if I can seduce her sisters boyfriend by hitting on him at the bar he'll be at tomorrow night. He doesn't know who I am. The plan is for me to hit on him, be all flirty, then get a pic on my phone with him putting his tounge in my ear or kissing me or something.
Is this a moral thing for me to do? I really don't want to hurt this girl but at the same time she'll end up getting hurt anyway if this guy is a cheater. What would you do?
2007-07-14 03:48:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hell yes, what a great idea! Wouldn't you want to know if your man was playing you? Of course she's gonna be angry if the guy is cheating but I don't think it will be at you. It will be at her boyfriend and the whole situation. She may be mad at you and her sister at first but she'll get over it and eventually it'll be something you'll all have a good laugh over.
Go for it... but keep it mind he may not be cheating and reject your advances - which would be a good thing! Good luck!
2007-07-14 03:56:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, no and no. If the friend's sister was asking you to do this, it would be one thing. Although your friend may not like this guy for the way he's treating her sister, it really is none of her business.
What if the sister just isn't ready to accept this information and it's forced on to her? Many times we find that the person that was being cheated on already knew or had suspicion and chose to do nothing.
Stay out of it. Things will work out as they're supposed to.
2007-07-14 10:58:26 · answer #2 · answered by TiredMom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, your friend is worried about her sister it sounds like. However, using entrapment to "wake her up" about her BF isn't a very good way to go about it. You obviously have reservations or you wouldn't be here asking us about it.
My advice to you, is to tell your friend that her sister and BF have to live their own lives. If she has heard things, she can ask you to watch her sister's BF at that bar, and IF he comes to you, and if he hits on you of his own accord, that's not the same thing as entrapping him in immoral behavior. Even better is if he hits on someone else while you are there and can snap a pic.
That's only if you are comfortable with it of course.
2007-07-14 11:50:31 · answer #3 · answered by Kevin B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are willing to participate in something with the potential to hurt two people's lives based on hearsay and you are concerned about morals?
Your "friend" is using you to hurt her sister probably because she is jealous.
If you have any self respect, any at all, you will refuse to take part in such a heinous plot.
2007-07-14 10:54:09 · answer #4 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So now you're a cheater? Not a good plan. If he's cheating, he'll get caught. Maybe she knows and doesn't care. NOT YOUR BUSINESS, either way.
2007-07-14 11:08:48 · answer #5 · answered by RockwallCat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her do her own dirty work, why put yourself in such an awkward position, after all, what if he slips in a date rape drug, where would you be then?
Don't risk it, tell her you won't do it.
2007-07-14 10:56:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-07-14 10:51:16 · answer #7 · answered by Digital O 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋