So, I am going to be a Junior this year, I am 16, and there is a guy that is going to be a freshman. Don't freak out yet, he is only 15 months younger than I am. We go to church together, and I know he likes me and I like him. The only thing is, with him being younger than me, I don't know if I should go out with him. Also, he has this crazy ex, she is, well...not a very nice girl is the nicest way to put it. Everybody says to watch out for her, which kinda worries me a little bit. I could really use some help, what should I do!?
2007-07-11 16:16:13 · 14 answers · asked by SamiJo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Awww, this is romance girl! You being a junior and him a freshman isn't going to make too big a difference. If you guys are into each other, I say "Go for it!"
Don't worry about the other girl. If you guys really like each other, then she wont be able to stir anything up that gets to you.
2007-07-19 08:03:35 · answer #1 · answered by Lori 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a boy is 15 months younger than you that's no big deal. If he has an "ex" that's no big deal too! If you like the guy and he likes you go for him! Why mind a bit discrepancy in age and why mind his ex-girlfriend? Your on your own girlie!
Good luck!
2007-07-19 23:18:09 · answer #2 · answered by semyaza2007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the age thing doesn't bother you , why should you worry about it.. As for the ex, if he is worth it, you will learn how to handle the ex.
2007-07-19 19:17:15 · answer #3 · answered by WVPV07 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
haha well my girlfriend is older than me, only 6 months though. but i have a "crazy ex" too i suppose. she's caused trouble, but we're really good despite the circumstances. give it a try.
2007-07-11 23:20:04 · answer #4 · answered by brad c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi girl what's up hows it going dollface well 1st of all congratulations girl you got you a young one, and second of all yeah please watch your back i mean really watch your damn back for the tramp because she could be out to get you because she knows that you are involved with her ex- if it's anything you make sure you beat her a** before she gets your 1st. lol you go girl.lo take care and good luck please make the right decision.lol
2007-07-19 20:51:08 · answer #5 · answered by shame on them 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he's too young for you....maybe if ur 28 and he's 26 then it wouldn't matter...but right now...it would be wierd...u guys are not on the same level....unless of course if he's mature for his age...and about the ex girlfriend...go learn some kickboxing or something...so u can drop-kick her *** if she step out of line..lol..good luck!
2007-07-19 12:43:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't let 15 months stop ya girl!!! think about it...when your 32 and he is 31 it won't be a big deal at ALL! its just the grade difference that makes it weird now. and screw his ex..she is just jealous!!
2007-07-19 16:47:47 · answer #7 · answered by tayler 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to go out with this guy, it doesnt matter what age he is. and you need to tell him to talk to his ex about all this. you want the time u two spend together should be fun ! not with her in your way !! good luck !!! :)
2007-07-19 21:54:42 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Amanda Grace♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should follow your heart. If you think you should date him then don't let a "crazy ex" scare you away. If you like him, I say go for it.
2007-07-19 16:47:35 · answer #9 · answered by Mysterious 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you like him there is no reason not to date him as long as he is game for it as well, don't worry about the ex, there is a thing called a restraining order
2007-07-19 23:15:53 · answer #10 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋