i have a friend, and weve been friends for a while now, and ive started liking her. but i dont think she likes me, i just think she likes me as a friend. but i want to tell her how i feel-anyone have any advice?
2007-07-14 05:03:47 · 22 answers · asked by Kevin H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you'll never know if she likes you too if you don't take the time to ask her, i know its hard because i am in the same situation where i like a guy but I'm too much of a chicken to say anything. just ask her out. say something like i don't want to make things weird or anything but i was wondering if you wanted to hang out some time just the two of us. Tell her that you like her and ask if she would give the relationship a chance. Who knows maybe she feels the same, and if not she'll still be your friend (as long as she's a decent girl) and the worse thing that happens is its a little awkward for a while, but that will fade sooner than your wondering what could have been. Good luck!
2007-07-14 05:15:11 · answer #1 · answered by peaceheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the point in telling her you like her? She's not gonna like you if you like her or anything beneficial from telling her (plus it kills the mystery). It's best that you ask her to movie, event, whatever (just be specific and don't say "date" or "go out"), she'll know you're implying a date if it's just the two of you and you normally don't go out alone together. If you two normally go out together to do stuff as friends, then you should try to make a move like holding hands.
I gotta warn ya though, man. If you don't think she likes you as more than a friend, then she probably doesn't. I don't mean to be rough on yeah, but it's best that you hear the truth. Chances are that you're already stuck in the "friend zone" and should just move on. If you can handle moving on, you could stay in the friendship with her, but if you don't think you can get over her, it's best to end the friendship or else you're gonna be hurting yourself.
Anyway, you should try what I told ya above and see how things go.
2007-07-14 05:20:41 · answer #2 · answered by Rwar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her how u feel and hope 4 the best. If she doesn't feel the same way, tell her that you still want 2 b friends and that u don't want nething 2 change.
2007-07-14 05:08:10 · answer #3 · answered by jessica p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me i was the in the same boat as u and theirs like a million ways that can blow up in your face and screw up your friends ship ...u just have 2 think long and hard will i be willing 2 screw up are friend ship just 2 tell her that i like her ...cuz like u said u think she doesnt like u most of the time if their was a chance of her liking u it wood of been @ the start of your friendship ...but if u do decide 2 go for it i wish u the best of luck and u should be very very romantic in your way of doing
2007-07-14 05:08:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself, and be honest. Basically, tell her what you just told us... Tell her you don't want to ruin your friendship but you have feelings for her. Even if she says no, a true friend would still be your friend after all is said and done! Good Luck!
2007-07-14 05:06:41 · answer #5 · answered by **Sparkles** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some time when you're talking, ask her if she'd like to go...to a movie, bowling, skating, hiking, out for a burger....whatever it is that you know both of you like to do. See what happens. Go slowly! Remember, if you go to the next level, it will be almost impossible to go back to the same level of friends if it doesn't work out.
2007-07-14 05:08:54 · answer #6 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 14:36:06 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here's what cha do:
Since you and 'blank' have been friends for a long time I understand that you don't want to ruin the friendship if she says no so when you tell her that you like her, and she says no, say to her:
Well that's ok if you don't want to be more than friends because thats fine with me. Please don't let this affect our friendship ok?
Try it ok!!! Good Luck
2007-07-14 05:12:21 · answer #8 · answered by I♥JabbaWockeeZ♥MrZs. GatDuLa! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should let her know how you feel even if you don't think she feels the same way. At least she will know and you will know you tried.You never know how she will take it. Maybe she's just never thought about it before.
2007-07-14 05:08:56 · answer #9 · answered by MayQueen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say, "I have gotten to know what a wonderful person you are and I would like to be more than just friends. Can we give it a try?"
2007-07-14 05:06:47 · answer #10 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋