do you think that its possible?
2007-07-11 10:08:14 · 16 answers · asked by Darling. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think so. I think it can be harmless. I've had a crush on a guy at work for almost a year. I met my current boyfriend a little later and now we are in love. When the guy at work comes round, I know that I'm attracted to him and we have similar interests, but it will never go beyond that. I'm totally into my boyfriend and would never intentionally hurt him. But that doesn't mean I'm not blind, and I'm certainly not dead. I just wouldn't cross any lines. Look but don't touch. Admire the merchandise but don't buy it. Watch the bait, but don't bite it!
2007-07-11 10:16:38 · answer #1 · answered by SlenderMillie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is possible that what you're feeling may feel like a crush, but the end result is that you're still in love with someone and you need to let go of that person before you can start developing feelings for someone else. It's only fair to the "crush" and yourself.
2007-07-11 17:13:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL! Oh, gosh you have to be really young. Try being married! Of course you can! It's normal, it's how you handle this crush that really matters. You know that its only a crush and that you are in love w/ someone else so take it for what it is and dont be so hard on yourself. If you are not married and my guess is that you are not, then you really have nothing to feel guilty about. Live it up and enjoy your youth and explore your options because you wont be young forever. Take care sweetie and good luck! :)
2007-07-11 17:16:02 · answer #3 · answered by lilpixie133 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because it's natural to have a crush on someone. If you love one person, you can certainly have a crush on another. Just be sure not to act on it and you'll be fine. Because when you love two people, that's the rough part!
2007-07-11 17:11:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, I belive its possible, but consider the fact it may be lust.. Sounds like the same thing Im going through, I feel like im in love with my bestfriend but I have a crush on htis guy Ive been seeing lately.
2007-07-11 17:13:20 · answer #5 · answered by Brittney B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, its possible, i am in a ong standing relationship, and i love him to death, but i have a crush on someone else. Thankfully the crush's flame is extinguishing.
2007-07-11 17:13:13 · answer #6 · answered by nekodragon1130 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
becca baby, Yes it is possible when you don"t understand true love ! When you truly love someone others kinda become just like extras in a movie.Just bodies passing by !
2007-07-11 17:20:02 · answer #7 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hmm maybe to some degree. if you arent involved in a relationship with the one you are in love with. I guess its possible then. maybe you dont feel that the one youre in love with is in love with you.
2007-07-11 17:17:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I think you can. It's kindof like having 2 best friends, it is deffinetly possable.
2007-07-11 17:17:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah its happened to my friend right now shes got a bf but she also has a crush on me
2007-07-11 17:11:43 · answer #10 · answered by mysterybryant 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋