Family & Relationships - 11 July 2007

So, I am going to be a Junior this year, I am 16, and there is a guy that is going to be a freshman. Don't freak out yet, he is only 15 months younger than I am. We go to church together, and I know he likes me and I like him. The only thing is, with him being younger than me, I don't know if I should go out with him. Also, he has this crazy ex, she is, well...not a very nice girl is the nicest way to put it. Everybody says to watch out for her, which kinda worries me a little bit. I could really use some help, what should I do!?

2007-07-11 16:16:13 · 14 answers · asked by SamiJo 2 in Singles & Dating

My daughter is very intelligent, always receiving highest honors in scholl. I mention this because it's my opinion thast this has alot to do with why she feels she is always right. When we attempt to discuss a family decision to be made, if she doesn't receive the answer from me that she expects she begins hollering at me, her Father, and it always gets worse from there. She never respects my questions or opinions. My wife, of course her Mother, never interrupts to correct our daughter, and pretty much takes her side. I'm not a mean Father. I have given my daughter everything in her life that I possibly could. I have never spanked her, which I never believed in, and of course, is too old for that at this age even if I did. I honestly don't receive any support from my wife. If anything, she takes my daughter's side. At this point, Ireally like the best thing would be for me to leave for awile, although I'm probably the one that would hurtthe most. Can anyone shed any light on this?

2007-07-11 16:15:24 · 11 answers · asked by estreetbill 1 in Family

Ok this may sound dumb but help me out! I recently went on vacation with my wife and we found someone selling clams with pearls inside. Long story short I ended up buying her a very nice diamond ring mount for this pearl well since we were buying they gave us an extra clam for free in hoping we mounted this one also. I said no it was to much and we would do it at another time. Minutes later she was looking at another similar store and ended up buying herself a cheap necklace mount. This isn't the first time she has done this another time I bought her a beautiful necklace and ring set she went back to the store and bought the matching earings. I feel that no matter what I do she always wants more. Am I wrong?

2007-07-11 16:12:07 · 13 answers · asked by isanynameavialable 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm his friend he's mine he knows I like him but only wants a just friends thing yes most of us have been there but anyway I still like him why can't he see that? He thinks everythings back to normal but it''s no where near that!!!!! He likes someone else but hasn't told her and isn't dating.

2007-07-11 16:11:33 · 12 answers · asked by Un-Happy Gilmore 4 in Singles & Dating

Start a interesting conversation, online?

2007-07-11 16:10:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am though married depend financially on my parents. my wife not pulling on well with my parents. i am being / have been subjected to emotional torture by both sides and its a pity that for their respective ego problem neither side really worried about the future of my children. instead it is being used as a cue that all these problem is solely cause of my 'drink' which i take in parties. But unfortunately i have been posed as a drunked by both at their convince to aggravated the situation. Most unfortunate being that this fact has also been put in the mind of my 10 yrs old son by non other than my wife ! now my wife amidst a quarrel with my mother has left with her belongings as well my children for her parents house that too when i was in a death bed in the hospital !!! c has started emotionally blakmailing my children not to keep contact with me ? but the kids though loves me too much(cause my wife hardly takes care of their needs) can't also leave the mother so are now in a un-do

2007-07-11 16:09:17 · 12 answers · asked by sanjeebkpadhi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it still possible to get turned on by them?

2007-07-11 16:05:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

so i dont know what my problem is....i have a hard time cuming (however you spell it) i think im afraid. but i really dont know why. ive never done it before tho...maybe thats why. but my boyfriend really wants me to and i feel like i disappoint him when i dont. he trys so hard and he is amazing at what hes doing but i dont kno why i dont ***. sometimes i feel like im gonna but then nothing happens. whats it feel like? how do you kno its coming?? can anybody please help me out here.....is there somthing wrong with me??

2007-07-11 15:59:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-11 15:57:08 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

me and a couple of my friends and (ughh >>>teammates) are going to be posing in a picture for WE! televison and even though we all have to wear our cheerleading outfits I wanted a way to like look sexy! any ideas? and me and 2 of my friends are going to have personal (solo) pictures taken too,

2007-07-11 15:54:15 · 15 answers · asked by jessica m 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been going out for a year and a half we both are from the same race, religion and community. We both live here in the states and have known each other for 3 years prior to going out with each other. We have a awesome understanding of each other but i am an angry person. He loves his family way to much to leave them for me, but he really loves me from the bottom of his heart (and the love has proven itself). The problem is that his family wants to get him married arranged and the girl has to be from india. But we both love each other and dont know what to do. I am scared out of my mind, because i dont want to loose him but i dont know how to convince him to convince his parents and not take a "NO" for an answer. I love his family just like i love him, i am ready to accept whatever he wants him to do. But the problem is that how do we get his parents to agree to me???? any help here?? And this is ur typical "indian" love story!!!! THANKS FOR THE HELP!!!

2007-07-11 15:54:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

it's almost as fun as going outside but women think it's like clubbing a baby seal or eating a booger, what's up with that?

2007-07-11 15:47:17 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-11 15:46:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My son is 18 & he works really hard,He's had 3 Job's in the past beside's the one he has now & He works 3rd shift,sometime's when his fiance & I wake him up he loses his temper with us & we dont know why? either we are waking him up too earlier or waking him up too late..we just dont know what to do??

2007-07-11 15:44:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i know its a silly question but still i wanna know how ppl think...
i m just curious..
if u don not have the same culture but have the same religion...would it interest u in that person???

2007-07-11 15:34:27 · 10 answers · asked by star 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm working on a rough draft for my guest list. At what age do you start including children into the count? Surely you don't count toddlers, but do you count other young children?

2007-07-11 15:32:11 · 9 answers · asked by barbevans04 2 in Weddings

befor i propose to my girlfriend i want to make sure i have the perfect ring. i bought her a 1carat, i1, k-l color and good cut, but for 2000 more i can get a 1.26 carat, i1, g color and good cut. i need help, its not the size that matters as much as the color!!! what should i do.? i know she'll love any ring i give and not want anyother ring, so i have to do it before.

2007-07-11 15:19:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-07-11 15:15:07 · 22 answers · asked by Kelly H 1 in Singles & Dating

I see many questions posted about "what is the right age to have sex"?

Can you imagine the shock of your wife/husband on your honeymoon...having to explain that you have Herpes, or STD, or something worse?

People are NOT smart, as the commericial states so, and I sure SOMEONE dropped that bomb on the big night...

Something can also be said for birthcontrol...it does not absolve one of carrying emotional baggage from shattered/broken relationships based on using someone for nothing more than a release of sexual tension.

2007-07-11 15:11:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-11 15:10:28 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been celibate for two years and plan to unitl I am married. People seem to be shocked by this. Are people this obssesed with sex? I find that my life is better without sex. I dont have to worry about dieases or unwanted pregnancies.

2007-07-11 15:03:10 · 12 answers · asked by kystik83 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok, heres my situation.You know how theres bad boys and good guys? Well, I don't think Im a bad boy at all. Im pretty kind, considerate, thoughtful, and respectful. Im not into just having sex with a girl or anything like that..and so on. But I also have my quirks. Im quiet and have a lower self esteem sometimes. But that was from a problem thats already past. And, I can get nervous and agitated about something thats really important. So I do have my quirks. Now heres my problem. I want to date girls, but from what Ive seen and heard with friends, coworkers, t.v. and etc, girls like bad boys. Theres been a couple of girls interested in me and I was pretty stoked about it. The only thing is...Im afraid I wont be bad enough for them in case they switch their mind and want a bad boy. So I turned them down. Do you guys have advice for me?

2007-07-11 14:59:15 · 6 answers · asked by Andy B 1 in Singles & Dating

I see all this stuff about people being upset because their girlfriends or wifes are virgin or whatever.
My question- why marry them if they aren't virgins? If she's been with 100 guys before you- she's gonna do the same after she meets you- so why botha? Seriously fellas.. if she gives it away, what has she saved for you? You wanna be the dolt that has to buy the cow?
If she is good girl, I see maybe marriage, and a nice family. She deserves it. You can't have a nice family that you bring the wife to the grocery store and everybody knows her real "personally" if you get my drift.

2007-07-11 14:57:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive been on a team for two years and i love it,but my moms trying to stop me because i dont go to church anymore.ive tried to talk to her about letting me do it but theres no changing her mind.should i do try to do it behide her back or shoule i just give up?

2007-07-11 14:53:50 · 10 answers · asked by purple patch 1 in Family

ok so this might seem a little silly but my friend and i have been crushing on this pizza guy for ever like 5 months. We know his name and his school. we go their like 3 times a week and he even knows what we order. ..........but sadly my mom was talking to him yeasterday and he mentioned that mon. is his last day. That night i cred soo much and it seems so stupid and pathetic of me. o btw i would never work he is 5 or 6 years older than me! just tell me what to do to get him off my mide, we might go see him for the last time of sat.but i dont think i can do it! :( but the good news is that he is going to go tho the collage around the block from my house. please help!!!

2007-07-11 14:53:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been married 5 years! I'm 25 and have a wounderful 2 year old. But i think my husband is getting bored. I need some FRESH ideas!!! Help!!!

2007-07-11 14:49:22 · 29 answers · asked by ctqueenbee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I read on the service form I have that it has to be someone that's 18 or over. I wanted my brother to do it. Can he? He isn't directly involved in my case at all. THNX!

2007-07-11 14:46:00 · 12 answers · asked by glittereyedg 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i went to visit my sister recently.. we have gotten along well until i found out for myself that she still likes to keep my stuff as though we were both still in our teens. we are all grown up now. i happened to leave my cd holder with all my new cds at her house. she never called to say that i left them there. i called & i told her i had left them there & she says nothing was there. i have always been nice to her by giving her things i no longer need. if she sees a bracelet on my wrist & she likes it.. she wants to know where i got it & i end up givng it to her. i just want my cds back .. i know she has them. i am nice but not a fool. i hate to ruin our relationship but maybe i should be more bad instead of good.. she wouldn't do that to her other sisters & then why me??

2007-07-11 14:45:36 · 5 answers · asked by blondie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

underwear ripped the tag off it so she can claim it herself i got very upset..i'm a size 12 shes a size 8 why would she do that i felt very disrespected ..she works get her own undies do i have the right to be angry or is it just silly?

2007-07-11 14:45:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, im 15, and i had a crush on this guy from school for a long time. well over the summer i have got a facebook account and i made a fake account under it, which i no is wrong, but i just wanted to see how people from my school would react towards me. soon after the guy i had a crush on started talking to my web persona and the bad thing is he has a girlfriend. so now we're texting and hes thinking im this gorgeous brunette and im confused because i really enjoy talking to him. hes someone i always had wanted to get close to before and now i basically am but not really myself. it bothers me i cant be honest with him and i dont want to be actually, its so much fun. but i do feel for his girlfriend my friend was talking to her and she had commented that she has a 'wonderful' boyfriend, but he is now telling the fake me that he wants to break up with his girl for my web persona......what should i do. PLEZ HELP!!!

2007-07-11 14:42:13 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating