Family & Relationships - 11 July 2007

I know my marriage is over.There's nothing, I'm just buying time because he's crazy.My family is poor and there's no room for me at there houses.When we married he swore to me that if I quit my job he'd always take car of me,(married or seperated)now he's saying I'll just have to starve.We have a 2 yr old child that he won't let me take and he has moved everything into his name and basically told me pack my thing and leave if I don't like it.All I litterally have is a car.The last time I tried to leave I open a baking account that he found out about and Totally chewed my head off.I have like $210 in that account.But that won't get me far.I asked the same question about 6 month ago and all the advice was good but he found out about the e-bay acct and the bank acct.He wont let me work.Just at the business he ownes and he doesn't pay me.I guess I'm just grasping at straws???Any legal advice would be great.Any Advice is great! I live in MSi.(There are no shelter's here.)
Thanks

2007-07-11 10:17:42 · 15 answers · asked by brooke s 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-11 10:16:32 · 14 answers · asked by Talon 2 in Singles & Dating

Hmmm what do you think about porn ?

this problem is pretty much all over the world..
we c it clearley these days.
does any body have anything to say about thats sickness ,,
ahh i`ve seen so many bad pictures and stuff on the Internet..
even anybody who spend time one the internet has probably seen wt am talkin about or atleast heared about it..!!
u know i really donno wt is this world gonna end up with..
U know it cant get any worse.
Arent thoses people who really do this sick things afraid that something will happene to them.
i mean we hear that some one have Aids or wtever thoses sick deseases..
anyway if anybody would like to comment on wt i said plz be true ..
Share plz.

Thx

2007-07-11 10:12:50 · 13 answers · asked by x*Broken*Soul*x 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a crush on this guy. He is friends with my friends.

We've been talking online forever, but not so much in person because we never had the chance.
Online, we end up talking for hours and it always seems as if he loggs on right after I do.
One time, i invited him for dinner with a bunch friends, but I didn't get to talk to him.
I'm afraid to ask if he wants to hang out, because I am being very doubtful, and I don't want him to think that I'm being clingy...
What should I do? Or what are some good ways to ask a guy out?

2007-07-11 10:12:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you get up in the morning with your husband? Also do you make him breakfast? My sister and I are having a debate, please help.

2007-07-11 10:11:22 · 23 answers · asked by PharmNerd 4 in Marriage & Divorce

this person asked this question but it doesnt show up on the forum...can you please help her

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AgrUoK8xOLEvXWpqNZ.Yq_vsy6IX?qid=20070711140609AAhUOWT&show=7#profile-info-fTXI34B5aa

2007-07-11 10:10:57 · 9 answers · asked by Life! 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so my husband is in iraq. i love him more than anything. but everytime he calls home he tells me how unhappy in our marriage he is. he says he loves me and wants to be with me but things need to change. everytime i ask him what i can do to help the situation he says "i don't know" ok so my question is this... even though i love him and want to make this work, should i ask for a divorce to put him out of his misery? he obviously isn't happy. we've been together for 6 years and he hasn't been happy. why postpone this?

2007-07-11 10:09:48 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

do you think that its possible?

2007-07-11 10:08:14 · 16 answers · asked by Darling. 3 in Singles & Dating

dinner or movie?Is going to the movies considered as more relationship like or just cheaper that taking you out to dinner?

2007-07-11 10:08:06 · 2 answers · asked by sophie c 1 in Singles & Dating

i mean, need to know

2007-07-11 10:07:03 · 34 answers · asked by Clubpenguin Maker 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my bf and i love each other but he cheated on me with my best friend and says sry and thinks everything is gonna go back 2 normal but wat should i do i still kinda like him but i think he's a player

2007-07-11 10:06:58 · 10 answers · asked by zoegirl021996 2 in Singles & Dating

I have had a crush on my best friends brother for two years. Now he stares at me alot and he talkes to me alot. Everytime he sees me he trys to show off and is always looking at me. What does this mean?

2007-07-11 10:05:27 · 7 answers · asked by teenqueen 1 in Singles & Dating

is it intimidating to some men that they try not to go on a date with someone who already have kids? what exactly is it? I like to know the real truth to this...

2007-07-11 10:04:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm playing in a friendly playoff of basketball. i'm 5'0. there are 3 other players. in the first game i played another guy who is about my height and won by 2 points, 11-9. in the other game, this college girl on our street beat a friend of mine 11-4! she's good. the thing is, now i play her, and she's 21 and tall! she's 5'7!!! how do i beat her.? i mean, i'm not scared of her, and i'm good, but she came up to me and i was looking up and going oh oh. she smiled and asked if i was ready? so i need help please! how can i beat her?

2007-07-11 10:03:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend have been going out n its usualy me makeing the first move. I feel like I'm in control n it makes me feel like he's just following as it were. I've tryed talking about it; he laughs, I trying just playing n saying ''you want it? come and get it'' and the like to get him to come to me as it where. but he don't pick up on it!

How can I hint to him about makeing the first move and kissing me first?

Thanks
xx
Rin.

2007-07-11 10:03:42 · 11 answers · asked by Rin 1 in Singles & Dating

I was wondering what the best way to handle this would be. We have gone a more - non-traditional route for our wedding invites. They consist of 4 things - the one outside envelope, the response POSTCARD (we are doing a postcard instead of an actual card with envelope), the invitation and the directions/hotel card. We would like everyone to know that they can bring a guest if they would like, but are not sure where to put it. Should we put on the outside envelope - & Guest? Would that be inappropriate? Please help! All ideas are welcome!
THANKS!!!!

2007-07-11 10:02:08 · 7 answers · asked by bobo9 2 in Weddings

We have filed for divorce. H then calls and says that he has made a terrrible mistake, he wants his family back, he has dumped the OW he left us for but he knows that I will never forgive him and he couldn't live like that so he is going through with the divorce.

Why bother telling me that when we are already proceeding with the divorce?

2007-07-11 10:02:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-11 10:00:24 · 26 answers · asked by tikkiquanna 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-11 09:59:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

iam always drinking all day & to fund my drinking i borrrow things from my friends & sell them, they dont know ive borrowed them because i dont tell them.sometimes i feel bad about it but i do buy them beer when ive got the money.can this go on or will i get caught out i dont want to loose my friends because i need to borrow stuff off em?

2007-07-11 09:58:48 · 7 answers · asked by lovebug 3 in Marriage & Divorce

do you ever feel like you are lost? or outside looking in? dating scene can be very competitive and sometimes not fun at all. what do you think?

2007-07-11 09:58:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so my best friend is getting so mad at me. Before she was like really good to me, but then i dont know wat hapenned to her she started being really rude to me. My every friend thinks that i m a really nice girl every 1 thinks that i m a really good friend, but i wanna know wat has happened to her. Before summer vacations i made cards for like my whole class and i made 1 for her too, i made 1 for her best friend haily too but by mistake i forgot it at my house and haily was like a kind of sad because every 1 got it and she didnt. Then i told her that by mistake i forgot her card at my home and then she wasnt sad but after that i saw my best friends card in the garbage can when i came online i wanted to talk to her and she was like stop disturbing me, u are so annoying, and she told me to shut the f*** up i was really sad tell me was it my fault? I wanna know serious answers. Plz help me with this problem and I cant leave her just like that. Plz give me serious answers and in detail.

2007-07-11 09:57:30 · 11 answers · asked by Romaisa 2 in Friends

2007-07-11 09:56:57 · 7 answers · asked by theskyisthelimit02 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Im living with someone who is graet hes been there and helped me so much expecially with my lil boy. Me and my husband have to much bad history and its impossible to work it out weve tryed alot but it just never works. I Know my ex-husband would still be willing to work it out cause even though im with someone else he claims to still love me the truth is I still miss him too but my life was just so bad with him and now I have so much better I just dont know if I should ignore the fact that i may still love him and try to be happy with my boyfriend or if I should still think there is hope for my marriage. Please help me make the right choice.

2007-07-11 09:54:03 · 16 answers · asked by starlet *red 1 in Marriage & Divorce

After 19 years of marraige to a women that is emotional and physcally abusive I just want to call it quits. The emotional abbuse has caused me to be on and off anti-depressents. Physcally she has never really hurt me bad but does blow up and hit me but not real hard. I have remained in the marriage so that my kids would have a mom and a dad. We put on a pretty good image in front of them though they do know we fight often. Am i doomed to just suffer the rest of my life or should I finally file for divorcee once the kids head off to college in two years?

2007-07-11 09:53:50 · 17 answers · asked by QCCP 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If you are talk to me! dolcezzamaria05@yahoo.com
I love men in uniform! 26/f/ny ohh and Im Italian ;)

2007-07-11 09:53:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband checks out other women, but everyone is always hitting on me an saying how hot I am. If I'm so hot why does he do that?????

2007-07-11 09:53:06 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have sole custody of my son who is 3. I started a job two weeks ago, and its during third shift. My ex is a crappy mother, and doesn't want anything to so with him. Here's the question. My brothers/wifes/sister is baby-sitting for my son while I work. She's had a rough time, so I thought I'd give her a chance. She watches him for just a little cash, but she also has a good roof over her head, and has to pay nothing for food or anything else. But, she acted a little nervous when I got home from work.
When I got up this afternoon I turned on the t.v., and there was a video in it recorder. It was an amature porn movie, I made years ago, when I was in college. I did a few video's to help pay my way thru college. I know it was her that had done it, because they were kept in my closet in a box on the top shelf.
1. she snooped in my room
2. she watched about 45 min of me having sex
3. she left it in the recorder
I'd like to talk to her about it, but don't know how.

2007-07-11 09:52:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my mate beats me up and anoyes me sometimes and im getting sick and tired of it all. have have stop hanging around with him but he still carrys on.

2007-07-11 09:52:19 · 16 answers · asked by adam w 1 in Friends

So how many of you like a girl to ask you out? I've always been more traditional and waited for guys to ask me but lately my dating has been below par and I'm thinking its because guys are expecting me to do the asking. So how do you feel about it? Is it too forward? Do you get a certain "expectation" from girls who ask you out?

2007-07-11 09:51:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating