Family & Relationships - 11 July 2007

I have had a significant decrease in salary and am on the verge of bankruptcy and so have decided to stop paying alimony. What kind of issues can I expect? Of course, I'll have to move out of state and will probably have a warrant on me, but should I cash in my IRA? What will they do to my Bank Account, etc?

2007-07-11 13:44:45 · 10 answers · asked by xblaine 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Going through a divorce,the cars are in his name the one I was driving, I couldnt afford so I went and got a new one in my name that was a lot cheaper, without trading the one in his name in, because it is in his name. Am I in trouble?

2007-07-11 13:40:12 · 9 answers · asked by Christy R 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-11 13:40:02 · 15 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-11 13:36:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

For 3 months I have been seeing this guy that works at the same company as I do. It has been pretty casual but I really feel we are growing a lot closer, we talk very frequently and find time to see eachther about once a week. He is older than myself with 2 kids and in the beginning he said he was not looking to get remarried or have kids again. I recently got of a long term relationship and was not looking for anything serious either. We have been seeing eachtother exclusively (and it has been AMAZING and just spending time with him in general is always so much fun). One of the girls I worked with asked me today if the guy was single and how old he was, she thought we would make a cute couple - but she has no idea we are really seeing eachother. I told him about what she said and he was like "well what do you think"? I didn't really answer and changed the topic. I am really falling for him, but how do I know if he is starting to think he might want somethign more? Something serious?

2007-07-11 13:36:17 · 7 answers · asked by E! 2 in Singles & Dating

Make a list of your top five most important traits you look for in a girl.

2007-07-11 13:31:28 · 15 answers · asked by Katelyn 3 in Singles & Dating

Would you ever date a playboy bunny? or would you look down at her and think she's a piece of thrash? in a fews years i'm gonna become one, i'v got the looks and the pay is HUGE so why not?
anyway i'm asking the guys this:
would you ever date a playboy bunny? or woud you think it's trashy?
thats my main concern.
Thanks!

2007-07-11 13:31:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-11 13:30:01 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-11 13:29:09 · 20 answers · asked by Chris 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-11 13:27:23 · 7 answers · asked by rsist34 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-11 13:25:51 · 10 answers · asked by pr1ncezz_sara 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I'm in a bit of a pickle, I think!! My fiance and I broke up almost three weeks ago and at the time, my two children and his son were all living together. My ex was throwing my children and I out of the house with nowhere to go, so in a bit of anger and desperation for my children to have a place, I took whatever money was left in mine and my ex's joint savings account and got a place. His family is saying that I stole his money, but it was in our joint account and I had contributed a little money to it. Am I to face charges or what-not for taking that money and closing out our joint account? Was I wrong for trying to provide a safe place for my children?

2007-07-11 13:25:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been married for about 20 years. I consider myself a good person, a good husband and a good provider, for my family. My wife and I have always had a rocky relationship. She's one of those people who is loud and flys of the handle easily. She fusses at me and we get into arguments a lot. She trys to embarass me at times and can be a real b---ch. Sometimes she's okay but most of the times she's not. I've never cheated on her because I'm not that kind of person. In the past few months there is a single young lady at work who is always polite, kind, and compliments me. I find myself looking forward to seeing her at work. Work was a real drag until I met her. She hasn't a clue but I think about her often. I know the difference between infatuation and true feelings but this lady is wonderful. Her compliments are genuine and she says she likes it that I listen to her and enjoys talking with me. Then when I go home at the end of the day, the bubble bursts. Is it wrong to I feel this way?

2007-07-11 13:25:01 · 9 answers · asked by Nash M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been married for about 20 years. I consider myself a good person, a good husband and a good provider, for my family. My wife and I have always had a rocky relationship. She's one of those people who is loud and flys of the handle easily. She fusses at me and we get into arguments a lot. She trys to embarass me at times and can be a real b---ch. Sometimes she's okay but most of the times she's not. I've never cheated on her because I'm not that kind of person. In the past few months there is a single young lady at work who is always polite, kind, and compliments me. I find myself looking forward to seeing her at work. Work was a real drag until I met her. She hasn't a clue but I think about her often. I know the difference between infatuation and true feelings but this lady is wonderful. Her compliments are genuine and she says she likes it that I listen to her and enjoys talking with me. Then when I go home at the end of the day, the bubble bursts. Is it wrong to I feel this way?

2007-07-11 13:24:07 · 16 answers · asked by Nash M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend is 16 years old and shes making a big deal about never having a boy friend or ever kissing a boy. I don't think its a big deal because a lot of parents don't allow there kids to date untill there 16 any way so i feel shes making a big deal out of nothing. So do you think that she should already have had her first kiss and a boyfriend by now or do you think like me and feel its not really a big deal?

2007-07-11 13:22:56 · 29 answers · asked by Sammy B 5 in Friends

well my husband died on sunday of cancer. we have a daughter who is 5 and when i was living with him i was a stay at home mom and he worked. he never had time to leave a will. and his mother and sister hate me and they are taking the house, car and all of his money out of the bank and we shared a account so i have no money in the bank i am broke i have no money, car,,job or house. well i am moving to my parents house tomorrow but i cant stay there for long. and to top all of that his mom and sister keep saying i killed him and i used him and all of this. and it is making it seem like its my fault. i cry every night. oh yea i am 7 months pregnant. i feel like i cant go on with life.what should i do?

2007-07-11 13:22:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My ex wants me back. He left me & slept with my underaged sister & got her pregnant, & she lost the baby. He apologizes & he's talking about cleaning up his act & turning to God & asking God & me for forgiveness. Would I be stupid or a sicko to get back with him?

I believe in giving people 2nd chances, but after that, no more. I'm not gonna lie. He put me through a lot. He has showed me lately that he has changed, & I'm really considering dating him again. We left off as having an annulled marriage because of him getting my sister pregnant. If we do get back together, where should we start? Back to dating, or engagement?

So should I get back with him or not?

2007-07-11 13:17:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Alot of guys say "why buy the cow when the milk is free?"...
basically saying that if the girl is already sleeping with them and isn't pressurizing him to marry her, then he isn't bothered.

doesn't sound like guys respect their girlfriends very much.

so why would you, or why did you, propose to your girlfriend? because you've met a girl who you love enough and feel is special enough for you to want to spend the rest of your life with? or just to keep the girlfriend sweet? would you have kids out of wedlock if you could get away with it?

2007-07-11 13:14:55 · 20 answers · asked by Chasey Lane 2 in Singles & Dating

i like a painfully shy guy.im sure he likes me to,coz,he stares at me,sometimes doesnt even look away and hold eyecontact.we smile at each other for ages be4 saying hi,he peeked at my work wen i wasnt n the room and caught him & he also pretended to accidentally take my book, then gave it back. opens doors, tries to get close

one day i sent him an email, inviting him to join one of those keeping n contact with friends sites(i took his email off the bord.he didnt giv it to me) he never replied.he got really nervous around me and stopped saying hi and making eyecontact.though my firends and i have still caught him staring at me.his friends stare at me and sometimes chat or say hi.one even winked at me!

then a few months on: he is standing behind me, staring at me for ages, i saw in the refelection. he looked deep in thought.now he says hi to me, opens doors.

i dont understand why he would give me all the signs of attraction then ignore me and then start saying hi? any explanations?

2007-07-11 13:14:09 · 11 answers · asked by girl 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a really good guy friend. We talk alot and I know I could tell him anything.

We also both admitted we have feelings for eachother, but we're just staying friends and waiting to see what happens.

The problem is sometimes I feel like this is taking a toll on me and causing me alot of stress. I guess I've never really been in this situation so idk what to do, and I feel uncomfortable being this close to someone b/c its unknown to me.

I forgot where I was going with this..Ummmm...

Oh so I was wondering do I just suck it up and admit that I have feelings and stop freaking out and trying to pull away, or do I get a little less involved b/c its uncomfortable for me?

O yeah and is it normal to feel this way?
Thnx!

2007-07-11 13:11:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay so my friend tried to set me up with this guy. so he emailed me and we've been talking like for two or three months. then she gave me his number and weve also been talking through texting. than i finally met him at this graduation party like two or three weeks ago..it was kinda awkward but it went fine overall. and now we want to go to the movies and start to hang out...but heres the thing im confused about - is he gonna expect us as friends or more than that? cause the whole point of us talking to eachother was to get set up...

im just looking for your point of view.
thank you sooo much!

2007-07-11 13:11:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my mom is suing my dad for the past child support he owes her for me and my brother and sister, we are all of legal age and think that that money should come to us since it was supposed to be used for us anyway

2007-07-11 13:07:02 · 15 answers · asked by kinnikki0523 2 in Marriage & Divorce

and she said she didn't like most korean guys because they reminded her of her sister (not even brother).

she did say she liked some korean celebrities tho.

why is this?

2007-07-11 13:05:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This boy who I went out with for a day (I broke up with him the same day cause he asked to do things with me) and he was, I guess mad that I broke up with him first and he kept calling me. Even after I blocked his number he called from his friend house, neighbor, cousin, step-brother... He got his sister to threaten me to go back out with him (he know where I live-who I live by) and he kept sending me messages 2:00 in da morning takling bout how I was gonna die (he sent me a message saying he knew what i did last summer and was my worst nightmare, and I was gonna die at 12:00 the next day) He sent it from his friend cell phone, so of course I was scared cause I did not know who it was. What do I do, how do I get him to stop buggin about me dumping him (I did it over the phone so how could he have been embarssed??)?

2007-07-11 13:01:31 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we are scheduled to go to court tom. am and have paid over 6,000.00 this month will the prosecutor not take me to jail?? I have filed for continuance. Because my attorney had to w/draw because of proff. diff. in this case. Her w/ draw has went thru however my cont has not anyone know ??

2007-07-11 13:00:50 · 3 answers · asked by fr.canadianyankee 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been going out with this guy for three weeks. We talk every day, and I've been over to his house. We get on really well and I can tell he likes me, but we haven't kissed yet. We've hugged, but that's it. Is this weird? We are 17.

2007-07-11 12:57:09 · 6 answers · asked by mels211 1 in Singles & Dating

im 12 an ive had 7 bfs i no it sounds crazy but i am sayin am i to young i dont tink i am my i tell my mom and she says thats awesome cause like she had one when she was in kindergertan and i had one in grd 2

2007-07-11 12:56:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-07-11 12:49:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

well see my two friends. today they were playing yugio cards. just to tell u im a girl and they are girls too. and when they were playing yugio i was playing with my ice in a cup and 1 of my friends said stop. and i said well u guys always bug me. and then the girl that said stop she said to me and looked at me in a snobby way no we dont. and i was like oh no she didnt. then just a few minutes ago before i left they went in the other room to talk. and i have a feeling they were talking about me. and this other time i hit the back of my foot on a chair and it hurt. and they didnt even ask if i was okay they just kinda laughed. before they went into the other room my friend said my skort was way ot short. and i was like to no really. and then they went into the other room. So are they my real friends???

2007-07-11 12:48:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

That's not the only reason why we broke up. I was asking where our relationship will go, even before and how do you know his mom is sick, ms. eva m.?

2007-07-11 12:44:20 · 5 answers · asked by Lois 1 in Other - Family & Relationships